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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by postmann: 8:58pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
ShaqFu: Greetings, the one and only _Shaqfu! It's been a while, bro. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:00pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
gift0123:see as small small pikin wey never enter marriage dey cheer her up. The truth is, no man will ever leave the house and stay out for days if the wife is not a troublemaker and nagging douchebag. Let her continue. I throway salute for the man in question. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HilcomTech(m): 9:01pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: At bolded: You are a very manipulative and wicked person for denying that you did not paint your husband as demon. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by debbydams(f): 9:01pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
womenareapess:smiles..u crack me up lol |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by ponavick(f): 9:04pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
what do you really want? Do you want your marriage to work out? Do you want to end it? If you want it to work then you have to be the bigger person and alologize, it comes with consequences though.�♂️ If you decide you don't want it then, getting a job and hitting the gym is a good move but remember you have to work twice as hard, because it ain't easy out here, the choice is yours. 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BabaCommander: 9:07pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Richy4: It's good that your concern is reconcilliation. That indeed is the goal of counselling. But counselling is not all about please, take it easy, it's ok, just forget it"..... it's not all black and white. The are many ways to reconcile people, and you have to look for the best option to achieve lasting peace if it's possible. That's where the hard truth may neccessary. There times to tell the hard truth. The man from what op posted appears to know he's being mean and unreasonable. The threat of seperatio is a defensive move. He will neec to drop it to heal completely. That's why I said op should stay cool. Don't get angry or bitter and you will be clear minded in taking good and firm decision. I hope you really understand. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:11pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
My little advice is that you should not push for divorce. Don't ask him why he called mom. This man will come back to his senses and will return home. I do not believe he would trade his wife and kids just because of one irresponsible lady outside. If he doesn't return in two weeks time, then call him and tell him to come home that you both need to talk. Sit him down and have a conversation, tell him to look at his young children........does he want them to end up with divorced parents? Be calm about it. He will return. The devil is trying to use him, so stand in the gap. I know you feel that you can always remarry if he's gone, but this marriage can work out, so stand in the gap. I really hope my advice is not out of place, because I didn't fully follow up all your comments in both threads. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Johnsown1(m): 9:12pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Its a good thing that you have realised that you needed to help yourself and be strong for your kids. I would only advice you to Argue less with him Get a job Look good and dress neat Choose your friends and finally Pray for him. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by ShaqFu: 9:17pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
postmann:Yeah it has my good sir. How have you been? I see your penmanship is as sharp as it was since 2016. I pay my resspet my good sir, and I pay it gladly. Cheers. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:18pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Bubblewitch:have you heard from the man in question? |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by franchasng: 9:20pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
santiagoz:Op take this harsh advice. You don't throw away bathing water with the baby just because the baby is crying too much. One cheating is not enough to end your marriage oh lol. Many married ladies encouraging you to divorce that nothing mega, if you check well, their husbands have more than 3 concubines which they know and have accepted them as part of their large family, but here they are encouraging you to divorce your own because of an unverified cheating suspicion, fear women lolz Since he is not physically abusive or violent, please don't end it oh, even the single ladies encouraging you, their own future husband is already cheating and will cheat but they are here cheering you on and telling you how they cannot tolerate cheating I am not here to defend your hubby oh, he bleeped up, who hires his side chick to work in his office? He is a learner you better forgive him oh lol, your hubby is not even a pro in cheating lol You don't have a good job, no existing business, if you accept divorce, my sister it won't be easy financially oh, hope you know? it may take 3 to 5 years for you to stabilize your business and to secure a good paying job as an out of job mother of one in this Buhariaa goormet no go easy oh, abeg think this thing well sister. Forget online supporters oh, unless they will form a group and fundraise you like 10million as backup, then you can sign the divorce with azonto dance self Make una de calm down small small, that dick for men thighs no get sense, you no see as the thing disgrace Aliko Dangote despite his billions abi you no de hear Otedola story for Gistlovers some years back? hmmmm 12 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:21pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
debbydams:don't spoil this overtly emotional woman's marriage. She'll see hell as a single mom, trust me. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:23pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:baby girl calm down and win your husband back, naso marriage be sometimes. You go suffer as a single mum, abeg no thread that part. Biko 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 9:24pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
