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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by porthouse7(f): 4:42pm On Feb 04, 2022
bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round . grin
hmmmm legend
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Rickmann: 5:37pm On Feb 04, 2022
Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

Gbogbo Awon "my pastor said , no sex before marriage"
I greet una ogrin
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by QueenAgbo(f): 5:49pm On Feb 04, 2022
Fake story by writers working for seun.....

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by QueenAgbo(f): 5:53pm On Feb 04, 2022
Sonnobax15:
grin
Addiction to blue film is different from addiction to porn tongue

Porn specialist weldone sir.
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by mike404(m): 6:24pm On Feb 04, 2022
bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round . grin
YOU ARE VERY SMART.
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by udomonday: 6:27pm On Feb 04, 2022
he doesnt want you to discover that he is a one minute man.so he uses masturbation to increase the duration,
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by lasisi69(f): 7:29pm On Feb 04, 2022
Onyiiobi7735:
The destruction porn causes in marriages and relationships is terrible. And the spirit behind it is very powerful indeed.
Pornography is a form of worship to Beelzebub and Ashtaroth in this Jet age.In ancient times,these mighty Dark Angels were worshipped through temple prostitution,sex cults.
I know and believe these parts smiley
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by macanakii: 7:37pm On Feb 04, 2022
brosom:
Marriage dey ooo


Meanwhile, you could have noticed all this while u re still courting, this are one of the reasons why I don't buy no sex till after marriage because u don't know what parkage u you'll unrap after delivery.

Court for 20yrs, if you will buy market, you will still buy it. Sex is not the only problem people encounter in marriages

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by brosom(m): 8:14pm On Feb 04, 2022
macanakii:


Court for 20yrs, if you will buy market, you will still buy it. Sex is not the only problem people encounter in marriages
look at who's talking, and u simply don't know a thing about marriage and More the lady didn't talk about any other problem other than her husband sexual behavior which is weird and heartbroken.

Do u think if it was not of concern she would sick for help in an puplic forum? I'm not sure u re married, but when u do, only then you'll understand the impact of sex in marriage.

Just so u don't know, sex life in marriage contributes 70% to 80% of successful marriages u are seeing today because it goes beyond bond.


So shut up and learn.!
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by macanakii: 8:35pm On Feb 04, 2022
brosom:
look at who's talking, and u simply don't know a thing about marriage and More the lady didn't talk about any other problem other than her husband sexual behavior which is weird and heartbroken.

Do u think if it was not of concern she would sick for help in an puplic forum? I'm not sure u re married, but when u do, only then you'll understand the impact of sex in marriage.

Just so u don't know, sex life in marriage contributes 70% to 80% of successful marriages u are seeing today because it goes beyond bond.


So shut up and learn.!


Smiles... I did not come to NL to argue, and there's no need to explain to you whether I'm married or not. So I will shut up as you've said.

Just one request from you, Can you pls link me to the publication of the research you did that gave you the 70-80% you mentioned ?

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by brosom(m): 8:39pm On Feb 04, 2022
macanakii:


Smiles... I did not come to NL to argue, and there's no need to explain to you whether I'm married or not. So I will shut up as you've said.

Just one request from you, Can you pls link me to the publication of the research you did that gave you the 70-80% you mentioned ?
You won't still believe it if I refer u,

But use ur tongue to count ur teeth and tell me the number.
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by macanakii: 8:41pm On Feb 04, 2022
brosom:
You won't still believe it if I refer u,

But use ur tongue to count ur teeth and tell me the number.

smiley I get that.
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by rickpat(m): 9:37pm On Feb 04, 2022
Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?
...it's more of psychological...the man believes he would last longer if he first masturbate...the thing there is,let her calm down have a talk with him,boost his sexual ego,be patient and let them both learn and try to improve their sex life...then see a doctor if need be...but the big issue here is..WILL THE MAN AGREE OR SEE THIS AS A SERIOUS ISSUE OR PROBABLY MENTAL ISSUE?..let the man cooperate,the lady be patient and they will both fix this

