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Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Acidosis(m): 2:58pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
aminusodiq: Is this how you go about invading your brother's home because he bought everything in his house? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Acidosis(m): 3:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh: I think you should ignore some comments here. Your concerns are very valid. However, it could be that your sister in law was deliberately planted in your home to monitor your movement. This might continue for as long as your husband is away. Moving on, don't give your in-laws the impression that you want the girl out of your home, rather keep talking to your husband. I don't agree that his parents influence all his moves. The decision to keep the girl in your house or not fully rest on his shoulders. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Olunmercy56(f): 4:08pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
aminusodiq: Then he should send the woman out and be having sex with his sisters 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by KingAlayinde(m): 4:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh: Stop that's me and my husband mentality abeg.. just do ya own best okay ..., What's goes around comes around..... Nobody knows tomorrow so try to sow a good seed ya kids can reap from the family in future......... 2 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Cookie14: 5:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
I have had inlaws live with me, and am a very tolerating person . This pple showed me hell,when my mum comes over they quickly tell their mum who in turn starts getting angry that my mum was around. I endured till the day I said myself enough is enough. I reacted and asked them to leave this was after 7 years of tolerating shi...y asses. I can only advise any woman to allow inlaws to stay only if ur spouse sets boundaries and they respect it. Move out of that house when ur rent expires 19 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by aminusodiq(m): 5:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh:I understand better now... tell your husband to tell her to leave... or better still inform your husband you'll be visiting you parents for a month... she'd leave if she realise shed cater for her own feeding. Sorry for my earlier comments 18 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Truvelisback(m): 5:26pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh:When u married ur husband, u married his family. Live with them peacefully, if u have any issue with any of them, tell ur husband. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Abikeade11(f): 7:03pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh:the issue is with your mother in-law not allowing you see her as your sister, assuming you people are living has sisters , believe me you wouldn't have to complain because she will be useful to you in so many ways, but this one she's acting her in-law role perfectly then they will surely be a problem. 3 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Nobody: 8:50pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Jeferious: 8:57pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olunmercy56:And sex is the greatest benefit a man would get from his wife in marriage? Mentality dey this life 16 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Atk1nson(m): 9:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olarhhh: it's your husband battle, dont fight it for him. it will be very insultng for you to walk your inlaw directly or indirectly from your house. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ravensckar(m): 11:23pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Some in-laws can be a bit excessive, however, this mentality of me & my husband alone isn't the right approach to marriage. These people (your husband & his siblings) have been existing before you came into the picture, if not that you're seeing them as 'outsiders' I believe you would have found a way to get along with them. Funny enough, when you ladies want to marry into a family, you'll be acting all nice & accomodating. After marriage, you start showing your true colours. If it's not about your mother in-law today, it's about your sisters and brothers in-law tomorrow. Make una rest abeg. PS- one of my sister in-law lived with us for about 2 years and my wife always quarrels with her (her own sister o). At a point, she accused me of sleeping with her just because I don't pay heed to all her baseless complaints. I stood my ground and told my wife that her sister is also my sister and that she's there under my invitation. Na that time she get the message. Nonsense! 9 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Nobody: 5:02am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olunmercy56: Olunmercy56:. You too don't know anything about her, so how are you sure what she would've done? |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by GboyegaD(m): 5:18am On Feb 02, 2022 |
What are your husband's plans to relocate you to where he is? Why did he leave you with his family member staying with you? One question that comes to mind is: are they trying to monitor you? If your husband isn't coming soon, encourage him to rent another place for you or allow you move back to your parents in the time being. 8 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by NoToPile: 5:49am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olarhhh: Nigerian in law relationship 101 1. No money dropped by their son 2. The inlaw is rude because you are a wife. The point it they won't understand, that's how a lot of inlaws are wired. They will expect you to feed their child despite the fact you are struggling and the girl will even be rude to you on top the matter. Maybe you should try telling them your hubby didn't drop much and you are even paying gbese and can't cope feeding an extra mouth. I doubt that one will even work because the mentality will be is she not eating why can't she feed our daughter too and they forget that ordinary food is now very expensive in Naija. 11 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:02am On Feb 02, 2022 |
KiNg0G: Shior! 2 simple people |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:04am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olarhhh: Correct answer! 9 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:13am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olunmercy56: His sisters will give him kids.... 6 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:16am On Feb 02, 2022 |
ravensckar: Rubbbbish!! Your wife is also you and to override her like that is silly of you. Your ego is too large for that self contain you are renting. REST! 7 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:24am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Atk1nson: Insulting ke! The solution is simple ... donot come home randomly.. tell your hubby you are going to visit your parents and do video call, let him see it is true then sleep off by mistake... call him in the middle of the night so he knows you are in your parents home but could not get to your house. Once your sis in law cannot get in she will have to find someone to sleep Apologize profusely but repeat next week on another day till she gets it profusely. If she has a spare key pretend the lock there now spoilt or even spoil it then change it for that reason and do thay give her a spare. She only enters when you are around and you often sleep off at your parents Increase to 3 times a week of sleeping off... video calling your hubby so he knows you are not cheating. Never ever let people feel they can push you around without consequences. Always apologize profusely after giving her this punishment..... she will stay in her father's house. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ybaby: 9:56am On Feb 02, 2022 |
ravensckar: odeee you think i am your slow wife.... take a jump arindin 3 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Lostchild(m): 11:49am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olarhhh: Do not maltreat or deprive her of anything good. I almost critisize you until I saw that part, "she is rude" I guess her character is what is pissing you off? ADVICE 1. Show her love and be more patient. 2. Communicate your feelings to your man, that you need a bit of privacy from family. 3 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ImaIma1(f): 12:04pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
sisisioge: They will go back to their parents and twist the story and they will see the wife as bad. Very typical. 11 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ImaIma1(f): 12:06pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Jammey6551: One way traffic. 6 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ImaIma1(f): 12:13pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: Unfortunately, her husband's foot has refused to touch the ground. Someone that is afraid of his parents and cannot stand up to them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ImaIma1(f): 12:25pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Couples should be given privacy especially in the initial period. The only problem here is your husband not being able to stand up to his family's influence and interference. I don't like such interference; family trying to get in our business. I don't condone it. If your parents stay in the same city or you have a family member there, just pack some things and go spend a week or two there. Allow your SIL fend for herself till she decides to find her way home. 9 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by viceddy95(m): 1:00pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Couples should be given privacy, that's how it starts, before you know it the woman start turning her husband against his family all in the name of privacy but no privacy when it's her family member... 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Cornerstone2018: 6:13pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Let one of your younger siblings who doesn't tolerate nonsense come spend sometime too. 6 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ImaIma1(f): 7:00pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
viceddy95: Ok now. Let his own family move in with them so that they can monitor her so she won't turn their son against them. 3 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Mindlog: 7:07pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Olarhhh: How old is the sister-in-law living with you? |
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