Ladycewhy:
If you were compelled to stay with a man because of traditions, you literally have no choice than to accept it.

And your talking about materialism makes it seem like only women of old worked hard because as far as I know I see women everyday hustling .

Martinez39s:
*singing*

Bad man looking good in dioooor.
Bad man drip to core.
Sport cars packed in the right spooot.

*walks out of thread* Mteww.

Truvelisback:
My point is that, their love, loyality, and respect for men they claim to love is based on materialism. I.e his wealth. No woman loves u for who u are, they love u for what u have and can provide for them.

Ladycewhy:
The women of old who you claim had all this things were denied access to educate, compelled to perform terrible traditions like widow treatment ,denied inheritance and so on. So if they loved and were loyal in the old days but were rewarded by maltreatment ,it's not surprising that the only excuse you can give for men not liking women is materialism.

Truvelisback:
They weren't denied access to education, neither were they compelled to perform terrible traditions. They weren't even maltreated. Their love was real. They chose to marry whom they love, their parents only guide them. In some cases, where the parents tries to oppose the marriage probably because they think the guy isn't that financially bouyant enough to marry their daughter, she stays strong in agreement with her man to ensure the marriage works out. Now, how many single ladies would the same in this present time?

Funmmyastic:
You are right.Nairaland misogynists can keep on denying this fact.

Ladycewhy:
It's a normal reaction from misogynists. Being on the defensive and even calling you toxic for calling out their bullshit is normal reaction you would expect from such people.

Misterdhee1:
Ok, let's say you're right. But will you also accept that no woman loves any man truly and that whatever feelings she has towards him is hinged on his ability to provide?? And that on the other hand, men actually love their women irrespective of their status or ability to support??

Misterdhee1:
Ok, let's say you're right. But will you also accept that no woman loves any man truly and that whatever feelings she has towards him is hinged on his ability to provide?? And that on the other hand, men actually love their women irrespective of their status or ability to support??

Ladycewhy:
Infact most intelligent ladies don't like to come to nairaland any more because of the trend that has been going on.

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

Ladycewhy:
I am right, not let's say.


He provides while the woman is the care taker,the therapist ,the psychologist, the emotional cushion, the tolerant, the maid, the baby making machine. Etc. All this regardless of status or "ability to support".

Martinez39s:
*singing*

Bad man looking good in dioooor.
Bad man drip to core.
Sport cars packed in the right spooot.

*walks out of thread* Mteww.

Biglittlelois:
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Childish......you will grow up and develop sense one day.

BigJoe19:

Ladycewhy:
Most men dont like women.


I have personally heard a married man say " after devil fear women" and it struck me hard. If he feels that way about women in general ,then one would want to wonder why he is even married to a woman in the first place.

CaveAdullam:


1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Martinez39s:
You wanna break bread with me?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Biglittlelois

Biglittlelois:
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A truckload of trash.....as expected....combined with lies and whatabouism with a little dose of Kruger effect...


The earlier you dings realise feminism is not out to shortchange your way of life, the better for you all to be at peace....on a second thought, enlighten yourselves through Google with a beginners guide on the definition of feminism, then go from there

The next time you want to gaslight, truth or a semblance of truth should be your watchword. Eve never blamed Adam for the apple, instead Adam blamed Eve for giving him the apple as if she forced the apple down his throat, which coincidentally is what is prevalent today, you men will never take the blame for your wrong doing, you all prefer to push it to the so called "weak" gender just to feel good with yourselves

Op made good points here that everyone has noticed, from multiple thread of insults and degradation of women, to pure hateful lies and assumptions. She took us back to the past of how it all began, from female mutilation to education denial, bride price, rights to vote and so many ills, all you could come up with is "cherry picking" as if it never existed

Look around you today, you keep using the rants of women being opportunistic as if it is the time of old where women are married off to men who can provide while she makes the home, and even at that, our mamas are still hard working market women and farmers. You claim we are opportunistic, how many of you will marry a woman who isnt working or can stand on her own today? Women everywhere, from the market place to shops and offices are doing exploits yet you come here to rant on and on, whereas cheating working mothers in the process cos at the end of the day, they are made to have multiple responsibilities of takinh care of the children, the home and run 9-5 jobs, while you men are only running 9-5 jobs

You men destroy the world from the time of old till now, from world war 1&2, the holocaust, Hiroshima, Pearl Harbour, to the corruption nuisances of Nigeria, armed robbery, cultism, kidnapping, terrorism etc. Look at what China, Russia and USA are doing today, showing and threatening each other because of ego and comparison of who has more military might than the other, you men keep destroying the world over and over again, you don't see any female ranting and crying and wailing about it making it a gender war, instead you little men will scratch your faces in pain cos women did this and that, opening threads filled with gnashing of teeth on women, look at the redpill thread, more than one thousand pages filled with dissecting women(I can never understand the level of joblessness and excruciating pains going on there)like we are the cause of world problem, you men caused segregation, gender war, and tribal racism on this forum, go to politics section and see how emotionally daft you all are intellectually with your tribal wars,

You guys are not logical beings, you have shown that over and over again with your consistent cries every single day, and Op is simply right in all she said, she made good points except you want to twist instances and real life issues just to suit your baseless narrative, accept these facts and move on, we are not your problem, you are your own problem, so do well to deal with your insecurities and hatred of women without dragging us into it.

Biglittlelois:



I see you.

czarr:
TRASH!

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Prove her wrong or keep mute..

czarr:
You obviously don't get alot of attention in real life.... beautiful girls who get a lot of attention are not usually this bitter. It's well, drink water and take heart.

czarr:
TRASH!

Ladycewhy:
Put on your thinking cap,that's if you have a brain at all and counter my points.