It's a follow come vexing.

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

Since when did "Abeg, Please" became an apology?

Anywhere if you go to USA or any other country when you want to ask someone for a favor tear the person hot slap and then you ask for him/her for favor.

Yes, especially the men and sometimes the women are unpredictable, they can be overly dramatic. You are right. But the educated ones can be very smart. But you are right, they can be like that.

sukkot:
whatever it is they went through, it has made them very irrational people. they are the most irrational and emotional people on the planet. gotta watch yourself around them . any mistake and the gun may come out ' YOU DISRESPEKINN ME NIGGA ? IS YOU DISRESPEKIN ME BOOOMMMMMM you are a dead man. they will read your obituary in naija

lmaooo

Naija dey for reverse mood by default.

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

PotatoSalad:
"No wahala" is like "Aight" in English.

We say 'please' because we don't know the current state of mind of the next person in this country. You fit dey ask for directions from person rushing to pay ransom for his kidnapped son, or somebody that just lost his life savings to Racksterli, or a lady that was just served hot breakfast.
Make dem no transfer their aggression to you

you are a full blooded Nigerian

My night, lo gun shot. That's true Sha, but they still have good ones among them.

They came from us, most of them came from Nigeria, so they are still us even although it does not seem so.

If one wants to study what a Nigerian can evolve into, in a negative situation, I think we can learn from them and they can learn from us. It goes both ways. But one has to be careful around them.

sukkot:
whatever it is they went through, it has made them very irrational people. they are the most irrational and emotional people on the planet. gotta watch yourself around them . any mistake and the gun may come out ' YOU DISRESPEKINN ME NIGGA ? IS YOU DISRESPEKIN ME BOOOMMMMMM you are a dead man. they will read your obituary in naija

lmaooo

#one, because all Nigerians are hangry!
#two, we r used ti saying that shi

YorubaKing:
1. A sign of respect.

2. Re-affirmation.

OP, I don't see anything wrong in these things... You're simply trying to create a storm in a tea cup. I think your brain needs an oil change.

None of the above sir.
1. Its a way of respecting one's self and the person you're asking the question from.

2. Its a way of preventing or avoiding insults cos you may not tell if the person get skushy for head.

3. Na small thing you go do to insult people for here

chatinent:
Is it that everybody is angry by default or what?

The Sapa is real

inderhappy:



Exactly you've to apologize first before anything

Sometimes, you even have to thank them before they render the help

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

We do it because we are Nigerians, do you want us to be Kenyans??

Only applied to AFONJA people.

The person you're approaching did not know you and taking the person time to ask questions one need to caught is attention

Its like, why do Americans drawl, have dollars, walk tall, play country music , like apple pies, obsess with space travel and slap their thighs, crying yeehaa!

If you did away with all of Americas foibles you'll kill America and have, say, another replica England. Wouldn't the world be poorer for it?

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

it's the best way to approach people... That's why the foreigners enjoy us!

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

Ask 9ja goggle.

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

Those are Nigerian slangs, we're used to it just like the American slangs

Abi eleyi n shiere ni?
Our default response!!!

90% of Nigerians you see on the streets walking around are frustrated who are ready to devour you if you misbehave.

shevchenko:
You

You never see canada then.They can say sorry eh

Reason me Canada.

Shegzdave:

Sometimes, you even have to thank them before they render the help

You're on point

chatinent:
Is it that everybody in Nigeria is angry by default or what?

Default culture/courtesy sort of...

Make I think am

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chatinent:
Is it that everybody in Nigeria is angry by default or what?

You no know? Everybody (at least in Lagos) is a boiling pot of rage inside... just waiting to unleash on the unfortunate person.

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

Are you not a Nigerian??.. Why do you also do those things you mentioned above?

Because we all know We all on standby Para-mode ..

The shixt this country did to us

The first reason is illiteracy.

inderhappy:


You're on point

Naija na cruise

Ontop that, they go still first look you like beggar....

Their first motive is any stranger that greet them is a beggar

Are you telling me it is only in Nigeria that we use it Your story get as he be oooo

Honestly

Shegzdave:
My brother, Everybody in Nigeria is angry by default