SOFTENGR:
This applies to girls from all religions. There's this girl I once fell for, having dated for few weeks. She invited me to her church, winners, so she could introduce me to her "daddy in the lord". I told her I'm a Christian, though not a religious person, so I don't think I have time for church things now. I went on to explain to her that my Bank job is very demanding and I work weekends and needed some rest on Sundays. She started giving me attitude. She stopped picking up my calls. She will only call me when she needed assistance, which I do help out. It continued like that for a year. When I realized that her mind is made up, I also stopped responding to her calls. I felt bad, but I have to move on.
My advice to men is: never fall in love until you are married.
If you don't have same religious ideology, your relationship will likely not work.

Yes you are right .

You are a simp and a fool too, bad combo. I have no further comment.

Rickmann:



Bros you get mind o, so of all the girls in the country na Jehovah witness you fall for like this? Personally I have never heard anything good about them.

It was obvious she wasn't feeling you the way you felt her..i mean, all the vital signs were there but you just refused to see it. It really hurts when you are in love alone.

Pls move on and stop crying here, she isn't worth ur love or tears at all.

"A failed relationship is better than a scattered marriage" always remember that.

Thanks bro and i truly cried �. I was in this alone all this while ��

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

All i will say Is don't quite your job because of her, you're a man please face it like a man don't chicken out

Nonexisting:
You are a simp and a fool too, bad combo. I have no further comment.

Exactly who I am .

Lol...free her and also man up

adetula148:


Thanks bro and i truly cried �. I was in theis alone all this while ��

Someone who will love and respect you will come someday..just be more careful with ur feelings. Use ur brain more this time and not just the heart.

PEACE.

I don't even know what to type but it's well with your soul because of woman.

Nonexisting:
You are a simp and a fool too, bad combo. I have no further comment.

How is ur own relationship going?
Is it a healthy one?

If you have nothing to add to people's life, you move on than use strong words like that on them when all they needed was a simple advice.

We just human remember, and no one knows it all.

excellence44:

Abeg @ bolded, make am two, one for me and your own.

Abeg bros, make we pity am small.

Rickmann:



[s]How is ur own relationship going?
Is it a healthy one?[/s]

If you have nothing to add to people's life, you move on than use strong words like that on them when all they needed was a simple advice.

We just human remember, and no one knows it all.

I don't believe in relationships and don't have one. Relationship is meant for fools and some wise people who decide to deceive themselves by themselves. Everyone comes into relationship for something and when that thing is no longer there, the relationship dies. Unconditional love and faithfulness are things of the past. If you doubt me, pay a private investigator to monitor your lover male or female for just one week and see things for yourself.

SIMP!!!

Untop jehova witness for that matter....wetin do cele

adetula148:


Exactly who I am .

You're neither a simp nor a fool.
This your experience happens to most young men. You'll laugh over it later as you become more experienced in life. The fact is, most women are more comfortable getting married to a guy in their church. It applies to women in all churches.
No matter how loving and caring you are, once they find someone in their church, they'll just end the relationship with you. She still loves you. Even more than the guy in her church.
Try to assure the girl that you've forgiven her and you guys should face your jobs.
We wey dey go church once in a blue moon, we can't marry a religious woman. Mbanu!

Mhykel217:
SIMP!!!

Untop jehova witness for that matter....wetin do cele

Na me be that oo ����

Someone should please call Ubunja and TheGidRedpiller to this thread.... The Op needs a prescription of TRP.

Cele and JW babes,I no now who better among them sef bwcause I never try date them.E dey do me like say na suicide mission I want go engage myself to.

Mosidi was right about girls, they are Usless all of them..

This babe is not a Virgin believe me..

99% of church ladies can fuckkkk till eternity.
Them like sex die.

eazyduzit:
Cele and JW babes,I no now who better among them sef bwcause I never try date them.E dey do me like say na suicide mission I want go engage myself to.

You seems to be a very weak man mentally, emotionally and maybe physically.

How old are you?

Why did you even show her the prove, something you would have just kept to yourself and abandone her suddenly.


What she did all girls that are really interested in you do such, she just u the Jehovah witness as an alibi

The ball is in your court, be a man and move on

Since you already accepted you were foolish, I blive u learnt from your mistake .. Don't give u hrt to those demons called ladies.. Its risky

Never will a guy invade my privacy by going through my phone, coz wouldn't invade his either.

Nonexisting:
I don't believe in relationships and don't have one. Relationship is meant for fools and some wise people who decide to deceive themselves by themselves. Everyone comes into relationship for something and when that thing is no longer there, the relationship dies. Unconditional love and faithfulness are things of the past. If you doubt me, pay a private investigator to monitor your lover male or female for just one week and see things for yourself.

Come take a trophy..

Jehoval witness gals don't joke with that doctrine

How do you lust(not love) over a female like this?
Oga love yourself first, set standards for yourself mbok...
She defecate,Urinate, even menstruate and the blood stinks... Yet, konji has covered your eyes not to see beyond lust.
Your problem is beyond your own Imagination.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

Nyascobar1414:
How do you lust(not love) over a female like this?

Oga love yourself first, set standards for yourself mbok...

She defecate,Urinate, even menstruate and the blood stinks...
Yet, konji has covered your eyes not to see beyond lust.

Your problem is beyond your own Imagination.

How sir?

adetula148:

How sir?

Don't value your so called GF...

adetula148:

How sir?

Don't value your so called GF...
She's a human being with Imperfections...
For christ sake she's a mortal... Impress yourself and Impress God

adetula148:


You are right. I just decided to be serious and ready for something serious. Didn't expect things go this way . I'm not dumb just wanted something serious and I was carried away with her being religious never knew she could act like this . But you are right because just because of her I let other women go seeing her as my everything but we learn everyday.

Move on bro and learn frm ur mistake

na all of us go chop breakfast

MufasaLion:
Thus love thing, I will try it someday.

Wow! You don't love God, you don't love humans, what do you love? Pets?

Forget about her. She is not a real JW. She may be leading a double life, pretending to be serious as a JW while in their midst; then leading a totally wordly life where other JW are absent.
Such a character is a sign of a deceptive being. It is not worth spending time in the company of such a person, let her go. It is the best thing for your life. Besides, you may consider reporting her to her branch members. Because people like her, tarnish the image of other well behaved JWs