Can an Igbo woman wedding ever be like this

Loewe:


I put my faith above tradition so I would chose Church wedding anytime. As for registry, na only certificate I need, not a big deal.

keep deceiving yourself. "put my faith above tradition" yen yen yen. so long as you want to marry a Nigerian, you must perform the traditional rites of the bride's culture. na m.u.s.t. marriage begins when the father of the bride hands her over to the groom, not your pastor gerrit.

Thank you for this bro

frozen70:
What about traditional and church marriage

Was it the same 10 people crowd that you gathered or they were more

The way you arranged your marriage is the way people will attend, you are not doing it to impress anyone

But to fulfill all righteousness

why will they still need church wedding after this?

Iyaebe:
Even though I'd prefer a quiet wedding but I know it's not going to be possible. The way my mum goes about the day her only daughter will get married is scary to me, I don't want to deny her that joy,so as for me there's no quiet wedding even though I don't like it.

You don't want to deny her that joy? Is it her wedding or yours?

Hehehe ..The reality is she is happier when you are in the right home and happy as well...DORIme wedding no dey guarantee happy home...Na understanding.

So if your man say na this type he can, you will quit? You won't be like this lady here with understanding? Smh

frozen70:


So which one can you do and leave the other

In Nigeria there only two marriage acts.
1: Customary marriage often called traditional marriage.
What constitutes this type of marriage (a) Bride price must be paid in full not a Kobo less, not my son go with my daughter, our concerns is to take proper care of her. Hence without bride price this marriage is invalid, and the bride will be handed over to the groom or any of his family member. Any other celebration or gifts are not taken into account, if you like buy an estate or an aeroplane for your in-law, if the marriage fails the groom can only be refunded the bride price.
(b) Parents consent is required.
(c) It can be conducted any time within 24 hours of a day, be it at midnight, or it's open to polygamy
And
Statutory marriage often called court wedding.
(a) Parents consent is not required.
(b) Bride price is not required.
(c) It must be conducted before official office closing hour, and within 90 days after filling due papers fully stamped documents, marriage vows should conducted by a registered marriage registrar, who must be a legal personel.
Any of the two is legal and binding before God and Man.,
(d) It does not allow polygamy.
(e) If any or either party marries without obtaining proper divorce, such party is liable to a prosecution of bigamy.
Remember any church or places that perform statutory marriage without been licensed to do so voids the marriage, ask your clergy whether your church is permitted and licensed to perform statutory marriage, for example after having gone to a marriage registrar and obtain necessary papers, you go to your pastor to administer the marriage vows, if the church place is not registered to perform such, your marriage is invalid by law.

Fine wife

Misterone:
keep deceiving yourself. "put my faith above tradition" yen yen yen. so long as you want to marry a Nigerian, you must perform the traditional rites of the bride's culture. na m.u.s.t. marriage begins when the father of the bride hands her over to the groom, not your pastor gerrit.

Cool down, I didn't say I would ignore introduction or drag her to the altar without family consent... Just emphasizing what I prioritize...

This wife make sense..

Vagina people are commodities especially in this part of the world(africa) stop deceiving yourself

Awkabigboy:

There is nothing like a woman you can afford. Women aren't commodities , stop disrespecting our women

Awkabigboy:

There is nothing like a woman you can afford. Women aren't commodities , stop disrespecting our women

You say? What of the ones they price 5k for 2 rounds.. Those ones na men?
Na some of the women dey disrespect una gender pass..

Kriss216:
To be honest, marriage with a non virgin Nigerian girl shouldn't be a thing of celebration.

Wise groom.

God bless him more.

Are you a virgin yourself?

Nice and simple. Congratulations

U try sha, but as for me, once I collect list and I settle everything for the list, my woman move in with me, na there I do reach. I can't kill myself

Loewe:


I put my faith above tradition so I would chose Church wedding anytime. As for registry, na only certificate I need, not a big deal.

Your faith is an imported culture.
Your tradition sustained your ancestors, therefore, made it possible for you to come to being.

Make una no dey allow oyinbo man wash una head.

