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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 11:56am On Feb 11, 2022
breeezefe:
Good morning Mamas. Is PCV of 28% too low for a pregnant woman? I went for PCV test at 4months and it was 28%> I did another one at 6months and it still said 28%. I don't know if the error can be from the scientist or that's just what it is. The doctor recommended that I increase my fersolate intake to twice a day.

Hope nothing is wrong with me
It is low for a pregnant woman. I had pcv of 29% at 5 months plus low blood pressure and I was admitted to treat the 2.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by breeezefe: 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2022
Expectantmom:

It is low for a pregnant woman. I had pcv of 29% at 5 months plus low blood pressure and I was admitted to treat the 2.


Thanks for your response. But must I be admitted to treat it?

My blood pressure is 100/60

I hope that's fair enough?
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nahzyla: 1:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
Ligxy:
Where the October mamas @?
We're doing fine here o. Great mood all through, if not for hanti Halcyon123 and her wicked plates of delicacies, today was going perfect.....until now.
Now, I'm hungry

October here. I was shy to say it before because the date still dey kind of far small... tongue

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by madprophet(m): 1:21pm On Feb 11, 2022
Hello Mama,

Hopes it going well?

Ye are all invited to our prayer meeting tonight

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 1:22pm On Feb 11, 2022
breeezefe:



Thanks for your response. But must I be admitted to treat it?

My blood pressure is 100/60

I hope that's fair enough?
Your blood pressure is ok and I think only your doctor can advise on what to do concerning the low pcv
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StarryV(f): 1:42pm On Feb 11, 2022
Hamzashaf99:

I believe it's part of pregnancy congestion, coupled with the very dry and dusty harmattan we have now.

The sneeze will be felt in your pelvis, very painful. I'm just managing it and avoiding cold water for now.
Very painful! I'm glad someone else can relate.

Avoidance of cold water? really? undecided now i'm confused. I was advised to be taking cold water o maybe because of the bleeding i experienced last week. They said it will make my body/tummy cool as hotness may trigger another bleeding. What do i know? As a FTM we download every advice hahaha grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Omakraid(f): 3:18pm On Feb 11, 2022
Smartriya:


EDD- 15th May, 2022
Sex- surprise ( didn't ask when i did a 3d scan)
Praying i have a healthy baby. It's been a bumpy ride for me. But in all i give thanks.
Thanks to God for the journey so far and also for the rest of the journey. I pray He will see us through it all. Cappo Expectantmom, take note

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 4:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
Where can I get expressed milk storage pouches in Abuja.

Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Hamzashaf99(f): 4:29pm On Feb 11, 2022
StarryV:

Very painful! I'm glad someone else can relate.

Avoidance of cold water? really? undecided now i'm confused. I was advised to be taking cold water o maybe because of the bleeding i experienced last week. They said it will make my body/tummy cool as hotness may trigger another bleeding. What do i know? As a FTM we download every advice hahaha grin
I notice that it makes it worse for me, even though the weather is hot sometimes. I just take my water straight from the tap. That's my only reason, even though that one hardly quenches thirst unless I drink a lot.

I don't know about that cooling thing. Sabi Mamas fit help

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by shutupareyouGOD: 6:01pm On Feb 11, 2022
Jumia, baby stores,,,, online stores etc
Splasshhh:
Where can I get expressed milk storage pouches in Abuja.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by GenyEbere(f): 6:13pm On Feb 11, 2022
Smartriya:


New here. Congratulations! I'm team May by God's grace.
Also getting my tubes tied. Just learnt i don't have to do CS to get it done.

Yes you can tie it without CS
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by GenyEbere(f): 6:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
Trippleblessing:



No cheating ooo, we want our own omugwo too.
Yeaaaaaa na official mama boys o April cappo sex XY grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:16pm On Feb 11, 2022
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Location: Lagos (LIASU ROAD IKOTUN)
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Aisha90: 7:27pm On Feb 11, 2022
Splasshhh:
Where can I get expressed milk storage pouches in Abuja.

