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Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Carot: 10:15am On Feb 06, 2022 |
otherway:age makes a whole lot of difference 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Lawalemi(m): 10:15am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: I understand how you feel. I wouldn't take it either but these girls yield easily to men's trickery and fake life. It's unfortunate that you are lone voice in the family. Just leave her to her wish and watch her come back to narrate nasty experience but be ready to ignore her since she ignored your advice. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by endy69: 10:16am On Feb 06, 2022 |
system21:If he doesn't give his consent who then invites kinsman for the marriage negotiation. The father cannot be there and the woman would go around inviting kinsman. This is igboland you are talking about oo. Maybe the custom is no longer strong in your community. Women don't give consent for marriage that's why in the olden days a father would arrange marriage even against the will of the supposed bride. I don't just type, I have witnessed a lot. 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by sandra50(f): 10:18am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Age shouldn't be the reason for your refusal..these days ladies like older men because most times they treat women better because they have come to understand life better than the youngers that will end up giving someone BP. newbornmacho: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Carot: 10:22am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Iretii0511:you are not okay at all 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by murmee: 10:24am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho:She won't be the first to marry a man old enough to be her father. Sade Okoya married to Razaq Okoya is as an example! |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Carot: 10:26am On Feb 06, 2022 |
ufotty2001:you get any sister make i tear her toto 2 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:27am On Feb 06, 2022 |
9jayes: Fool 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by 2real52: 10:32am On Feb 06, 2022 |
This op is a demented fool. If I ever set my eyes on brothers like you eh, na one bullet to your gull straight. Leave her alone and go fine your own life. Even if your sister wants to marry a dead man, get the hell out of her way. For your mind now, you are wise, you are protective. You dey feel like James bond. Leave her alone oga. She doesn't owe you a thing in this world. You too, as well don't owe her whatever. Get away joor |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by bisi16(m): 10:34am On Feb 06, 2022 |
It will end in tears eventually. The gap is too wide. He’ll manipulate her to stupor.. 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by tayo60(f): 10:36am On Feb 06, 2022 |
The man wants to take advantage of your sister's naivity. And your sis is being carried away by d man's money. The man is far too old for her and will use that to abuse her when married. She won't have any say in anything happening in her family, the man may start cheating on her with matured ladies, he won't allow her to further her education once she is married to him, he may beat her blue and black when there's a fight and reduce her to nothing. I have read different stories like this on Facebook whereby d women are complaining of the marriage they entered, similar cases like yours. If d man truly loves her, let him allow her go school first and marry her after her first degree, this time, it is not advisable for any woman to go into marriage without job or anything she is doing to make her own money. When a woman depends on a man for survival even in marriage, it makes d man maltreats such a woman and loses respect for her. He won't involve her in his life decisions because he would always sees her as being immature and doesn't have a say. He is only marrying your sister for making babies. 4 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Carot: 10:38am On Feb 06, 2022 |
princewarri1985:paedophile! Am calling the police to come and arrest you. Dont doubt me. I know where you 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by ufotty2001: 10:44am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Carot:so na my sister u want |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Amotolongbo(f): 10:46am On Feb 06, 2022 |
helinues:Hello! 17year old girl is old enough to be handed out in marriage. What does a 17year old girl know about a relationship and life? Please who has the manual to a relationship or life? If knowledge about relationship is by age, why do women who married or get engaged in their 30s have failed marriage or relationship? The OP here is a brother and not a father or mother. So what else can a brother do when the father and mother are in support of handling out the girl in marriage after registering his displeasure? @your question if it was my daughter, I will not allow it. The right of a parent is far higher than that of a brother in the family. But if I am a brother what else can I do than register my displeasure and leave them if the parents and the sister are adamant? |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by phemmyfour: 10:48am On Feb 06, 2022 |
KunleyY19:Buy Tv , you no gree..... you think everyone is in social media generation |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by bluefilm: 10:49am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: Is his name Ned Nwoko-lo? ![]() |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by 2real52: 10:50am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho:Oga, there won't be any consequences. U r just hoping they will regret later so that your foolish ego will be brandished. If u love your sister, wish her well From the look of things, the guy no dey drop bar for you or he is poor |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by bab22: 10:52am On Feb 06, 2022 |
