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Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 11:28am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Hello Nairalanders, So I met this beautiful lady sometimes last year and she happens to have a tick in most of my boxes, dark, average height, beautiful, smart and conversational. The day I met her, I actually have her my card and I thought she will not reach back but she called that night and that got my attention. We went on several dates after and we are connecting. I am always open to her that I have two friends with benefits, each one of them are in the two states I work. And I'm open to stop those relationship if we work out. The thing is I love to take my time when I meet someone I want to date, I even avoid been sexual with her because I don't want a situation where she will start overtripping because of good sex and lust will be mixed with love. Well the major problem is that the last time I went to her place, I got there late like 9pm and I asked her if we can go out for dinner. Then she told me a friend in her street already made something for her and she was on her way there before I came. Then we kept talking till 10:30 when I decided to leave cos I have to go feed my dog. So she had a shower and I was observing her spraying like three colognes, in my head I was like is this lady spraying all these to see me off or to smell good in her dreams. I left her place around 11:00 and the 3 houses to her place, this nigga the cook was already at the gate waiting. I no greet am oo and she was like "Oh this is where I'm going". I just told her that I like the fact that she knows how to kill two birds with one stone. Seeing me off and trying to see mr cook too. So I left her there and deleted her number on WhatsApp and phone. Last night I was hugging a very beautiful lady in my bed and all I can think about is her. Should I try and get back to her or just let go? Did I overreacted as we are not dating and I have been with other women too? |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 11:34am On Feb 06, 2022 |
What a SIMPle story. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by danietohbadt(m): 11:34am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Lol, you didn’t over react. Forget her and move on you have nothing to lose 8 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 11:36am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Maybe Mr cook came to cook her for the night You're forming Mr nice guy while Mr cook is cooking her puzzy like hot 404 dog meat (my Akwa Ibom brothers can relate) 9 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 11:38am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mr cook is redpilled. Mr gentleman is bluepilled. The girl wey you dey reserve for serious relationship, na she Mr cook dey devour like hot barbecued fish every night. The earlier you realized there's nothing special about Nigerian girls, the better for your sanity. 8 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Godada(m): 11:38am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by donbachi(m): 11:59am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Maybe na her own friend with benefits be dat.as u be learner.u just meet a girl newly and u want her to just stop her other guy instantly. most of u guys of late.dont know how to fight for love and what u want.love is won and nit given. Fight bro.it shows the man in u. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 12:02pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
donbachi:Fight for a Nigerian girl's love That's the height of foolishness! 1 Like |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Ijoh(m): 12:05pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
FEDERATED UNION OF RIVERS IJAW STUDENTS ( FURIS)WORLDWIDE. This is to inform all students of Ijaw extractions in Rivers State from these LGAs: Abua/Odual, Andoni, Bonny, Asari-Toru, Akuku-Toru, Ogu /Bolo, Degema, Okrika, Opobo /Nkoro, Egenni in Ahoadawest, Omubaraibi in etche, and Port Harcourt south. That, there is a students body for all Ijaws in Rivers State to unit ourselves for the common goals in our learning institutions. |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Ijoh(m): 12:05pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Note: Oyigbo LGA students association that are agitating to join FURIS should visit the FURIS executives to settle that issue with them. |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by donbachi(m): 12:08pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Kriss216:Then continue paying for sex and using vaseline. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kobicove(m): 12:09pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
The only reason why you're feeling remorseful is cos you expected her to come begging you which did not happen... She has moved on, you too should move on! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 12:11pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
donbachi:Which are more noble and safer. |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by SavageResponse(m): 12:11pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Ijoh: Ijoh: How is this relevant to the topic under discussion here?! 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Jeremani: 12:12pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
U no dey date her y the thing pain u? If you want to date her let her know, no dey visite her like deeper life pastor. If u call her now Wetin you wan tell her? Leave her, if she is interested in you she will come and explain, But just know she owns you no apologies 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Ijoh(m): 12:12pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by donbachi(m): 12:13pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Kriss216:no real man runs from his responsibility. |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 12:17pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
donbachi:So, in other not to pay for sex and use Vaseline, one has to beg for a Nigerian's love. A further proof that sex is the only thing they can offer. So, why begging her if it's all about not paying for sex and using vaseline? Cumhole isn't a sane man's responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Kriss216:Yet the op has friends with benefit... He's not yet in a serious relationship with the lady... But you're dumb af... 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Kriss216:And sex is the only thing the average black man thinks about... The op is screwing two different ladies, even told this babe about it... And she should keep herself for him? Because? Nigerian men are suddenly worth sh** 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Kriss216: 12:24pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Datboredberry:You missed your period again? |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by ceede2: 12:25pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
donbachi:What a stup*d comment!!! |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by chinonyinye: 1:02pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
ceede2:please, how is that comment stup*d? what is good for the gander is also good for the goose. the op is a very irresponsible and unserious person. how can insult her by telling her that you have 2 women you sleep with? please how does that sound to you? if Your Sister tells You This, how will you react? she ma is not serious for even listening to u in the first place. The Decadence in This Our Country Is Too Much sef 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by VlamesIffect(f): 1:08pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Binhamid: Well played.... except you want to lie to yourself...we both know wetin she go do that night...so i suggest there's no harm in adding one more friends with benefits.... Dating is out of it....but no reach out... if she doesn't reach out let her be....pucci plenty...surely another will surface.... But next time there's no need to be that open to a lady that you have other fwbs...girls like to live in fantasies give them one. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 2:07pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Datboredberry:take it easy girl, don't mind these niggas |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
ReportToTheMods:That you're a weirdo who clones the accounts of those who've confronted him? |
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Gamer999:I won't... I responded... Btw, you seem familiar!!! |
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