Are you strong on bed?

Allow her to flex wen she's insecure.

Please don't quit your job because of her , okay? Be strong!

This man dey cap abeg

Firstly, don't quit your job ma niggi. Let that money flow in.
Secondly, the best thing you can do for yourself right now is to become a better version of yourself. Don't let her feel like she has power over you. Work out, eat right, sleep well, delete everything that reminds you of anything that has to do with her. Hang out with your friends, do the things you love, life is too short to worry about a hole. If she tries to make a comeback, tell her to go f herself in the butthole. It's not worth it. Do this and save yourself from stress!!

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

I feel your pain..
I know it wasn't easy to move on buh trust me, he will get over it..
First step: u have done that
Second step: look for a frnd(lady) to always gist with and make it lively..don't be too bored cos u might still b thinking of her..
3rdly: act like u don't know her at your place of working..just grit her with a smile n go to ya department..
Lastly, I know she has already know your weaking point cos she'll always try to make u jealous at your working place, like playing with other guys, calling, smiling or do some rubbish to c u sad or jealous buh bruh, act like an actor..never c that like a barrier..just kip smiling weneva she does that...buh pls, the best way to get over it at your work is always to get your busy duin something..maybe gisting with frnds, chatting, playing games, reading novels, hangout with frnds who has sense n gud instinct...

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

Lmao u were dating yourself.....
If na me I don join her to go her church
So I can seal up the relationship properly and have access to bang her easy

Judybash93:
Firstly, don't quit your job ma niggi. Let that money flow in.
Secondly, the best thing you can do for yourself right now is to become a better version of yourself. Don't let her feel like she has power over you. Work out, eat right, sleep well, delete everything that reminds you of anything that has to do with her. Hang out with your friends, do the things you love, life is too short to worry about a hole. If she tries to make a comeback, tell her to go f herself in the butthole. It's not worth it. Do this and save yourself from stress!!

Thank you so much for the advice . I will do as you say . Funny enough I don't have lot of friends and I also failed to give other ladies good attention. But I already let go but with time I will forget her .

Hartugrin27:


I feel your pain..
I know it wasn't easy to move on buh trust me, he will get over it..
First step: u have done that
Second step: look for a frnd(lady) to always gist with and make it lively..don't be too bored cos u might still b thinking of her..
3rdly: act like u don't know her at your place of working..just grit her with a smile n go to ya department..
Lastly, I know she has already know your weaking point cos she'll always try to make u jealous at your working place, like playing with other guys, calling, smiling or do some rubbish to c u sad or jealous buh bruh, act like an actor..never c that like a barrier..just kip smiling weneva she does that...buh pls, the best way to get over it at your work is always to get your busy duin something..maybe gisting with frnds, chatting, playing games, reading novels, hangout with frnds who has sense n gud instinct...

Thank you so much . I will do just that.

you are just a simp is not about witness of a thing

brosom:
A legend once said, all Nigerian girls are useless, all of them.

Bitch taking deep throat and doggy from another nigger, damn that hurt soo badly.

The SIMPle nature of some guys are so irritating.

Move on boy.

You are wicked sha

adetula148:


Lol you are right

Do you know the redpill?

Please swallow it. I could keep explaining so many things but you need to read it yourself.

Join the redpill community bro

Tokskob2008:
You have deleted and blocked her number which is the first step in the right direction now the second step is to take her off your mind, how do you do this? Just act like you never knew her.

naso e easy?

gaby:


You are welcome mate and may Jehovah witness for you...

Omor comrade i see the way you Shakespeare (Spear) this SIMple guy.

Kingsuave:


Omor comrade i see the way you Shakespeare (Spear) this SIMple guy.

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

You got hurt by a girl and you now had to bring in religion. What role exactly did the religion played in this? And you said this is your first time with her and you concluded with why are Jehovah's witness like this.. How many have you dated dude? Well,you have not told us your ulterior motives.

The are only good for relationship but will never marry you

brosom:
A legend once said, all Nigerian girls are useless, all of them.

Bitch taking deep throat and doggy from another nigger, damn that hurt soo badly.

The SIMPle nature of some guys are so irritating.

