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Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Adabilaal: 4:02pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Bro tryna go to church. It's very important. It will change your mindset It is said, do not forget the gathering of brethren as in the manner of some. Believers gather together every service time. If you believe in Jesus just get your ass and go to church tomorrow. Also I'll advice you marry if you're financially ready and start modifying your friend list bro If you keep waiting, you'll never be ready 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Maxwell775: Useless boy, go and get married. And go to church.... ![]() On a more serious note, your girl wants a man who would take the lead in spiritual as well as other affairs. And your mom does not want to die without you having gotten married...it's the way of elderly women and men with kids (just wait till you achieve her age with kids who are tardy about getting married, and you will get my drift) So, think about it. If you are not ready for all that...fine. Not by force. But be prepared, young man life is not forever. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Biglogo(m): 4:03pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
U are matured and know what is good for you, so the ball is ur court. One glass of skirt pls 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by juman(m): 4:03pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Is there something like evening service in the church. Maybe you can attend that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by rickpat(m): 4:04pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
let no one pressure you to marry o ...if not your marriage might turn out to be a community project i.e a marriage where family always settle issues..lol...you need to be mentally ready first,then financially...please don't let anyone push you. ..make up your mind...and picture the kind of home you want...going to church is not a bad thing but only that doesn't guarantee a great home...so paint the picture of a home you want...check other qualities in your present girl. ..if you two are good together to a large extent then you could start thinking of the marriage. remember NO PRESSURES 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Orente21(f): 4:04pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
bayocanny:Hello |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Alabo7978(m): 4:04pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
AFvckingAlpha:mumu. not your advice, but the way you type. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by atdscentofwater: 4:05pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Are u mentally ready?, eventually its ur life 1 Like |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Klass99(f): 4:06pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by chloride6: 4:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
No let anybody pressure you ooh? |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by HIbreed(m): 4:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Don't ever get married! |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by abobote: 4:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
And what is your for not wanting to get married |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by jumper524(m): 4:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
If people ask you say you sure say you ready for marriage, my brother your not ready. But if these question is not there, then your 20% ready. And you need at least 70% readyness b4 thinking about marriage.. |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by MadeMan01(m): 4:15pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Never let a woman nag you into marriage. They will not be the ones to bear the burden of responsibilities. Marry on your own terms and to a woman that adds value to your life and does something for a living. If she has more than 700 Instagram followers and not in entertainment or TV, don't take her serious. Entertainment girls should not be taken seriously 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by DukeNija(m): 4:15pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Very few men are ever fully ready to settle down. Most of us weren’t ready but God was ready. Infact, no matter how prepared you’re premarriage, you can never be fully ready for marriage. Marriage can only be learnt or prepared for once in it. If you both have a source or sources of income, you’re good to go. Oga go and marry and stop giving excuses. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Tribu(m): 4:19pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Maxwell775: This one na pressure? ![]() |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Newboss(m): 4:19pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
No just reason any nonsense they tell you. They're women. They naturally no dey reason logically. They love to follow the crowd. Wahala for man wey wan go marry. If you don marry, you be ode and mumu combined |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by lereinter(m): 4:24pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Is it ball that's preventing you from attending a good church? How many gf you get Are you thinking you're too young to marry or you think of the financial implications. Sometimes it's not good to delay marriage especially when you have a godly woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Aaae: 4:25pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Don’t let them force you 1 Like |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by yewawa: 4:29pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
