Stargurl20:


All right.

Good.

The man pays her bills. Even dog must forgive the person that feeds it. Fūcking bìtches.

It's a very simple thing to understand.

Newboss:
The man pays her bills. Even dog must forgive the person that feeds it. Fūcking bìtches.

It's a very simple thing to understand.

Not all men pay bills. Not all ladies are dependent. Get that straight, uncle.

biafraisdead:

Even if u ain't married. Having more than one relationship these days is tantamount to having multiple sex partners(cos in the world of today there could hardly be a relationship without sex), so does that(sleeping with many men) not make u look dirty? Secondly, u will never open up to each of the guys u are seeing that u are equally seeing someone else, meaning u will be lying to them all, that is where the cheating is. This is why it is best to abstain from anything sex before u are married.

You're making sense Chief...

A woman by virtue and tradition is the home maker or builder,the man is the power house,since she is more affectionate than a man it is expected that she shouldn't be rash with her decisions,for example,women don't get turned on for sex easily as compared to men,in the case that this happens either she is sick or on a vengeance mission to avenge a chest.hate it or not the woman spends more time with the kids,so this isn't a small task,as a man,I would find it hard to forgive my woman if she decides to stoop so low from the high place I've placed her as my home builder.while my forgiveness may come in time she would have to earn it.i don't trust easily so I won't tolerate been humiliated by the one I trust.this is my opinion

When a man cheats he does it to satisfy the urge but when a woman cheats she does it out of spite or revenge or loss of interest in her partner

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

All around the world it will be hard for man to forgive a cheating wife/gf because it steps on a man ego

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

Madam you always act as if you have sense but sense is very far from you

Qatar2022:

Madam you always act as if you have sense but sense is very far from you

You sound so insecured.. thanks for proving my point right..

GoodHardDick:
OP, are you okay?

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP.

Let me tell u naw, I had an ex I paid a new house for to secure a job offer in Abuja,got her international passport and was preparing to register her for IELTS so we can both move to Canada. Can you imagine this stupid gal was having sexxx in that same house severally with another guy I later found out was the NYSC papa(all these Christain unions) and it made me flash back to the story she did tell me of how the guy use to go fvck one gal like that during their NYSC,not knowing she too is banging the guy.

How did I find out? A cheating girlfriend or wife is easy to catch if you as the man is observant . She came over to my house and started acting funny,denying me sexx and acting I don't care. The few times we had sexxx I discovered her pvssy was quite more widened than it used to be ,I couldn't feel anything. I quickly discovered something was wrong and had to target when she unlocks her phone. I learnt the pattern and opened it at midnight when she was fast asleep and saw the messages and pics of the guy giving her head,lol

I quickly gave her transport back to her base to make sure she's safe first . Then called off the yeye rship. She begged tire I no gree. If it's you Stargurl20 how would you forgive this kind person ?

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

You must be mad or something

Myexdisturbs:

Let me tell u naw, I had an ex I paid a new house for to secure a job offer in Abuja,got her international passport and was preparing to register her for IELTS so we can both move to Canada. Can you imagine this stupid gal was having sexxx in that same house severally with another guy I later found out was the NYSC papa(all these Christain unions) and it made me flash back to the story she did tell me of how the guy use to go fvck one gal like that during their NYSC,not knowing she too is banging the guy.

How did I find out? A cheating girlfriend or wife is easy to catch if you as the man is observant . She came over to my house and started acting funny,denying me sexx and acting I don't care. The few times we had sexxx I discovered her pvssy was quite more widened than it used to be ,I couldn't feel anything. I quickly discovered something was wrong and had to target when she unlocks her phone. I learnt the pattern and opened it at midnight when she was fast asleep and saw the messages and pics of the guy giving her head,lol

I quickly gave her transport back to her base to make sure she's safe first . Then called off the yeye rship. She begged tire I no gree. If it's you Stargurl20 how would you forgive this kind person ?

I will forgive, Mr. Do u know we humans are worst than devil himself?
As for me, I will forgive and give another chance, however, if the said person misuses that second chance opportunity, I will know I've paid my dues and never look back.

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

ok but if I find out we're more than one in basket how can I trust that you'll change in marriage hmm??
Women who say this are the ones that refuse to work with a man to work or fix their relationship when trouble arises they just leave since they already have options
Lol wahala for who still deh take woman matter serious

Yohans:
According to a British Psychotherapist, Philip Hodson, men often find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner, because it affects their masculinity, and to them, it might signal the end of the relationship.