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by bluebay(m): 9:55pm On Feb 04, 2022
Veggieseedies:



1 min man
Thank you… Don’t you ask how come no girl ever got pregnant for you? Bros nor be smartness, go check and treat yourself . Standing stick
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Cmanforall: 10:51am On Feb 05, 2022
Watch what those ladies do there and do to him
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Cmanforall: 10:52am On Feb 05, 2022
Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?
Abi na you? grin
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by arantess: 10:52am On Feb 05, 2022
Goldbw122:
He doesn't want you to get pregnant.. may be he has another wife and kids somewhere else and he just want to keep you as a side chick. Sorry.
His wife as side chick?
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by 46arcadez(m): 10:53am On Feb 05, 2022
Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?
Ok
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by baralatie(m): 10:55am On Feb 05, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
And who's sending all this messages to you...all the time..? undecided
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by arantess: 10:56am On Feb 05, 2022
Rickmann:


Gbogbo Awon "my pastor said , no sex before marriage"
I greet una ogrin
Well, lots of persons kept themselves till after marriage and it's working out well for them...

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by lifenija: 10:56am On Feb 05, 2022
he dey watch porn to bang u
now he no dey bang u again


women are plain stupid looking for better solution is not a solution for lot of them
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by lifenija: 10:57am On Feb 05, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
And who's sending all this messages to you...all the time..? undecided
him to him self
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by obembet(f): 10:57am On Feb 05, 2022
bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round . grin

Legend speaking from experience grin.

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Flier: 10:58am On Feb 05, 2022
Kelvin30286063:
Weird? It's not weird but it's wrong. Some guys will know why it's not weird. He simply wants to get rid of that first quick ejaculation so he can last longer.
DOnt mind her,the guy is doing it to avoid premature ejaculation and I think it’s perfectly normal
As time goes on maybe 1 year or 2,he won’t be doing that again and he will be lasting longer in bed
New couple always have problem with premature ejaculation until after some years
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Benresmy(m): 10:58am On Feb 05, 2022
Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?
You sure say no bi u dey do amm? undecided undecided undecided
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by ruggedboych: 10:59am On Feb 05, 2022
Veggieseedies:



1 min man

Him don fuc.k you before, how do you know he's a one minute man
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by jice(m): 11:00am On Feb 05, 2022
You are not moving him. Go to him for a heart-to-heart talk
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Flier: 11:00am On Feb 05, 2022
rickpat:
...it's more of psychological...the man believes he would last longer if he first masturbate...the thing there is,let her calm down have a talk with him,boost his sexual ego,be patient and let them both learn and try to improve their sex life...then see a doctor if need be...but the big issue here is..WILL THE MAN AGREE OR SEE THIS AS A SERIOUS ISSUE OR PROBABLY MENTAL ISSUE?..let the man cooperate,the lady be patient and they will both fix this
As a man There is no way you can last longer in bed if you have not been having sex for a very long time,the guy is just using the style as a short cut,with time he will adapt so I don’t think he need any help
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by YellowMayor(m): 11:00am On Feb 05, 2022
bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round . grin


I guess you are guilty of this too grin

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by ityP(m): 11:02am On Feb 05, 2022
MufasaLion:


You really believe in this trash you typed? Pathetic!


The first part of his comment is right though. Porn and masturbation are stuffs that damage a marriage. It damages life sef
Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Feggie3: 11:02am On Feb 05, 2022
Onyiiobi7735:

Lol! My belief doesn't affect you in any way,so why were you ranting like a rabid dog? If you don't believe in God and the Supernatural, that's not my business,so why extend it to me?
If you were not a sentimental fool, you wouldn't take my comment personally as if you were having a beef with me.
Look at someone that believes in God how heshe is insulting everybody around. Jesus have mercy!!! shocked angry

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Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by 0bamaMessi: 11:02am On Feb 05, 2022
ruggedboych:


Him don fuc.k you before, how do you know he's a one minute man
vegetable prick

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