angelfallz:
You might be right, that a lot of women have lost their jobs because of an affair with their boss or worker. Although I am yet to read anything of such.
Also, about the UK health minister, I am familiar with it. He did not loose his job because of the affair, he lost his job because he broke COVID-19 distancing rules. But yet did the woman he had an affair with lose her job too?

Feminism did not start today, so bringing up Bill Clinton is not useful. Feminism started gaining momentum in the 60s. The woman in question Monica Lewinsky she became an instant celebrity. If the genders were reversed I doubt the man would have become a celebrity. So, you see feminism is playing a part in it.

Yes she had to resign from her job her name is Gina coladangelo, lol and Monica Lewinsky fame has nothing to do with feminism, its just media buzz that comes with scandals like that, if having affair with bosses makes women popular a lot of women will be doing it

angelfallz:
Well, you could be right that female principals, teachers and female police officers are dismissed from office for inappropriate behaviour. But I am yet to read about such happening.

In the case about the Atlanta nursing director, she was withdrawn not fired. If the genders were reversed the man would have been fired.

How many do you want to read in the papers!
Then I would suggest you get every daily news paper from UK and USA!
A lot of disciplinary work hit people for misconduct and inappropriate behaviour such as this both here in Nigeria and abroad!
Don't try or mess with office politics!
Dem smell you na go
I am still remembering the female ranch manager in Abuja here o.wont name the bank.
Inappropriate behaviour towards a colleague led to her withdrawal(sack is a rough word).
It was complain by the male colleague that fell into the heads of senior boys in Lagos and they just placed her on observation(without her knowing)
Fiam!
That was how she joined oluomo Nigeria limited(road branch).
Or the one that nearly escaped in v.i here in Lagos.


I can not count .
You can go all day and drag this issue but my one Kobo advice stay the heck the hell aware from inappropriate behaviour such as this in an office environment!
Abi you want forget ordinary female soldier recruit that accepted proposal from corper(no be beg them start to dey beg a whole CODS).
Abeg God deliver us from carelessness!

Amen

baralatie:

How many do you want to read in the papers!
Then I would suggest you get every daily news paper from UK and USA!
A lot of disciplinary work hit people for misconduct and inappropriate behaviour such as this both here in Nigeria and abroad!
Don't try or mess with office politics!
Dem smell you na go
I am still remembering the female ranch manager in Abuja here o.wont name the bank.
Inappropriate behaviour towards a colleague led to her withdrawal(sack is a rough word).
It was complain by the male colleague that fell into the heads of senior boys in Lagos and they just placed her on observation(without her knowing)
Fiam!
That was how she joined oluomo Nigeria limited(road branch).
Or the one that nearly escaped in v.i here in Lagos.


I can not count .
You can go all day and drag this issue but my one Kobo advice stay the heck the hell aware from inappropriate behaviour such as this in an office environment!
Abi you want forget ordinary female soldier recruit that accepted proposal from corper(no be beg them start to dey beg a whole CODS).
Abeg God deliver us from carelessness!

angelfallz:
My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

How do you reject a text message? LoL

Just reply, bros I am not interested don't send me such messages again or I would report you!!

LordReed:


How do you reject a text message? LoL

angelfallz:
Just reply, bros I am not interested don't send me such messages again or I would report you!!

Report me for asking you a question? Are you a comedian? LoLz.

Did you not ask me how to reject text messages?

LordReed:


Report me for asking you a question? Are you a comedian? LoLz.

angelfallz:
Did you not ask me how to reject text messages?

Oh I am sorry I thought you were actually talking to me. I apologise.

But you didn't reject the text message, you replied to it which of course can lead to further conversation. Or do you mean to block the person because rejecting a text message is not possible.

I rejected the contents of the message.
If a man sexts a woman and she is not interested she can reject or admonish him, this can happen by replying through texting or doing it face to face. This was I meant, with the bolded.

My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

LordReed:


Oh I am sorry I thought you were actually talking to me. I apologise.

But you didn't reject the text message, you replied to it which of course can lead to further conversation. Or do you mean to block the person because rejecting a text message is not possible.

angelfallz:
I rejected the contents of the message.
If a man sexts a woman and she is not interested she can reject or admonish him, this can happen by replying through texting or doing it face to face. This was I meant, with the bolded.

You think a woman would straight up admonish her boss when its not clear what the power dynamic between them will yield as a result of her admonishment?

So a woman is scared to admonish her boss but she is not scared to report him?

LordReed:


You think a woman would straight up admonish her boss when its not clear what the power dynamic between them will yield as a result of her admonishment?

angelfallz:
So a woman is scared to admonish her boss but she is not scared to report him?

When something like that is disclosed it is harder for the boss to retaliate because it would be immediately seen for what it is.

It would also be hard for the boss to retaliate because she has evidence.

LordReed:


When something like that is disclosed it is harder for the boss to retaliate because it would be immediately seen for what it is.

sanpipita:


They will still face disciplinary issues if caught, what exactly is your point? CNN CEO resigned after it was found out he had a affair with a staff.

An affair.
Involving two consenting adults.
Not rape.
Not sexual harassment.

Question: why didnt the woman resign as well?

Chai! Na so the man take go...

Maxymilliano:
Na so dem suspend Canada-based Nigerian doctor for hugging and blowing kiss at co-worker

These days it is even very dangerous to flirt.

DeepSight:


An affair.
Involving two consenting adults.
Not rape.
Not sexual harassment.

Question: why didnt the woman resign as well?

There are calls for her to resign, in coming days things might be clearer, lots of women have lost their jobs for having office romance.

https://theblast.com/170862/allison-gollust-scandal/

sanpipita:


There are calls for her to resign, in coming days things might be clearer, lots of women have lost their jobs for having office romance.

https://theblast.com/170862/allison-gollust-scandal/

There is an obvious imbalance here. But perhaps it will even out over the years.

Na OG dis my uncle be for the game ooo. Trust me.
But I learnt a lesson from there. All is not as it seems sometimes.
Anytime wey this Gee enter Naija dat time, any hotel wey inn lodge, the receptionist go chop am; even the attendants/waitresses too.
Inn com still go enter one chance for Yankee wey be say on a norms, na dem dey beg am to collect.
We meuuve sha

baralatie:

Na trap she set for am na!
She was not flirting!
Na things he for don learn from schoolgirls attitude na

DeepSight:


There is an obvious imbalance here. But perhaps it will even out over the years.

Like I said women lose their jobs too, it's been happening.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/cnn-chief-marketing-officer-allison-gollust-resigns-11644972604

sanpipita:


Like I said women lose their jobs too, it's been happening.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/cnn-chief-marketing-officer-allison-gollust-resigns-11644972604

This is gratifying, even though it speaks volumes about the imbalance I referred to that she thought she could stay and made a real attempt to do so.

Thanks for the update.