Hodson, who is also a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, said, “Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions, but they find it much harder to forgive their partners for the same. For a betrayed woman, an affair by the man is an offence against her dignity, but for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”

Factual

Snow02:
ok but if I find out we're more than one in basket how can I trust that you'll change in marriage hmm??
Women who say this are the ones that refuse to work with a man to work or fix their relationship when trouble arises they just leave since they already have options
Lol wahala for who still deh take woman matter serious

Like I said, me not putting my eggs in a basket is to somewhat save my self from being heart broken and at the same time have nothing to call my own. If one of the men has now marry me, I do not see the point in keeping others

Dliquidmetal:
They are more common than yout think bros,they are weak men and that abounds this days. They might act tough outdoor but indoor they are pussies,they can not let go,they can not set boundaries,they aren't assertive,they are pseudo-masculine.

not just weak men bro solid Real niggas will "forgive" only to relegate you to sidexhick/fvckbuddy position last last na only you go use your leg run

Stargurl20:


Like I said, me not putting my eggs in a basket is to somewhat save my self from being heart broken and at the same time have nothing to call my own. If one of the men has now marry me, I do not see the point in keeping others

now isn't that what they all say?? Lmao
If only we didn't see them going back to recieve ex nigga dicc once in a while lol
And yes I'm talking from experience

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Snow02:
now isn't that what they all day?? Lmao
If only we didn't see them going back to recieve ex nigga dicc once in a while lol
And yes I'm talking from experience

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Do u relice if u simply show us booooobsi...we will forgive u, infact we will forgive & even pay u 100k extra!!!((TRUE STORY))

Simple answer is that men are selfish, self centered hypocrites.

CHoccolaTE:
Simple answer is that men are selfish, self centered hypocrites.

Same thing I've been thinking.

Stargurl20:



I will forgive, Mr. Do u know we humans are worst than devil himself?
As for me, I will forgive and give another chance, however, if the said person misuses that second chance opportunity, I will know I've paid my dues and never look back.

For someone who had sexx severally? It's easier for u to say BC you're not a man
You don't know what it means to be responsible to someone, pay their bills , shelter them and plan for them. You wrote like a woman and I wasn't expecting otherwise. Thank God fellow men know how to handle the situation

Stargurl20:



Same thing I've been thinking.

No wonder u have the biased idea,lol

Snow02:
not just weaken bro solid Real niggas will "forgive" only to relegate you to sidexhick/fvckbuddy position last last na only you go use your leg run

I get that,I'm glad you put the forgive in quote lol.
What about guys that genuinely forgave? To me na dem plenty pass o,after investing alot(sunk cost)and building fantasies in their heads it would be very difficult to move on. You see what this girls is saying up there? She doesn't want to keep her eggs in a basket but if the guy has the same mentality they would start gaslighting him for the same things they are guilty of,she wants to guard her heart but they man isn't allowed to guard his? Solipsism! And selfishness.

Stargurl20:

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

Imagine you're even cheating ,dating several men yet when the main one you're cheating on catches u and render u back to the street he picked u , same I will come here to cry

Stargurl20:

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

In other words he should trust you even though you haven't given him a reason to lmao

Stargurl20:



I will forgive, Mr. Do u know we humans are worst than devil himself?
As for me, I will forgive and give another chance, however, if the said person misuses that second chance opportunity, I will know I've paid my dues and never look back.

You are talking in the nonsense. If humans are worse than devil, you are equally saying there’s no devil anywhere. Madam, before you finally get sense, the mileage go don dey read minus 200k.

Snow02:
In other words he should trust you even though you haven't given him a reason to lmao

Of course! I've given him a lot of reasons to trust me.

Dliquidmetal:
I get that,I'm glad you put the forgive in quote lol.
What about guys that genuinely forgave? To me na dem plenty pass o,after investing alot(sunk cost)and building fantasies in their heads it would be very difficult to move on. You see what this girls is saying up there? She doesn't want to keep her eggs in a basket but if the guy has the same mentality they would start gaslighting him for the same things they are guilty of,she wants to guard her heart but they man isn't allowed to guard his? Solipsism! And selfishness.

lol personally I'm tempted to respect the op for being honest about her nature, all women do it and if she sees it as the best way to protect her heart then it is cool my problem is with the guy who invests his money/time/commitment to pay bills nd provide entertainment in hopes that she'll love him and remain remain faithful untill marriage aunty will carry same kpekus nd give a nigga who doesn't invest shiit all in the name of "flings" or putting eggs in multiple baskets
So now who loses in all of these?? Simple life hard

Snow02:
lol personally I'm tempted to respect the op for being honest about her nature, all women do it and if she sees it as the best way to protect her heart then it is cool my problem is with the guy who invests his money/time/commitment to pay bills nd provide entertainment in hopes that she'll love him and remain remain faithful untill marriage aunty will carry same kpekus nd give a nigga who doesn't invest shiit all in the name of "flings" or putting eggs in multiple baskets
So now who loses in all of these?? Simple life hard

I hardly request money from guyz. Even if I'm tempted, it will be in subtle ways. So, pls stop emphasizing this billing of a things as if I wouldn't survive without guyz.