ThierryJay:


True, but my point is it's not fair on the guys! The boundaries at which this enters criminal zone is so vague.

In the same professional environment, some guys who have sent "you re looking sexy sweetheart" are now married to the same ladies today without any issues, while some others who sent the same text got criminalized and lost their jobs.

Question is what then really determines when it's a crime? Is it the different reactions of ladies to the same messages? [/b]Which implies that something that can be interpreted so differently needs to be evaluated properly before using it as a sure tool of career destruction.

You are close to it!
The women who lay the complaint and office dynamics are fully responsible on his the outcome of a text,a word from a man to a woman [b] in an office environment will be interpreted.
It is just the same problem in the larger society what the woman perceives as treat is taking first before you as the man will defend yourself.
I gave a scenario of what happened to me earlier on this thread.i complimented a lady(I got a negative review).I complimented another (I gave a positive review)


In summary it means a man must be very careful with who he interacts with.if you have a positive review(still not advisable as long as it is an office environment ...you are safe).but if you have a negative review (I take God beg ...back off and maintain combat mode).
Take bill gates for example it is office fling that forced him to resign from Microsoft when the staff made an accusation.
So in an office environment you can't trust anyone whole heartedly with a simple flirtatious comment.you don't know how it will turn out in the long run.
Same thing with Cuomo (a harmless hug was turned into a tool for political warfare by the same democrats....who did they use women in his office)

Imagine getting fired because of hugging

Beedude:

Denis Bergkamp was Non-Flying Ducthman due to his phobia for flight that killed his family members.
Dont know where u got ur own flying dutchman

Lol....

I hear you sir, well done.

gulfer:
Overmars was not the 'Flying Dutchman'

Small children...

Oya educate us..we wish to learn from your stable.

Who was/is the flying dutchman.

Feel free to use your calculator to answer this question.

HonestFriend:


Asking a lady at your workplace out is flirting to u?

I can only see as flirting if u re married n still in marriage.. But outside that. Its a normal thing for a single man.

Asking a lady for a relationship while you guys are in the office is inappropriate. Ask the lady out to lunch or a date then there you can start doing your kurukere moves. If you are single going about asking your coworkers for relationship while you are in the office, you are not normal.

gulfer:
Overmars was not the 'Flying Dutchman'

Who was?
Arjen Robben? Van Persie?

You keep getting it wrong that is not the difference between a 3rd world country and a first world country.

But at least in our 3rd world country, we understand males and females would always be attracted to each other, and there is nothing wrong with it. Unlike the hypocritical first world country

sukkot:
thats the differene between a turd world country and a first world country. first world country they prefer you check your personal life and emotions and sexual desires at home before you step into their office. turd world country you can come to office with konji and be harrasing everybody

angelfallz:

You keep getting it wrong that is not the difference between a 3rd world country and a first world country.

But at least in our 3rd world country, we understand males and females would always be attracted to each other, and there is nothing wrong with it. Unlike the hypocritical first world country

oh absolutely nothing wrong with gender attraction. thats what the remaining 15 hours of your day is for. can you just focus for 9 hours and get your mind away from your private parts so as to get the job done ? you have 15 hours left out of 24 to think about your private parts

Lol.
Attraction can happen at anytime.

sukkot:
oh absolutely nothing wrong with gender attraction. thats what the remaining 15 hours of your day is for. can you just focus for 9 hours and get your mind away from your private parts so as to get the job done ? you have 15 hours left out of 24 to think about your private parts

sukkot:
oh absolutely nothing wrong with gender attraction. thats what the remaining 15 hours of your day is for. can you just focus for 9 hours and get your mind away from your private parts so as to get the job done ? you have 15 hours left out of 24 to think about your private parts

Gosh, I've missed this dude

Ishilove:

Gosh, I've missed this dude

lolzzzz Ishi i missed you too

angelfallz:
Lol.
Attraction can happen at anytime.

thats true but try not to shit where you eat

LordReed:


No women are waking to fact that they no longer need to tolerate unwanted advances or unwanted touching especially from people in leadership positions. Don't flirt with your coworker in the office is not a hard thing, your libido can wait 8hrs for satisfaction.

KPOM. Guys really need to find a female colleague that will tell them the hard truth. Save work matters for work and non work for after work. Just because you are colleagues doesn't mean you should harass them.

Lol, like I said before, that saying is story for the gods

sukkot:
thats true but try not to shit where you eat

angelfallz:
Lol they frown on it but it still happens.

Some guy somewhere is banging his secretary right now in the UK. Some guy in the US is sleeping with his female intern.

The westerners are the biggest hypocrites ever

For me where it becomes inappropriate is if the man or the woman is not interested but the other party continues to sext.

They will still face disciplinary issues if caught, what exactly is your point? CNN CEO resigned after it was found out he had a affair with a staff.

He did well.

We are very religious here but I've never seen ANY public figure admitting their mistakes so blatantly - never !

An authority within an organization flirting with different women and you people think this is okay? nobody is thinking of the effect it will have on the organization when rumors starts flying that oga is sleeping with female staffs, they will even say he gives them preferential treatment, all this can bring disrepute to the organization

sanpipita:


They will still face disciplinary issues if caught, what exactly is your point? CNN CEO resigned after it was found out he had a affair with a staff.