postmann: Why did you stop? Is that all you can manage? Normal creatures evolve, but you have remained an amorphous jelly in its miasma of self hate and accursedness. The rest of the creatures grew scales and fins, they left that hadal state you come from, but you remain devolved perpetually. Continue. Tell us more. Perhaps you will provide a modicum of entertainment yet. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Athemisia: 9:25pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Honesty, I hate seeing ladies look down on themselves and think they're nothing without their husbands. Some are saying mend your marriage bla bla bla bla... See, you are the only one who truly knows the pain you feel. Stopping letting a man treat you like trash. It's obvious he has lost his respect for you so stop trying to force him to do so. Be like Rihanna my dear. You've started a gym class? Nice one! Get back in shape, dress seductive, go out and let other men know you are searching. Right now, you need a man by your side, who you can speak with, hold hands, and fuúck silly. But only you can get that man of your dreams. If you do this, the more happier you become and sooner than later you start loosing attraction towards that man you call husband. Simply because you choose to respect yourself more. Go baby girl, go have fun. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:26pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
joyandfaith:be ready to send her urgent 2k to feed the kids when the situation begs for it. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by mercy87: 9:26pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
What a nigerian man means by peace is a woman that will take his evils, misbehaviour, rubbish and nonsense calmly without a word. Once you ask questions, or demand for accountability then you dont give him peace. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:26pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
joyandfaith:I hope you're ready to send her urgent 2k to feed the kids when the situation begs for it. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nyascobar1414: 9:26pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Op did your husband marry you a virgin?.... If not...
Then carry the cross and GTFOutta this thread.. 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nyascobar1414: 9:29pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Athemisia: She has kids.... Seems you aren't married... Then stop giving st*pid advice 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Athemisia: 9:31pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:Did her runaway husband consider that? 8 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Athemisia: 9:33pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:See who is giving stüpid advice? A complete föōl! 8 Likes
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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Bakare19: 9:33pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Damn! The husband must be frustrated as heck. Madam, you are too combative in approach and for all we know, there ain't clear evidence that your hubby is having an affair with the said lady. You want to throw away your marriage based on presumptions, and a mere unsubstantiated distraction at best from a stray woman? This is really surreal. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by mercy87: 9:36pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: Dont mind them. They are scared that women are actually demanding for accountability in marriage. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by ss1930(m): 9:36pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
U women keep deceiving yourselves.. So it's after he has started going out that you remember that you have certificate, U need to gym and learn driving right? Why didn't you improve yourself since? You wait until matters get worst before you do the right things. U better secure your marriage, Nobody wants 2nd hand lady when there are lots of fresh ladies out there... Amazingbaby: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by franchasng: 9:36pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Athemisia:The same men you are encouraging her to get in shape and dress seductive to attract will still cheat on her or even do worse than what her hubby did. The only option is for her to turn to lesbian or dedicate her entire sex life to serving God and focusing on making money to raise her kids and to enjoy her single life. Telling her to divorce her husband and focus on looking good to attract new men is nothing but running around the bush because the same men will cheat on her abi you no know? Make una de calm down oh. The lady her husband is seeing is very easy to convince her to end any amorous affairs she is having with her hubby, i dont see a big deal there. Any lady that hate her man cheating on her and wants to be fully sure that men wont cheat on her should turn to a lesbian or a sister at a monastry and dedicate her sex life to serving God. First thing you ladies should do for her to support her is to start a fundraising project to raise between 5 to 15million for her to startup a business and cater for her baby. Any oral or written support without financial backing is suicidal 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HIbreed(m): 9:36pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by jonandez: 9:38pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
How can your husband just lose interest in u all of a sudden.. From ur story he seems to be the peace loving type.. Something is not quite clear... But wat do I know 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 9:40pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
frozen70:Men must cheat? The way you women just vomit this nonsense sha..one would think women don't cheat. Is there a woman that haven't cheated before? 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
ezugegere: If her husband is not having peace of mind at home and if he is truly not cheating, then why does he keep calling her every now and then? Guilty much? If he was truly innocent, then he wouldn’t be calling her every time especially if she was giving him trouble 7 Likes 1 Share |
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