The fact that she goes to church Wella does not make her the best girl for you my brother......she might turn out to be the regret of your life(am experiencing that regret now).What I am saying now is bro...don't be rushed,don't be pushed by anybody...including your parents,infact,they should be helping you to get the best prayerfully.And you,pray anyhow you want to pray to really get the best for yourself...concentrate my brother,it's a terrible experience with a bad wife..... 4 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by omolasho: 4:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Op. Encouraging you to be spiritual itself is a harmless cousel but the fact that over the years inept, unskilled and ill-educated ladies hiding under religion to "catch" gullible young men is disturbing. Mums instrictively love us, but sometimes If you bow to mum's pressure, you may not necessarily pick a wrong mate, but you are most certain to marry at the wrong time. Oga hold something before you marry because outside is not easy after marriage o! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by LordOfTheGame: 4:35pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
I will be on the side of every one of you now. Your mama, your babe and yourself. First your MAMA: Guy try settle that innocent woman with the only request she asked of you; grandchildren. You don't really need to marry before you achieve this. Just target your babe and do the needful. I buried my papa last Dec and it still me that he didn't live to see my kids even though he already has some from my sister. Your Babe: I know how girls with this kind of talks dey act. She wants a Godly marriage and home, she goes to church very often like too religious but she might stil have a side guy by the corner in case... or that is wiping her in your absence. She is using the religious things to coerce you into committing with her. Lastly You: Bros why you no wan marry na? Look make I tell you, marriage is not that difficult as people would want us to believe. Forget about all these "if you're emotionally, mentally and financially ready" things, it all depends on whom you meet and wants to marry. Ask yourself, are Okada and bricklayer people who're making little money not getting married? You sef go fit still do am, just get one babe way her senses correct and start with her. It doesn't matter how little but the main thing is that you 've started and trust me, that your vision of building an empire will still be realized. You can't play away your future in the field, since it didn't work out for you in the field you should open up other channels. Marriage is one of such and your hidden blessings and potentials will manifest. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Jayslyder: 4:35pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Why u sef no won go church??u dey follow God fight?? 1 Like |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by JoseRaji(m): 4:43pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Maxwell775: Dude. You're 31, and still harbour a fantasy of playing football for your country? Still glorify playing football on the street over settling down as a man? I just hope that when you're ready to sit down and make a decision about your future, your "girlfriend" wouldn't have moved on from you. Think about your life man... There's time for everything. Also, who says that doing good and reading bible can be used to replace attendance in church? Sigh... All the best to you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by kendological(m): 4:48pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Maxwell775:We are agemates, I don't go to church because I stopped believing, I live in Kaduna, play football Saturday before business and Sunday. Marry when you're ready and to a lady who is okay with your choice, as long as you don't interfere with hers. BTW I need a lady who is content with my lifestyle, if interested, quote me or dm me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by BigBashiru: 4:49pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
SQLmastar: My dear I no go lie to you, its better to catch them young.... how does one find out nysc clearance location in their state?? |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by kendological(m): 4:49pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
AFvckingAlpha:Who religion help? |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by uthlaw: 4:50pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
blinking001:you finished talk for here ooo...you even get tired of the pussy! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Dmacqh(m): 4:51pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
This isn’t pressure boss . Speed kills yet cars continue to speed . Life isn’t straight . Though I’m a young aspiring footballer , it can’t replace my God or His Day ( Sunday ) with football, never ( yes God own from Mon-Sun) no argument . It’s in the 10 commandments. Try and balance . If it was the girl that was pushing you to marry , it would have been a different ball game . But your mother . You see , mothers continuously wants the best for each child , they can give their life , same as fathers , I’m speaking as a witness . My dad is my biggest supporter and backbone , and my mum is my prayer warrior. So if tomorrow they said I should lay my life for them to live , I will do it for them without thinking twice . Are you not financially okay ( house , car , business , investment) etc ? Is your girlfriend not wife material ( working , educated, submissive, loyal and faithful ) ? You can go to church and still play your Sunday football . I’d that when I lived around Onumonu Street , Owerri . Football starts by 8am , so I go for either 5:30am or 5:30pm mass. I think that’s the advantage of been a Catholic. I know some Pentecostals also have different church time . Someday you won’t play football again , you may get injured or get sick , so don’t think you can’t do away with football . NB : those saying don’t get married , tell us the right time and age to get married ? Who fixed the time and date ? What the sign you are ready for marriage ? I pray to make it early in football, and settle down . As an Igbo person , marriage is part of my culture . The merits and demerits are the spice of life . 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by uthlaw: 4:53pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Adabilaal:what is special about the marriage! Who de share money for church.. He should abandoned is friend because he want to get married, read what you post again,is there any sense in it? 1 Like |
Re: Help!! My Mother And My Girlfriend Are Putting Pressure On Me by Clinghton: 4:57pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
You're not ready to marry from the look of things, marriage requires sacrifice. |
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