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What I Discovered About My GF by acecouture: 1:05pm On Feb 04, 2022
I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it.
But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her
I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her ,but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by dawnomike(m): 1:10pm On Feb 04, 2022
acecouture:
I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it.
But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her
I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her ,but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
She confided in you about her health challenges and now, you want to leave her. So much for the so called love

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by chukwuibuipob: 1:12pm On Feb 04, 2022
undecided
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Olunmercy56(f): 1:19pm On Feb 04, 2022
dawnomike:
She confided in you about her health challenges and now, you want to leave her. So much for the so called love

Ladies should pray for matured guys not the ones with no secrets or sense undecided it's a matter of choice! It's not by force. So why asking people here the question

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Jeon(f): 1:22pm On Feb 04, 2022
acecouture:
I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it.
But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her
I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her ,but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing.

you are not the perfect person for her [vice versa ]..
MOVE ON
ANOTHER GUY WILL LOVE HER COUNTLESSLY.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by MJBOLT: 1:22pm On Feb 04, 2022
Oga if you want to end things and move on with your life then so be it, don't let anybody shame you by saying "you are not matured".

If you were the one with health issues,I doubt she will stay with you undecided

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by chukwuibuipob: 1:22pm On Feb 04, 2022
sad So he should carry the burden/collect from the disease? U can ask the Op to give u her number/matchmake her with any of Ur unmarried brotha
dawnomike:
She confided in you about her health challenges and now, you want to leave her. So much for the so called love

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by MufasaLion: 1:25pm On Feb 04, 2022
I understand your angle, brother, but you must know that for her to have confided in you, she's seen you as a mature and trusted partner. Don't betray her by breaking up.

You can both visit a clinic and consult a physician. Help her in getting a medical care (I didn't say you should foot the bills, it's not compulsory). Be there for her. Leaving her right after she told you her assumed greatest secret would be perceived as being cruel and insensitive.

I wish you both well.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by chukwuibuipob: 1:26pm On Feb 04, 2022
coolNah so.A non sexual relationship but spiritually got PIDisease..Well,it can be treated with antibiotics but his girl nah street dawg b4
Jeon:


you are not the perfect person for her [vice versa ]..
MOVE ON
ANOTHER GUY WILL LOVE HER COUNTLESSLY.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by oyalunasamuel(m): 1:56pm On Feb 04, 2022
Well said.
MufasaLion:
I understand your angle, brother, but you must know that for her to have confided in you, she's seen you as a mature and trusted partner. Don't betray her by breaking up.

You can both visit a clinic and consult a physician. Help her in getting a medical care (I didn't say you should foot the bills, it's not compulsory). Be there for her. Leaving her right after she told you her assumed greatest secret would be perceived as being cruel and insensitive.

I wish you both well.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by shilenji(m): 2:36pm On Feb 04, 2022
Bro
First is trust your instincts above all.
I don't see such health issues serious,they can be treated. You can decide not to proceed as a boyfriend but you can be there as a friend.

But still,trust your instincts.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by udomonday: 3:02pm On Feb 04, 2022
dawnomike:
She confided in you about her health challenges and now, you want to leave her. So much for the so called love
love is not blind these days.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by cybriz82(m): 3:06pm On Feb 04, 2022
U call her ur gfrnd yet u want japa Liv her...just advise to go for treatment before e go late..
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by sorextee(m): 3:07pm On Feb 04, 2022
If u really love her, carry her go clinic for treatment. Abi d disease no get treatment ni?

U suppose even thank God say she tell u. If na wicked person, she for connect u with d disease like Bluetooth make una suffer am together.

Now in English, this is d time she needs you most, don't because of these break up with her. If it were you, what would u have done? You don't know tomorrow. Stand by her, you still have nothing to lose, even if she eventually leaves you cos wherever she will go, she will always remember you. Anyway, we see things differently so our own perception or definition of love might be different.

I wish her healing.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Saintmary(f): 3:22pm On Feb 04, 2022
Where are these girls picking these ignorant boys from?




Na wah o

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by AstroG: 3:54pm On Feb 04, 2022
Don't be pressured in accepting the responsibility of taking care of her,cause if the other gender was to be in your shoes,they will done far worse

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by AstroG: 3:57pm On Feb 04, 2022
Saintmary:
Where are these girls picking these ignorant boys from?




Na wah o


Same with the Girls

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by wiseone28: 4:09pm On Feb 04, 2022
MJBOLT:
Oga if you want to end things and move on with your life then so be it, don't let anybody shame you by saying "you are not matured".

If you were the one with health issues,I doubt she will stay with you undecided
Supported

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by user32(m): 4:25pm On Feb 04, 2022
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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by shilenji(m): 4:47pm On Feb 04, 2022
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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Tallesty1(m): 5:27pm On Feb 04, 2022
Olunmercy56:


Ladies should pray for matured guys not the ones with no secrets or sense undecided
I don't see what brought maturity into this. She's got a problem that he can't deal with, it's best that he leaves instead of being with her out of pity. That's even maturity if you ask me.


You women leave men for simpler things and nobody is crying foul.

It's a good thing that she told him now and it's a good thing that he's taking his decision now.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by ednut1(m): 5:29pm On Feb 04, 2022
acecouture:
I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it.
But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her
I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her ,but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
so you made research and yet made a fool of yourself. The conditions have nothing to do with sex. Virgins have it too

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Rickmann: 5:32pm On Feb 04, 2022
acecouture:
I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it.
But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her
I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her , but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing.

She needs you now more than ever.
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 04, 2022
She opened up to you now, you decided to use it against her.

That is why most girls will hide some things from you and even pregnancy from another man because you men don't like the truth.

I pray the next one will not be open to you. Anything you find out later, you take.
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Freddykrueger: 6:03pm On Feb 04, 2022
Guy run! Run o! Japa! Just delete from that relationship. No talk say dem no tell u. Let her go marry d person who infected her.
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by CheedyJ(m): 6:30pm On Feb 04, 2022
Love this days is so fickle..anyways, if u can't love her beyond her health challenge then break up with her, it's still within ur right...
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Nobody: 6:40pm On Feb 04, 2022
grin guy PID naa petty infection caused by bacteria, a woman can contact it from a public toilet, abeg if you love her, tell her to start treatment, or get drugs for her from the nearest pharmacy...

Love this days is trash... U all think love is a child's play? But Op this is not the right forum to post this stuff... You need to post it in romance section so that redpillers can see it fast and give you sweet and nonsense advice grin I hope my crush GoodHardDick sees this fast, he gives good advice grin

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by 2chymex: 6:41pm On Feb 04, 2022
PCOS and PID can be treated.

Googling diseases like that and seeing those things might make you scared.

As a professional and some one who has insight in things like these.

I'm telling you that she can be cured.

Enjoy your relationship.
Don't loose a good person over little discomfort.

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Re: What I Discovered About My GF by 1F30M4(f): 6:53pm On Feb 04, 2022
Hahahaha lmaoo ignorance is really a disease, I see the OP is not alone but I think he is better off cos he actually thought it wise to search for answers on Google which some have not even done but are quick to spew trash here.

Back to you OP, you're doing the right thing. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. I really thank God too cos you'd only make it more difficult than it is for her already.
Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Judybash93(m): 7:36pm On Feb 04, 2022
I have no right to tell you what to do but i don't think we also need to have anything to do with what is going on in your relationship

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