hmm
all this one sided, well polished, "i am the victim and he is the demon" kind of stories.
i read your first PUBLICATION last week or so.. and it had trouble maker, nagger, choker finger prints all over it but somehow you painted yourself so saintly without ever mentioning anything about your affection for your husband. it was all about you you you and and how his actions hurt you, all about you.
if only the man can come out to give his own side of the story but seems the mirror is totally broken already. Good luck with your new life.

superCleanworks:
hmm
all this one sided, well polished, "i am the victim and he is the demon" kind of stories.
i read your first PUBLICATION last week or so.. and it had trouble maker, nagger, choker finger prints all over it but somehow you painted yourself so saintly without ever mentioning anything about your affection for your husband. it was all about you you you and and how his actions hurt you, all about you.
if only the man can come out to give his own side of the story but seems the mirror is totally broken already. Good luck with your new life.

BRATISLAVA:


Even if you see a billion things he's doing wrong, you will only be interested in imagining what she could've been doing wrong because your sole interest in relationships is to see the evil in women and the sainthood of the man.

Reverse the genders in her story and tell us what you would really have to say.

my sole interest in relationships? please do not move too fast or did you not read where i pointed out that it would have been nice if her soon to be ex-husband gives his own side of the story? or you are just in a hurry to respond?
i have not taken any sides if you read correctly. I have only responded in accordance with her first and second "publication" and not carried away by emotions or bias. I assure you I would have still responded without favour If the story was coming from a man complaining about his wife.

superCleanworks:

my sole interest in relationships? please do not move too fast or did you not read where i pointed out that it would have been nice if her soon to be ex-husband gives his own side of the story? or you are just in a hurry to respond?
i have not taken any sides if you read correctly. I have only responded in accordance with her first and second "publication" and not carried away by emotions or bias. I assure you I would have still responded without favour If the story was coming from a man complaining about his wife.

BRATISLAVA:


Reverse the genders and tell us what you really want to say to all.

You have taken sides and made allegations about the OP. You want to advocate the husbands side of the story as if any of your imaginary allegations are worth what he's doing to her currently.

You're a noisy gender bigot.

it is not my fault that you lack the simplest basic ability to read and comprehend anything and you are carried away by emotions like a fish brain. that is entirely your problem. you are a very shallow minded ass kisser.
keep your imaginations to yourself and take sides if you want.
reverse the genders? see how disgustingly fooooolish you sound.
how about this? the OP is a manipulative troublesome, nagging, loveless, bitter cunt and she deserves every minute of that man's absence. do your worse

superCleanworks:


you are a very shallow minded ass kisser.
keep your imaginations to yourself and take sides if you want.
reverse the genders? see how disgustingly fooooolish you sound.
the OP is a manipulative troublesome, nagging, loveless, bitter cunt and she deserves every minute of that man's absence . do your worse

superCleanworks:
hmm
all this one sided, well polished, "i am the victim and he is the demon" kind of stories.
i read your first PUBLICATION last week or so.. and it had trouble maker, nagger, choker finger prints all over it but somehow you painted yourself so saintly without ever mentioning anything about your affection for your husband. it was all about you you you and and how his actions hurt you, all about you.
if only the man can come out to give his own side of the story but seems the mirror is totally broken already. Good luck with your new life.

BRATISLAVA:


You have fallen to insults.

superCleanworks:


funny cry baby. you started by calling me a bigot and you are here crying.

Amazingbaby:


There was no place I said he was the demon.
It is my narrative so it has to be narrated through my words,oga how would I know what he is feeling,I only know of his actions.
Did I not wrote that he said I hardly give him Peace? That is his words,so what do you want me to say.oh chim!

I am anything but a saint and if demanding answers from my "husband"means I nag and choke then so be it.

Amazingbaby:


There was no place I said he was the demon.
It is my narrative so it has to be narrated through my words,oga how would I know what he is feeling,I only know of his actions.
Did I not wrote that he said I hardly give him Peace? That is his words,so what do you want me to say.oh chim!

I am anything but a saint and if demanding answers from my "husband"means I nag and choke then so be it.

Amazingbaby:
There was no place I said he was the demon.

Amazingbaby:
if demanding answers from my "husband" means I nag and choke then so be it

BRATISLAVA:


Read his next post to know why you cannot bring relationship issues to this forum and expect fair hearing.

can you all see this mustard seed brain?
just look at the numbskull i am wasting my time on.
a fair hearing from one side of the story? such an emotional piglet you are.
see how you are exposing your daftness in full scale.

I will only respond to you if you attach a copy of your WAEC, JAMB, GCE, FIRST DEGREE showing your result in the use of english language and english literature. what a waste of time.

superCleanworks:


yes i read every word right from your first post and i am not surprised that your husband will say such because that is what your whole story smells of.

of course you said it all. he is the bad guy that packed his bags and abandoned his family. just like that. you chose the perfect word to make the world see what a bad person he is and emotional fools like BRATISLAVA have already swallowed it wholesale.


here you go again with your emotional sinker.

good luck

Amazingbaby:


Are you for real? What do you want me to say, should I have lied that he is home when he is not? Am I dealing with an insane person on nairaland?
I hate pity that is why I warned my mum never to tell my siblings or anyone,why then would I need nairalnds pity?