This case is different!
It was not a problem.
It became a problem because he withheld information when Cuomo was under investigation!

My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

sanpipita:


They will still face disciplinary issues if caught, what exactly is your point? CNN CEO resigned after it was found out he had a affair with a staff.

gulfer:
Overmars was not the 'Flying Dutchman'

Lol, Overmars was popularly called the flying dutchman cos of his insane speed on the pitch.

angelfallz:
Lol, bro sexting is normal. It has been normal ever since smartphones came with camera.

Also, it does not matter the position of the man(in a sane world. the west is no longer sane). Lets assume the genders were reversed, the woman is in the dominant position and the man is the one sexting her, does it make it wrong?

Look feminism has succeeded in destroying the natural relationships between men and women. And that is why men are being punished for flirting with women.

If it is inappropriate because he is married then I agree 100%
If it is inappropriate because she was not interested in sexting, but he continued to sext, then I agree 100%

There is a difference between sexting and flirting. Sexting in the office environment is not normal. This has nothing to do with male emasculation.

Y'all attacking females over this is an indication that you do not consider their viewpoint valid. Women are not objects. This has nothing to do with feminism but respecting boundaries.

In the scenario you described yes it is wrong and the woman would and should get in trouble if she continues. She is the positionally superior.

If you want to do sexting there must be a foundation. In this day and age anyone doing sexting is a careless person.

The first bolded,
Just because you have not seen it happen does not mean it is abnormal.

The second bolded,
It has everything to do with feminism. Now what boundaries are you talking about?

The third bolded,
are you trying to be funny or what. How many women in positions of power have resigned in such a scenario? When female child rapists are not held accountable for their abominable actions, you here telling me story.

Druss:


There is a difference between sexting and flirting. Sexting in the office environment is not normal. This has nothing to do with male emasculation.

Y'all attacking females over this is an indication that you do not consider their viewpoint valid. Women are not objects. This has nothing to do with feminism but respecting boundaries.

In the scenario you described yes it is wrong and the woman would and should get in trouble if she continues. She is the positionally superior.

If you want to do sexting there must be a foundation. In this day and age anyone doing sexting is a careless person.

angelfallz:
The first bolded,
Just because you have not seen it happen does not mean it is abnormal.

The second bolded,
It has everything to do with feminism. Now what boundaries are you talking about?

The third bolded,
are you trying to be funny or what. How many women in positions of power have resigned in such a scenario? When female child rapists are not held accountable for their abominable actions, you here telling me story.

We have female.principals,teachers and female police officers being dismissed out of office for inappropriate behaviour towards male staffs ok!
At least I know of UK and us
I just remembered a case in Atlanta where a nursing director was withdrawn from office because of a fling with a janitor!
So office rules applies to both sexes in the office environment.
Them catch you na go

I am even trying to remember a female junior judge in the us sef.
She was debenched for something like this

otipoju:
The world has gone bananas

The world has gone pussssy you mean.

angelfallz:
My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

Its not true lots of women have lost their jobs or resigned after being outed for an affair with their boss or worker, I can refer you to case of former UK health prime minister matt Hancock, all this has nothing to do with feminism btw laws in west as just strict, bill Clinton was impeached for having an affair in his office, that's how they roll for many years now

baralatie:
I am even trying to remember a female junior judge in the us sef.
She was debenched for something like this

Lots of this happen to both men and women just men don't accept in their case its wrong, Overmars was sending texts to many women all for what!? he messed up

You might be right, that a lot of women have lost their jobs because of an affair with their boss or worker. Although I am yet to read anything of such.
Also, about the UK health minister, I am familiar with it. He did not loose his job because of the affair, he lost his job because he broke COVID-19 distancing rules. But yet did the woman he had an affair with lose her job too?

Feminism did not start today, so bringing up Bill Clinton is not useful. Feminism started gaining momentum in the 60s. The woman in question Monica Lewinsky she became an instant celebrity. If the genders were reversed I doubt the man would have become a celebrity. So, you see feminism is playing a part in it.

sanpipita:


Its not true lots of women have lost their jobs or resigned after being outed for an affair with their boss or worker, I can refer you to case of former UK health prime minister matt Hancock, all this has nothing to do with feminism btw laws in west as just strict, bill Clinton was impeached for having an affair in his office, that's how they roll for many years now

Well, you could be right that female principals, teachers and female police officers are dismissed from office for inappropriate behaviour. But I am yet to read about such happening.

In the case about the Atlanta nursing director, she was withdrawn not fired. If the genders were reversed the man would have been fired.

baralatie:

We have female.principals,teachers and female police officers being dismissed out of office for inappropriate behaviour towards male staffs ok!
At least I know of UK and us
I just remembered a case in Atlanta where a nursing director was withdrawn from office because of a fling with a janitor!
So office rules applies to both sexes in the office environment.
Them catch you na go

It will get to a point where women will be so avoided that to sit close to Woman will be an issue and trust me depression will kill alot of them because Redpill is coming and with this AI Robot female clingy almost coming soon i see a world where woman will be nothing again,Guys avoid woman