Move on boy.

I don't have a problem about 9ja girls being useless, my problem I why should a guy be dumb. The OP is dumb na. First you're dating a religious hypocrite yet you want her to be faithful? You saw all the red flags, yet you still no receive sense. Instead of using her to catch cruise, you are forming Romeo.

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

Become a Jehova witness . It's as simple as that

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .

...I was once a witness no girl is different...

Guys no matter how saint you think your girlfriend is or holy she's having sex with someone or lusting over someone, never ever love any woman apart ur sisters and mother always bear it in mind she's into you know for a reason once your done filling that cab ur nobody. Never assume ur in love even in marriage Relationship is business

Help2020:

You got hurt by a girl and you now had to bring in religion. What role exactly did the religion played in this? And you said this is your first time with her and you concluded with why are Jehovah's witness like this.. How many have you dated dude? Well,you have not told us your ulterior motives.

Are you a witness?

jimmychang:



...I was once a witness no girl is different...

Why did you change ?

Justice4Toto:




Become a Jehova witness . It's as simple as that

Just like that ?

adetula148:


Why did you change ?

Nothing really bad about them....went to their state conventions.I love the smell of their books even till now.I guess I just grew up.I was a child then.

Like every human society they have their own issues.

guy you see free puna,you wan loose guard. meet with and talk to like normal,peacefully take your cookies with no emotions attached.she learn the hard way and go hard on her.

I dated one and this is the truth. Once my best friend told me that their girls will always a witness and I wasn't ready to do that, I zeroed my mind. I lash that babe as if she steal my phone. Like she hear am for my hand

BigYash:
Since you already accepted you were foolish, I blive u learnt from your mistake .. Don't give u hrt to those demons called ladies.. Its risky

Hahahahah

Ops dont ever leave your job for that bitch, the best do give her attention again do as if u dont see her. Guy move on

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

No serious Jehovah witnesses would date non-witnesses. You shouid expect worse from such witnesses.

Nigerian gals don't just go on dates,..they go for Lewandowski!.

Hi OP,

Trust you are well and keeping safe.

Will start by consoling you and helping you see lots of reason why you need let go of that childish thought of leaving work for someone that's not worth your actions.

its the Love Guru again.

So she served you hot breakfast, so what?
You now realized that you've been wasting time, burning mid-night oil for naught, so what.
you're not the first and you wont be the last.

you want to leave where you dey get small change stay alive and healthy? now i have a problem with that....

1. If and when you leave work cos of her. you lose and she wins again.
2. If and when you leave work cos of her. you become miserable, remember you're already lonely and disgusted. Idle mind breeds chaos and can never be productive positively. she wins again, again.
3. If and when you leave work and start starving, you become a beggar to all amenities of life that you need and your self esteem drops like flies in insecticide. she wins again, again, again.

Remember, heartbreaks are so messy so try not to make any life altering decision when you're hurt, they tend to stay forever.

Now remember that you are a man. the day your mom gave birth to you, she was glad that she now have a warrior that will protect her and the house. Damn! she even shared jollof rice on your naming ceremony. imagine how she will feel if she heard that you lost to a girl and not just any girl, to a cheating girl and cos of that you want to end your life. Who is gonna be sending money to her? if you have a younger brother then he too will learn from your petty attitude and become a simp too of he will despise you cos you couldn't man up and face life.

Bottom-line brother. live life, ignore her while working (it wont be easy but you can do it) as time goes on you'll discover the peace of mind you've been missing while dating where you work (bad idea). Keep ur head high and do your shakara while you continue praying and looking for another job. In the end show her what she lost and own your shit.

A word is enough to the intelligent oh! no allow kpekus turn you to pushpa.

But wait oh! what kind of future do you think you'll have with her? from your write-up i deduce that she took you as entertainment for the passing moment and doesn't see you as a serious escape plan hence the double dating. bro
From the look of things, this is your first Heartbreak and i understand how you feel, but no matter how much the night becomes dark, the sun will always shine bright in the morning.

BE STRONG!

Best Regards
THE LOVE GURU

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

Make Una help me like this post make I win £10 abeg . My wife go divorce me if I no win this money

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