How old is Ned when he married Regina. Pls be happy for ur sis for once. Age is just a number |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by culf: 10:54am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: You're doing well. If they insist, leave them and stay off, stay off the marriage in case of tomorrow that anything will come up 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Oyiboman69: 10:55am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho:oga go and sit down. Do you have a better alternative for her?,what if she follow your advice and later not find her a better alternative, do you think she'll forgive you for this?. Marriage to an older partner has happening from time immemorial and when we started choosing our own by ourselves, the we're now faced with different broken home and unhappiness inside marriages. do you know how far that your 17yrs old sister has in her sexual exploration and negative attitude displays in the society?, is he the first man in her life?. One thing I've learnt about life is that things don't just happened, it has been destined to happen. the sole purpose of marriage for a girl child is to find a better man that can take care of the woman nothing more. you on the other hand, is opposing her opportunity to marry a person who will take care of her and you're asking if money is everything. don't worry,when she will later be impregnated by the so call younger ones without taken responsibility, then you'll have yourself to blame. what I expect you to do is telling your family to advice him in helping her further her education to some extent not you being unreasonable..... 3 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Oyiboman69: 11:01am On Feb 06, 2022 |
yuping:do you have a better alternative?, do know you think it is every time you will see an already made man of 44 going for such a young girl?. I know you'll be talking about education for the child which he can still see her through to some extent. |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by culf: 11:03am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: Threaten you for what? Tell her that you will not attend and leave them. That's what my dad did to his youny brother when he insisted on marrying a particular lady that Dad feel the 2 families relationship is is to close for marriage to happen between both of them. 2 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Oyiboman69: 11:04am On Feb 06, 2022 |
helinues:I would definitely do it if I notice that the man is able to take care of her in his legal way of earning, not a fraudster or any sort though. I wonder if you'll say this if the man is the son of dangote.... |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by ShenTeh(m): 11:05am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: Our people say that when your roommate chooses to have a troublesome meal, your warning is often the loudest because you know that the troubles of his guts would hinder your peaceful sleep at night. I had a very similar issue. In my case it was with my immediate elder sister and a man 21 years older. As the eldest son in the family, I kicked and kicked and kept saying our dad would never approve were he alive. Our uncles and everyone kept attacking my young post-teenage mind and I saw it as an excuse to discharge the burden of poverty. My sister would cry and cry that that was what she wanted and our mum was thoroughly blackmailed and eventually gave in. Keep shouting like the prophets of old, they won't listen. Today, I am the one taking care of the orphans from that union. Let her. 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Spherical77(m): 11:06am On Feb 06, 2022 |
2real52:Your mumu go last Op please ignore this nuisance ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by LINTUNE(m): 11:08am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Amotolongbo:same you will scream rape when he has sex with her, saying shit like she's a minor and she doesn't know what she's doing...fucking hypocrites everywhere...tueh!! 1 Like |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Walkee: 11:08am On Feb 06, 2022 |
endy69:yeye talk. If she goes ahead and get pregnant for the man nko? If he stops her from marrying him and the man goes ahead and marry someone else, just know that he and the sister have become sworn enemies for life |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by frozen70(f): 11:10am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: Let me use the words that will buttress my points You parents failed her by trading her bride prize for her education and future What does a girl of 17yrs knows about men and marriage That man just want a novice he can control and manipulate, fortunately for him he bought his way through your parents I under that you are fore seeing danger in her marriage but you don't have the power to stop her so far your parents are blinded about it Just relax and wish her well If it turns out good fine and if it's other wise, well it will be a life lesson for her After all your parents have lived their own lives By now that girl should be registering for her JAMB not registering for marriage 2 Likes |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Oyiboman69: 11:18am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Baloranking:younger and lesser age went into marriage and hers is not different. |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by DarkJeddi(m): 11:22am On Feb 06, 2022 |
[quote author=Modernizer post=109993482][/quote]Who no dey get family problems? Will they be the first? |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by naija4life247: 11:25am On Feb 06, 2022 |
newbornmacho: Southern Almajari. I thought only Northern Almajari marry at childhood, I never knew we have Southern Almajari |
Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by Oyiboman69: 11:26am On Feb 06, 2022 |
adedayoa2:she can still go to school even in the marriage or after given birth...that guy is just being unreasonable and selfish at the same time. Does he think he is more experience than all the older ones who has not be siding him? |
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