Another jobless man on the loose. Surround yourself with women/people of substance. They will not hear. Only to come and be wailing when they keep chasing slay mamas.

SmartPolician:


Don't change the topic; the role of women in the life of men.

I have made my point. Those who want to learn should. Those who don't want to learn should forget it.

I won't reply you again.

Leave him let him keep deluding himself and not take corrections. Op keep chasing slay mamas you hear. When you've finished wailing, drink water because this harmattan is not a joke. You might just suffer a heat stroke.

Raychee:
Another jobless man on the loose. Surround yourself with women/people of substance. They will not hear. Only to come and be wailing when they keep chasing slay mamas.

I hear u, aunty substance wey get job. These goes beyound slay mamas.

Truvelisback:
There are men living without women. As for the magnet, i am not that magnetic to women. I'm very selective when it comes to women. No matter how beautiful or sexy ladies may appear to me, negative characters from them easily piss me off.

There are four categories of men according to Christ Jesus
There eunuchs who were born with ability to stay away from the desires of women
There are eunuchs who are trained to control their desires of women
There are eunuchs who receive as a gift
There are eunuchs who are castrated.

Even with that it is impossible not to be magnetic to women and women not to find a man magnetic because both will always come in contact with each other to cohabit or do business

Magnetism is not necessarily about sex.Imagine the kind of people a Jeff bezos attract.the kind of minds that will want to associate with
Same thing with a lady like Beyonce people do not realize she has a sharp eye for talent or if you look locally in Nigeria.the kind of person Okonjo will draw as magnets(obviously she will not find a lazy uneducated guy magnetic atll)

baralatie:

There are four categories of men according to Christ Jesus
There eunuchs who were born with ability to stay away from the desires of women
There are eunuchs who are trained to control their desires of women
There are eunuchs who receive as a gift
There are eunuchs who are castrated.

Even with that it is impossible not to be magnetic to women and women not to find a man magnetic because both will always come in contact with each other to cohabit or do business

U are right.

Truvelisback:
I hear u, aunty substance wey get job. These goes beyound slay mamas.

When you work on yourself, you attract the right set of people. Even if it's not 100% of the time, it would be the most. If you make yourself available for useless people, you buy what you bargain for. It's that simple.

Raychee:


When you work on yourself, you attract the right set of people. Even if it's not 100% of the time, it would be the most. If you make yourself available for useless people, you buy what you bargain for. It's that simple.

Work on whose self? I'm talking the materialism of ladies as their basis for their love for men. This is not to say that all ladies are materialistic. However, the non materialistic ones are very, very rare and very, very few to find.

Truvelisback:
Work on whose self? I'm talking the materialism of ladies as their basis for their love for men. This is not to say that all ladies are materialistic. However, the non materialistic ones are very, very rare and very, very few to find.

Yet okada men, drivers, labourers are getting married. Are those ones materialistic too? But you want the flashy ones na. You don't want the homely ones. So manage their begi begi. It's great that you acknowledge that not all girls are materialistic. However, it's not that rare. You're just looking in the wrong places or looking for them on a wrong foundation/basis.

Raychee:


Yet okada men, drivers, labourers are getting married. Are those ones materialistic too? But you want the flashy ones na. You don't want the homely ones. So manage their begi begi. It's great that you acknowledge that not all girls are materialistic. However, it's not that rare. You're just looking in the wrong places or looking for them on a wrong foundation/basis.

Bravo! U have an outstanding point. Yet Okada men, drivers and labourers are getting married.

Truvelisback:
Bravo! U have an outstanding point. Yet Okada men, drivers and labourers are getting married.

Thank you for listening to my TED talk.

Raychee:


Thank you for listening to my TED talk.

Lol, i am gonna create a thread that would resolve this issue btw ladies and guys here.

Truvelisback:
Lol, i am gonna create a thread that would resolve this issue btw ladies and guys here.

Don't bother. Unless you want to entertain yourself with the bashing that will come from left and right. Both genders may never come to a ruse. We will continue to bash each other till the end of time. It is just left for the wise ones to make the best of whatever situation presents itself.

