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Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by oluwafavourme(f): 1:32pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
My brother, I'm a woman but I can relate. I mean anyone that won't compromise must be ready to weather the storm The following has helped me 1. Rely on God .. Give your life to Christ ,hand over all and trust Him 2. Pray,Pray Pray 3. Be diligent in whatever you're doing ' seest thou a man who is diligent,He shall stand before kings and not mere men" 4. Give give give,....there's sty about it... Truly,givers never lack 5. Pray,pray,pray 6. Stay away from cutting corners... E no fit pay you on the long run 7. Take it one day at a time 8. Look for things that makes you happy. Do them(music,movies,novels. Etc) Thats all I have for you... May the Lord be with you 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by BLoomfrancs(m): 1:33pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by aktolly54(m): 1:33pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
KVN1:done . Just keep praying and have good behavior, things will change with time 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by NwaIgboBoy(m): 1:34pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Go for Suicide dear, that was what I did last year when I was in this condition. |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by travelzcruix: 1:35pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Well what ever you are going through is just a phase. All religions talk about suffering, quite bad if you are in a religion that glorifies quik prosperity. Your choice of belief is up to you, whatever you are going, see the best part of life. From my deduction food is the problem for now, my brother keep pride aside. In Europe Naija guys are doing more just to escape hunger. If you live in a city, find restaurants, Las Las most restaurant owners are mother like except for some few Jezebel's. Talk to her that you will be assisting in errands like washing plate, pounding yam, Cleaning, loading the fridge in exchange for food. You will be shocked at the amount of positive feedbacks you will get. It might just be a stepping stone to greater good things. When you have fixed the problem of hunger, you can now have the energy to even learn anything. Don't be deceived, brain work requires a lot of body resources. Finally if miraculously you get out and make it, remember the streets you came from, don't spend all on women and drugs, fund enterprises that will give people the chance to escape this hardship. Lastly be gentle on yourself. The idea in your head that everything thing is wrong should be thrown to the garbage. Find a meaning to your life by finding a clear path to spirituality. Find that thing that still connects you to your God and do more of it. If you belong to a church, volunteer to arrange chairs or sweep. You will be surprised at how God can transform your life. I'm outta here. Lastly the choice is yours to make. I can't live your life. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by LeyeWrites: 1:35pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
KVN1:So have you now eaten n? |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by KVN1(m): 1:36pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
aktolly54: I'll keep this moniker in mind...May the good Lord never forget you as you have in mind to gift a total stranger like me with money. I'm teary right now 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by Hassanmaye(m): 1:36pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
MansoryMX:True 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by KVN1(m): 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LeyeWrites:nothing for now |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by Juicy001: 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Pour your energy in one place, if you're just hoping you'll get a job randomly omoh u gats ready for extra wahala, pick any hand work like barbing and focus on it, might take time but its better 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by LeyeWrites: 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Mjanee:lol...dem dem. A millionaire and he couldn't bless the kid with money. Who cares how much you make if you can't help a fellow human in need ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
SultanOfPuna:Weed cost money na |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by NOwazobia: 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
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Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by LeyeWrites: 1:38pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
KVN1:drop your acc, let me help with daily bread. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by KVN1(m): 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LeyeWrites: God bless you sir. may you never lack 0151715164 GTBank |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by melonsgroup: 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
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Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by AlphaStyles(m): 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
you are broke and confused? op me as i dy like this i am broke,confused,lost and depressed and to make matters worst the economy isnt helping either coupled with high cost of schooling and living.i can feel what u are feeling and i can tell u that this pain u are feeling right now is only temporary believe me sometimes u will cry sometimes u might feel lyk ending everything BUT DONT GIVE UP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by aspabay(m): 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Prechgold1180: He needs that moment of self-reflection before h can make meaningful progress. Just set apart 1 to 3 days for a personal retreat. if you can add prayer and meditation ot it, better. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by LeyeWrites: 1:42pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
KVN1: ![]() |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by kennyansome: 1:42pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
[quote author= A depressed person can't think straight. OP,if you can do bus conductor for some weeks to save up and at least feed fine pls do so. They make 3 to 4k daily after two square meals,that's if you're in lagos[abeg i'm interested in this. Any help from you?] 1 Like |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by gstelly: 1:44pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
You'll be okay, I am a 200lvl student of AAU last semester it was a kind nairalander that assisted in paying my fees, my boss refused to pay us 3 months salary. Finding it difficult to eat and go to school...at times I contemplate suicide and quitting school 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by melonsgroup: 1:45pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LeyeWrites:I bought the bus for transportation business ooh But na engine remain sir. I be graduate but no job I want to be useful to myself 1 Like |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by KVN1(m): 1:45pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LeyeWrites:Boss,God bless you richly Sir |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by Prechgold1180(m): 1:46pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
aspabay: Omo nah naija we Dey who Dey hungry nur go fit do reflection Nah to steal go Dey enter ur mind 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by lollybizzu(m): 1:49pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by EazyMoh(m): 1:50pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Done |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by freesoul12: 1:50pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Learn skills that wont take u time to know. If ure type that love taking risk.. Learn trading although it will take u time before u actually understand it. But it worths taking.u may not need people to guide u through there are lots of books and videos u can read and watch. Just pick few indices pairs to study. Like US 30.. Ger 30.. Always get update with positive or negative news that have impact on dat index.. US 30.. News dat has to do with its component :Apple,Microsoft,JpMorgan Walmart, Dow Inc nd more. Just sign up with XM and download mt5. Keep practicing nd do not put money at all. U can also freelance some services which u dont really need to be skillful at.. So far u can read write and type. I was broke more than u yrs back.. Na dis digital stuff bail me out. U can watsap me on zero 8 zero 62 four 0 25 five 2. Note Im not teaching or mentoring u.. Just to send u materials or give u d youtube videos to watch. 1 Like |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by NOwazobia: 1:51pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
eskuvoisrael:someone is looking for a sure way, you are giving him a probable way? Life! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by Kwara1stson: 1:52pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
madukaanaya:but una dey do drugs and baby factory |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by franchasng: 1:52pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
KVN1:Not everybody likes sending PMs, when in this type of situation, just put your phone number or account info in case some people wish to assist u. God will see you through 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Broke And Confused, I Need Your Advice. by NOwazobia: 1:54pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
NwaIgboBoy:Mad people always hide under so called anonymous forum... Mad people too full nairaland. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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