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Is there any witchcraft bigger than this?

It will come back to hunt you.
It won't take time.
Life is built on principles and depend whether you believe in God or not certain things are left never to try.
Your type will come and start blaming women tomorrow.

Is Obama not the former president of Zimbabwe? Na one guy dey argue with me here! Check My Updated Signature (In Aboki voice)

Am currently in a relationship with my cousin, but am planning to marry her not to give her bele..

hmm.
This ask is 10 years too late. And your best friend depending on his emotions could kill your cousin, himself and you.
If your friend had known earlier, he would have gotten over it and see the kids as adopted and therefore his own but for the 2 of you to hide this from him this long is terrible. And can you imagine the number of times, he's left you alone with his wife ( your cousin ) and the number of times you guys must have shagged behind his back. Even if this was not so, The thought / the seed has been sowed.

Solution
1. Do a blood test to confirm if indeed you are the father.
2. If you are the father - Then know that your friendship that day has come to an end. Likely that of his marriage. as well. If he loves the kids he would still support them and if he loves your cousin, he will eventually forgive the betrayer.
3. You have to get some elder and family members involved to act as intermediary .

If you are someone like me that doesn't talk much and lives in a different country then just cut off all ties and keep the secret to the grave. But if you are still in contact and are present in their lives - bring the Issue to the forefront and deal with it .

Wear a bloody condom guys !!!

Speechless

Issokay!!!

I don't pity any man having sex like dogs because of a relationship. See 10 years suffering and tears in future

This witchcraft pass be careful

21savages:
Am currently in a relationship with my cousin, but am planning to marry her not to give her bele..

No crime in that as long as it's not forced. I doubt if your people will support the relationship.

aanuoluwami14:
I don't pity any man having sex like dogs because of a relationship. See 10 years suffering and tears in future

Well, what he did was shameful in this part of the world. I hope he doesn't regret it.

OH NO. NOT AGAIN

MufasaLion:


No crime in that as long as it's not forced. I doubt if your people will support the relationship.

Am a muslim and i can marry her according to islam.

21savages:
Am a muslim and i can marry her according to islam.

Yes, you can. Will your parents allow that? This is Africa, regardless of your religion, they might term it as a taboo.

MufasaLion:


Yes, you can. Will your parents allow that? This is Africa, regardless of your religion, they might term it as a taboo.

My parent are religious people not traditional.

21savages:
My parent are religious people not traditional.

Good for you, bro.

aanuoluwami14:
I don't pity any man having sex like dogs because of a relationship. See 10 years suffering and tears in future

So men shouldn't have sex at all, Haven't you had sex?

I really pity the innocent "best friend" ...

Do you foolish men now see the importance of DNA test?

Felimax:
It will come back to hunt you.
It won't take time.
Life is built on principles and depend whether you believe in God or not certain things are left never to try.
Your type will come and start blaming women tomorrow.

You are wise.

Stupid things happening this days

There are some things best avoided in life for you to have peace of mind. I once faced something similar from a cousin who professed love to me but I simply turned it down and I'm glad I did today which is over 12yrs.

This poster now isn't comfortable knowing the kids celebrating 10yrs are his and not for the "best friend" married to his cousin and one day he will challenge that his friend to get back the kids. Guys especially need to be careful with the opposite gender, kings have died from their cunning and manipulative ways.

Favfables1:
I really pity the innocent "best friend" ...

Is he deserving of pity? a girl that has been ignoring you for while all of a sudden changed, started throwing herself at you and your instincts won't tell you something is off?
A sensible guy should be able to tell when a girl is pregnant and avoid anything intimacy with her. Most men today are proud fathers of kids that aren't theirs and that is a statement of fact.

The earlier you take it off your mind the better for you, I wonder why the lady even agreed to that.

Omo