Biko I need practical opinion on how to move forward.avoid me.

insane? LOL. you must be and angry i am not telling you what you want to hear. but since you like insults....
you are the insane girl who failed to see that your husband had left you months ago before he ever picked that bag and left the house at night regardless of all the thieves and kidnapper and ritualists out there at night, it was just tooooo much that he rather face all the dangers of night than to spend one more second in the same place with you.
you think your husband left you because of that babe? think again. is he the only man that has is having babe outside? think again. he left because your outstanding problem was just so much and so bad that he could not even wait for morning to come because he could no longer bear it. he was even nice enough to keep his phone ON.

you warned your mom but you came here to open the tap for pity party and attention. now you have gotten full dose of it.

all the advise people gave you from your first newspaper should have been enough for a wise woman but here you are again for more advise? or more attention? you do not know how to move forward without public opinion? sad.

have a nice life and i wish you all the best

Amazingbaby:
I called my husband and actually blasted him calling him a very big liar and how embarrassed I am.on Monday I left for the hospital he called and we discussed some business and the kids(I was actually not angry again knowing that he is no different from any other guy,if you see how he use to condemn cheating ehh....) Only for my mum to call me around 12 in the afternoon to ask me questions,my husband actually called my mum after I confronted him about what the girl said to tell her he is DONE with me,that I don't give him peace in the house that this and that.in summary calling the girl actually triggered divorce because I am ready for anything.

For those that are doubting that I am a woman,abeg I am.

I followed some lovely people advice and I have actually achieved alot of things this week

1i paid for driving lessons (he literally have to drive me everywhere or I take Uber)
2 I have dusted out my certificate and is seriously looking for jobs(I have contacted alot of outsourcing firms)
3 signed up for gym classes.

In a way I lost myself trying to be a good wife and mother that I literally drove away alot of my friends.i had to stop talking with a good olfriend of mine because my husband was chatting with her behind my back for long (this is one of the reasons I don't trust him)

Lots of information...

So what and what should I do to upgrade myself I have not work for a long time.

Cococandy
Double0h7
Mariangle
Saintmary

Amazingbaby:


There was no place I said he was the demon.
It is my narrative so it has to be narrated through my words,oga how would I know what he is feeling,I only know of his actions.
Did I not wrote that he said I hardly give him Peace? That is his words,so what do you want me to say.oh chim!

I am anything but a saint and if demanding answers from my "husband"means I nag and choke then so be it.

superCleanworks:

superCleanworks:

superCleanworks:


yes i read every word right from your first post and i am not surprised that your husband will say such because that is what your whole story smells of.

of course you said it all. he is the bad guy that packed his bags and abandoned his family. just like that. you chose the perfect word to make the world see what a bad person he is and emotional fools like BRATISLAVA have already swallowed it wholesale.


here you go again with your emotional sinker.

good luck

Amazingbaby:
Biko toks2008 and baby123 make una leave my page even though I love baby123

Link to the first https://www.nairaland.com/6971181/husband-left-us

This week have been crazy,I took alot of advice from this page and was minding my business,I called him on Saturday to come pick the kids because I deserve rest,he said he would prefer coming to the house to see them,he came I cooked and we all ate around 5 he picked up some clothes and left.he kept calling to talk about things in general and I was responding fine.my kids got sick on Sunday (night fever) and I spent all night tepid sponging and administering drugs.
On Sunday night he went out with his infamous friend when I called him around 10 he was still out(something he hardly do) when he got back he called and we got talking one thing led to another and I still asked him about the text message and the girl as usual he kept on hammering on how he doesn't owe me any explanation,I told him that if he doesn't give me an explanation I would have to call the girl directly,he cut the call and I actually called her.
When I asked her where she went with my husband the lady told me that my husband saw that she was interested in tech event and took her there on that Saturday,he actually went to pick her up(lol)
I asked her how did she know everything about his business and why would she want to work for him for free,she said my husband normally come to his friends office and when he is not around he he do strike up conversation with her and tell her all about his business and she was interested in growing it(lol)
She got very uncomfortable and started talking about how she is a minister in her church (I actually bursted out laughing at this point),she said a whole lot of things contradicting everything my husband told me,he was even talking with her since he left the house.

Amazingbaby:


There was no place I said he was the demon.
It is my narrative so it has to be narrated through my words,oga how would I know what he is feeling,I only know of his actions.
Did I not wrote that he said I hardly give him Peace? That is his words, so what do you want me to say.oh chim!

I am anything but a saint and if demanding answers from my "husband"means I nag and choke then so be it.