What a beautiful bride and bridal dress.

simple but lovely

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

There is this girl in my life dreaming of how our wedding and marriage will be the talk of the town, she is saying we'll do it in a massive way...

Remember this girl is still living with her aunty and has no dime to contribute

But I am going to find out very soon if her hymen is still intact because it will be so unfair of her and I won't take it if she gave her hymen to another man and expect me to pay a higher bride price.

make i help you find out? I have Phd in female virginity investigation

Amotolongbo:
What causes the overdo most times is by trying to impress and outshine previous friends’ weddings , forgetting that wedding isn’t a competition.

how do want your wedding to look like

Iyaebe:
Even though I'd prefer a quiet wedding but I know it's not going to be possible. The way my mum goes about the day her only daughter will get married is scary to me, I don't want to deny her that joy,so as for me there's no quiet wedding even though I don't like it.

zzor, i see you and ikillbrokehoes getting married

benjackugo:
A Nigerian lawyer, Ani Nnamdi Chris has encouraged men who are planning to get married to save themselves from expenses by going for modest wedding, IGBERETV reports.

Ani, who got married in Port Harcourt on Friday revealed the modest expenses he had to make on his wedding day.

Sharing photos from his wedding on Twitter, he wrote;


https://twitter.com/AniNnamdiChris_/status/1489911198728527872?t=ZVLA_YucKMTetHmgi-CkTA&s=19

In a subsequent tweet, he concluded,


https://twitter.com/AniNnamdiChris_/status/1489911905644908544?t=wPY22klt9kIv_Spp49rUcg&s=19

Congratulations

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

There is this girl in my life dreaming of how our wedding and marriage will be the talk of the town, she is saying we'll do it in a massive way...

Remember this girl is still living with her aunty and has no dime to contribute

But I am going to find out very soon if her hymen is still intact because it will be so unfair of her and I won't take it if she gave her hymen to another man and expect me to pay a higher bride price.

You bad guy

frozen70:
What about traditional and church marriage

Was it the same 10 people crowd that you gathered or they were more

The way you arranged your marriage is the way people will attend, you are not doing it to impress anyone

But to fulfill all righteousness

Court wedding( registry) is greater than traditional wedding. Nothing likes church wedding in the eye of the law.

benjackugo:
A Nigerian lawyer, Ani Nnamdi Chris has encouraged men who are planning to get married to save themselves from expenses by going for modest wedding, IGBERETV reports.

Ani, who got married in Port Harcourt on Friday revealed the modest expenses he had to make on his wedding day.

Sharing photos from his wedding on Twitter, he wrote;


https://twitter.com/AniNnamdiChris_/status/1489911198728527872?t=ZVLA_YucKMTetHmgi-CkTA&s=19

In a subsequent tweet, he concluded,


https://twitter.com/AniNnamdiChris_/status/1489911905644908544?t=wPY22klt9kIv_Spp49rUcg&s=19

You married an angel. 95% of today's naija girls want loud wedding.

Misterone:
keep deceiving yourself. "put my faith above tradition" yen yen yen. so long as you want to marry a Nigerian, you must perform the traditional rites of the bride's culture. na m.u.s.t. marriage begins when the father of the bride hands her over to the groom, not your pastor gerrit.

He can kill two birds with one stone by marrying pastor's daughter. Sense wee nor kee me.

A low or high budget wedding isn't bad, don't involve yourself into crime to please anybody.

Carot:
how do want your wedding to look like

I am married!

Any problem with that?

Some ladies go japa when you tell them. You Wan do a small wedding.

AreaFada2:

He can kill two birds with one stone by marrying pastor's daughter. Sense wee nor kee me.

whether na pastor daughter or imam. in Nigeria, everyone comes from a family unit, everyone in your family cannot be a pastor. even born throw away, na person bring am up. someone must ask for something, else marriage never start

Shey na property ?

donbachi:
Every man should marry a woman he can afford.

Loewe:
It's very simple, that's if you don't have a woman who isn't ready to manage cos some ladies like overdo, they don't even mind borrowing money to wed, which is foolish in my opinion.

most of them no even fine reach this one