Raychee:


Don't bother. Unless you want to entertain yourself with the bashing that will come from left and right. Both genders may never come to a ruse. We will continue to bash each other till the end of time. It is just left for the wise ones to make the best of whatever situation presents itself.

Bashing? Lol, i am not a stranger to bashing. Besides, i am not a onesided person. I call a Spade, a spade, irrespective of the gender.

Truvelisback:
Bashing? Lol, i am not a stranger to bashing. Besides, i am not a onesided person. I call a Spade, a spade, irrespective of the gender.

Lol Oya now. Create. Lemme buy Popcorn and Coke down.

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. If not for sex and child bearing, 99% of men in this present time wouldn't have anything to do with women, relationship or marriage. Considering the high rate of materialism,entitlement from women as their bases for love for men. On front page, u hear if he is still using 2012 car, i can't date him. I'm not in any relationship because i haven't met men that are richer than me(Natacha). If not for sex and child bearing, 99% of men in this present time wouldn't have anything to do with women, relationship or marriage. If e easy nai Bobrisky turn to woman overnight? My fellow gees out there, no go do money ritual just because u wan impress one Nkechi. Just be content and hopeful for something better ahead.

Well many men are already abstaining from relationships. Porn/masturbation has substituted regular intercourse for most men and some men are just okay without kids. More and more ladies are facing the prospects of hitting 40 without being a marriage bound relationship...but as for me, GOD has privileged me to be in 1%. If you marry woman wey be woman indeed, you will never regret it but if you are unfortunate and you married hypertension in woman form, sorry ohh!

efficiencie:


Well many men are already abstaining from relationships. Porn/masturbation has substituted regular intercourse for most men and some men are just okay without kids. More and more ladies are facing the prospects of hitting 40 without being a marriage bound relationship...but as for me, GOD has privileged me to be in 1%. If you marry woman wey be woman indeed, you will never regret it but if you are unfortunate and you married hypertension in woman form, sorry ohh!

It's true, u are right.

Raychee:


Lol Oya now. Create. Lemme buy Popcorn and Coke down.

I don create one already

Seun:

I've seen this but I am not sure if there is a consistent rule I can apply against this sort of thread.

When women create threads insulting men, you don't see it. But when men start their own ,then you see it. If you're going to create a rule, make sure it goes both ways and you're not bias.

Truvelisback:
Nowadays, U can't freely express ur feelings for any lady u admire or wish to have a relationship with. For u to do that, u have to prove to her that ur father is Adeleke. These attitudes have driven many young guys into money ritual(funny enough they are mostly the victim), yahoo, etc.

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There are so many good and beautiful ladies out there, but most guys like going for slay queens. Any guy that go into illicit activities just to please a woman is not meant to be a man. The woke ladies you see are just opportune to look good if you remove their financial support, they will look totally different. Money has a way of brightening someone. Any lady that pushes a man to go into fraudulent activity is not meant to be taken seriously. Such lady will easily jump ship immediately her man is arrested. So what's the point of trying to please her. If you need to have sexual relationship, friend someone in your level or you befriend a high class lady and make sure you are the one benefiting from her.

9japride:
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There are so many good and beautiful ladies out there, but most guys like going for slay queens. Any guy that go into illicit activities just to please a woman is not meant to be a man. The woke ladies you see are just opportune to look good if you remove their financial support, they will look totally different. Money has a way of brightening someone. Any lady that pushes a man to go into fraudulent activity is not meant to be taken seriously. Such lady will easily jump ship immediately her man is arrested. So what's the point of trying to please her. If you need to have sexual relationship, friend someone in your level or you befriend a high class lady and make sure you are the one benefiting from her.

.......and she is the one initiating the relatimship.

Truvelisback:
.......and she is the one initiating the relatimship.

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It doesn't matter. Without initiating the relatimship one won't know which one will say yes. Relationships is not automatic, it's either yes or no. Moving on to the next one.

Same thought with me if i become so f...ucking rich and i get married bro i will never trust or believe a woman i will only give her 30% of my self

Truvelisback:
A friend of mine said something. He said, as he is now, if he happens to become rich, have a beautiful house and cars, and gets married to a woman, if the wife tells him that she loves him, he won't believe her. That even if she claims she genuinely meant it, he won't believe her.