I was afraid, when I heard that she is from a strong occultic or traditional family. The father was the leader or head of masquerade careers in a very popular town. Even though she was a Christian, I was afraid.

It's easy to have your post make front page on the forum

Smooyis92: that money wey dem dey display for that forum them go pay us or na just for fun

Stretch marks

Unrequited love, I just detached myself jeje n accepted my L in peace.

Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.

I have this babe I love so much to an extent I made my intention know to her. I went as far as traveling to her village and meeting her far away brother but I realizes that am just fooling myself.

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

Distance, uncaring attitude, lost of love, etc

playapayaski:
Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Love is more than everything you just mentioned. Some day you will find someone, you will not have any reason to want to spend forever with the person.

Emjace:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago. The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

The above happened yesterday... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

Now, you did the right thing. It means she would give in to him with a little push. Get yourself someone else and move on. Women are opportunists in nature and always looking for the next shinny object.

It was a phone issue(someone bought her a phone) that made a girl I was interested in to go cold on me... I endured it for 8 months as she stopped initiating convo...

The few weeks ago, I told her boldly that I have gotten her message and I will move on from here. I even told her to delete my number from her phone. she started telling me to calm down. I told her I have heard but within me, I had made up my mind...

2 days ago is the first time in 8 months that she would initiate a chat... I just responded and never did beyond that. If it took her 8 months to initiate convo, something she does before, because I took a tough stand to end everything, then she is not worth my time.

Many things...

Infidelity

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

Had a different view about marriage, prayed, looked deep, went spiritual (prayed and Fasted) and realized she is not the one....

CapitalBank:
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

you're wise bro

Michelle70:
She told me, "I see u as my younger brother"

You must be small in all ramifications.

chatinent:
When we went to Crunches and she said “do you have fowl?”

Lol

Nonexisting:
I have loved one woman all my life and she destroyed the love by stepping on my head to move ahead. After recovering from the financial mess she put me in, I realised that true and unconditional love does not exist in the heart of women. Now, I don't love any vaginarian and I don't even want any of them to love me.

so you be gay??

when i chop ghosting upon ghosting
i decided to respect the dead

I don't do love but like. If you start acting up, you're on your own.

Overbearing and entitlement attitude of the person.

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

I just woke up an grew cold

Destiblack:
No true love just choice of happiness in having someone for pleasure and support.

This might be true.

playapayaski:
Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Those quoting me talking about finding love someday n spending forever or whatever with the person.
Wake up
1. There is no forever, we all are going to die today or tomorrow
2. For the religious people, God loved n created the world including Lucifer, hell n all? His feelings never changed when Lucifer disobeyed, she he made hellfire? Oh it's just punishment for disobedience yes, but for ETERNITY?
LIKE I SAID, MY OWN OPINION, MY THOUGHTS. OH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A MOTHER YET WE SEE ABANDONED DAY(S) OLD BABIES EVERYDAY? UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT YOU WANT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THE MOTHER NOW, BUT ITS SUPPOSED TO BE UNCONDITIONAL.
NO FEELING IS REAL ENOUGH TO BE CLOSE TO PERMANENT, MY OPINION.
Drop the EMOTIONS n think, reason with the BRAIN, GOD GAVE US FOR A REASON.
PEACE

See a therapist for unresolved trauma.

You need help.

She had nothing to offer me only being a leech to me, imagine her telling me she doesn't want sex until marriage but has the guts to tell me that as her boyfriend am supposed to be taking care of her needs
Came one morning and told me she wants to travel to another state to help in making up a new bride and she needs some money for upkeep, I asked her if she has reconsidered the no sex until marriage stuff, she said no and that if that's what I want she can't continue the relationship. I just told her to go and think about it cuz I can't accept that condition from someone that's not a virgin
She left my house and blocked me on Whatsapp, I just deleted all her pictures and phone numbers immediately,
That happened last year November and she just called me last week saying it's been long she saw me and just wanted to know how I'm doing
She's one entitled mf, she couldn't even remember the stuffs I did for her and the money I've spent on her, just blocked me on Whatsapp and I didn't give a fck about it, didn't even call her up till today

I gat no time for entitled broke btches

I quitted the relationship base on no sex, though she is a virgin but i couldn't take it anymore after waiting for her more than 2yrs which i had to bleep call girls to quench my urge

Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.

Legit.

Westchester:
She had nothing to offer me only being a leech to me, imagine her telling me she doesn't want sex until marriage but has the guts to tell me that as her boyfriend am supposed to be taking care of her needs
Came one morning and told me she wants to travel to another state to help in making up a new bride and she needs some money for upkeep, I asked her if she has reconsidered the no sex until marriage stuff, she said no and that if that's what I want she can't continue the relationship. I just told her to go and think about it cuz I can't accept that condition from someone that's not a virgin
She left my house and blocked me on Whatsapp, I just deleted all her pictures and phone numbers immediately,
That happened last year November and she just called me last week saying it's been long she saw me and just wanted to know how I'm doing
She's one entitled mf, she couldn't even remember the stuffs I did for her and the money I've spent on her, just blocked me on Whatsapp and I didn't give a fck about it, didn't even call her up till today

I gat no time for entitled broke btches

when she calls again,ask her if she has reconsidered her decision?Bleep the hell out her for some time and dump her

Her problem too much

Do nothing about it, "daju", bone it, move on, be happy, make new friends, focus, don't give it attention, ignore it, as a weed uprooted from fertile ground, it will wither.

ukaface:
so you be gay??

Ode! He is not gay, but practising self love, which is the greatest and most important love. You have to look after the body God gave you. That includes getting rid of negative energies and females that has no value

SmartPolician:
It happened during my NYSC days many years ago. I met a girl in our place of primary assignment and told my friend (who later became my corper roomie) about it. Surprisingly, he started threatening me, saying he saw her first.

I told him that I couldn't fight over a girl and asked him to have her to himself. After series of attempts, the babe showed no interest in dating him because he's not her kind of guy.

When she asked me why I stopped getting close to her, I told her it was personal. Ever since, I cannot explain how I don't even feel anything for her and she is still single.

Who told u she is single

2 of them. Actually.

The first one, was always talking about her ex (he was murdered) which is understandable but after a year? It was as if she was still dating his spirit. I freed her fast.

2nd one, we didn't start dating, we were just friends but she behaves ATIMES like a possessed being. Doesn't return calls, replies chat after some days and always thinking she's the Miss world of our time. Too proud and full of herself. What made me leave her was when she said "all of a sudden people want to date her, guys that can't have mind to talk to her are now toasting her!?" (who do you thi K you are). Cut her off and the feelings died instantly.

Her lies and distance

Justice4Toto:




Ur room is not well ventilated
Not her fault bro

Ok. If you say so.
But as I said the Ac was on and so the windows closed.
The only window opened was in the toilet.
So all the beans, edikaikong, iru, chilli, efo, rice well famented in her tommy and extruded as shit had a very overwhelming aroma in my room.
Not her fault? Guess so.
But if she had told me she was pressed, I would have switched of the Ac, opened the windows for her to do her thing. It wount have been a shocker to me.
The turnoff was the shock.