Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift.
He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.

This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.

What do you guys think about it

You are responsible for achieving one of many possible destinies on your path (based on your choices, decisions, other factors), however, the woman you marry and live with has everything to do with what choices and decisions you make in life. I'll give you a simple example

You have a very big presentation tomorrow, and you need to stay awake tonight to study and make final prep. You're about to go and study, but there's an argument between you and your wife. After the argument is resolved, there is sex to wrap things up, and you're exhausted... till tomorrow morning. You didn't prepare, and your presentation is a flop!

You can call the woman evil all you want, but it was your choice to avoid the argument and sex, knowing you have a presentation the next day. It's on You, however, if your wife had cared about your presentation, she could as well have been supportive and given you a break. That's why they say a woman can make or break you. It's not because she has power over you, it's because she has a reset key you may need frequently

He is only clowning around due to the gift..
Looking at human psychology people say things to make you feel great....

You are more likely to be praised when you offer someone a gift so don't be decieved by mere words..

He is speaking from a traditional and moral angle which anyone can say..don't take his words..
Be yourself and do what you want cos only you know what you want for yourself..

Let me be real with you OP;

Send me some money and watch me dish out my own piece of advice and bias. Try it and see .

FERNANDEZISBACK:
He is only clowning around due to the gift..
Looking at human psychology people say things to make you feel great....

You are more likely to be praised when you offer someone a gift so don't be decieved by mere words..

Nope bro isn't about the gift . What he said about marriage is somehow a fact in Igbo land is not proper to got a girl pregnant before going to see her parents.

Na good advice him give you... Although e still make sense to taste engine before you buy.

betcliq:

Nope bro isn't about the gift . What he said about marriage is somehow a fact in Igbo land is not proper to got a girl pregnant before going to see her parents.

That was why I said he is speaking from that angle which anyone can say..it all revolves around human psyche..

You are more likely to give him a gift when next he comes cos why he told you something which you believe in...
Mind games..

Sundrus:
Na good advice him give you... Although e still make sense to taste engine before you buy.

I just tire oo Man, what he told me is just opposite of my plan. I have wanted to get a girl pregnant before going to see the parents.

betcliq:
I just tire oo Man, what he told me is just opposite of my plan. I have wanted to get a girl pregnant before going to see the parents.

follow ur instinct... But I no go advice u make u give girl belle come go dump her. Any girl wey u wan give belle, u need to dey sure say u go marry her. Except u be one of those guys wey prefer babymamas.

All what he said were things an adult male should have known. It's not spiritual. Even your parents could have told you that same thing.

It was an advise.

betcliq:
I just tire oo Man, what he told me is just opposite of my plan. I have wanted to get a girl pregnant before going to see the parents.

It was a coincidence. It's psychology that's toying with your mind.

betcliq:
Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift.
He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.

This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.

What do you guys think about it

the old man is partially correct except on the sex part,you must test who ever you want to marry sexually to see how compatible the union will be,if you like sex a lot then it will not make sense to marry a frigid sexless woman

The old man stylishly told you to avoid daughters of Jezebel else they ruined you. Be wise.

betcliq:
Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift.
He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.

This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.

What do you guys think about it

Bro, don't be Alfred.

okoroemeka:
the old man is partially correct except on the sex part,you must test who ever you want to marry sexually to see how compatible the union will be,if you like sex a lot then it will not make sense to marry a frigid sexless woman

Nwanne mu that part got me thinking how me wey be guy man no go see the unclothedness of the girl I want to marry , I go test run am na

You better adhere strictly to all he told you. Most people don't know the implications of sex before marriage,it's way beyond common knowledge.

Hmmmmm

betcliq:

Nope bro isn't about the gift . What he said about marriage is somehow a fact in Igbo land is not proper to got a girl pregnant before going to see her parents.

You say? I pity you. You better don't frustrate your life by your self, alot of women have done abortion, and used postinor, you better be sure of what u are getting married to

Na everything u go dey post

Well, that's your own story.

January 1st, 2021. There is this neighbour I have. This neighbour is who Slawormiir would call a Real Nigga - always changing girls like condom per round.

On this day, they was this very fine girl he brought that was so beautiful. very beautiful. (Me sef I confirm am).

Brother Ike, came to me on sighting this beautiful girl cooking for our Real Nigga.

"Oboy, wida na? You see wetin Real Nigga carry come?

Chai! if to say I never marry".

H

Damnnn niggar
Bros op is not a real niggar

Dey allow old man hypnotised you


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.............that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life

In most cases ..... YES!

Behind every successful man, there are two women.
His mother and his Wife!!

Words of wisdom from the elders.

We Rise.

He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life

Is this about tradition or fortune-telling? I no get

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ok

That old man told you the truth, follow his advice and you will live long.

This I have seen.