I have from my last pregnancy which i didnt use it is lansinoh brand.send me a pm
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by TOHHAN(f): 7:49pm On Feb 11, 2022
Good evening mamas, so pls I av having stomach pain round under my abdomen on the 8th and went to do a scan which the scan confirm the baby is fyn bt I have fibroid, I went to the hospital with my scan result on d 9th and d 1 of d Dr said I'm having a false labour contraction bt ll still do dere hospital scan(bt d lab tell me dey v close around 2pm) den he gave me injection and ask to b taken paracetamol 3tyms a day. The second Dr said d pain am having might b due to the fibroid growing wit the baby. The pain has reduce after the injection day bt didn't go totally, d cramp ll jt hook me for a while and relief me den hook me again afta a while though was told to cum back for check up next week. I came back home now and sumone told me I had a stain, looking at the stain, it was like a water discharge that release out from my pant(though I wear only pant and a cloth nt so free). Is it sumtin I should be panic about or I can still wait and see by tomao because there's assurance I can't do scan from the hospital again tonit.
Am just 23weeks pls
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2022
TOHHAN:
Good evening mamas, so pls I av having stomach pain round under my abdomen on the 8th and went to do a scan which the scan confirm the baby is fyn bt I have fibroid, I went to the hospital with my scan result on d 9th and d 1 of d Dr said I'm having a false labour contraction bt ll still do dere hospital scan(bt d lab tell me dey v close around 2pm) den he gave me injection and ask to b taken paracetamol 3tyms a day. The second Dr said d pain am having might b due to the fibroid growing wit the baby. The pain has reduce after the injection day bt didn't go totally, d cramp ll jt hook me for a while and relief me den hook me again afta a while though was told to cum back for check up next week. I came back home now and sumone told me I had a stain, looking at the stain, it was like a water discharge that release out from my pant(though I wear only pant and a cloth nt so free). Is it sumtin I should be panic about or I can still wait and see by tomao because there's assurance I can't do scan from the hospital again tonit.
Am just 23weeks pls
I think you should carry out a scan in a private lab. Please do this as early as possible tomorrow to be sure of what is really going on. There shall be no loss in Jesus name.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 8:51pm On Feb 11, 2022
Expectantmom:
TEAM MAY OTHERWISE KNOWN AS TEAMPERFECTION!

FEBRUARY ROLL CALL FOR TEAM MAY 2022.

Hello teamies! How are we all doing? Please let's start talking and chatting with each other because that is the main purpose of this group and our seniors have been excellent in helping out with some concerns and advice which I know most if not all of us appreciates.

I will lead by example by providing Little one's gender and I'll like us to follow suit. I'll try as much as possible to always update our roll call till the end of every successful birth because the Lord has perfected all that concerns us, He will surely see us through alive and healthy.

I hope we have started shopping for baby's things(I have and almost done)? Please let's endeavor to do so before we become heavier which would then become harder to do. For those who are going through financial challenge, may Almighty God miraculously surprise you beyond your expectations and He will make things easy for and on us.

Furthermore, please let's take our antenatal drugs seriously and also eat healthy like eating fruits no matter how little it is.

Lastly, God Almighty that has brought us this far will see us through. None among us shall die nor have a still birth. We shall carry to term and people shall rejoice with us very soon in Jesus name.
NAME...........................GENDER....................EDD

1. Omakraid ....................XX...................7/5/22

2. Mjblinks .......................XY..................22/5/22

3. Expectantmom ...........XY..................20/5/22

4. Gracygem100 .....................................15/5/22

5. Ladyfair .......................XX.....................7/5/22

6. Mumplenty ..........................................19/5/22

7. Mandela89 ..................XY....................29/5/22

8. Teminisuccess66 ...............................23/5/22

9. MGeey ....................................................

10. Niyyah ......................XY........................4/5/22

11. Breeezefe ..............................................7/5/22

12. GracieN ...............................................25/5/22

13. Uririandme ...........................................7/5/22

14. MamDG .................................................

15. Yinbridge...........SURPRISE.................31/5/22

16. MorningStar233....UNKNOWN...22(31)/5/22

17. Vivi01......…..............XY..........................5/5/22

18. Spicy128....…...........XX.........................23/5/22

19. Smartriya...... SURPRISE....................15/5/22

Please if you're a May mama kindly drop your EDD and gender so you can be added to our lovely team. Wishing us all smooth and healthy waddling for perfect delivery.

#teamperfection.
Please May mamas who are yet to supply us with their little ones gender should please do so.
Wishing us all a healthy waddling and perfect delivery in Jesus name.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hayohdele(m): 9:28pm On Feb 11, 2022
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Layormiii(f): 10:14pm On Feb 11, 2022
TOHHAN:
Good evening mamas, so pls I av having stomach pain round under my abdomen on the 8th and went to do a scan which the scan confirm the baby is fyn bt I have fibroid, I went to the hospital with my scan result on d 9th and d 1 of d Dr said I'm having a false labour contraction bt ll still do dere hospital scan(bt d lab tell me dey v close around 2pm) den he gave me injection and ask to b taken paracetamol 3tyms a day. The second Dr said d pain am having might b due to the fibroid growing wit the baby. The pain has reduce after the injection day bt didn't go totally, d cramp ll jt hook me for a while and relief me den hook me again afta a while though was told to cum back for check up next week. I came back home now and sumone told me I had a stain, looking at the stain, it was like a water discharge that release out from my pant(though I wear only pant and a cloth nt so free). Is it sumtin I should be panic about or I can still wait and see by tomao because there's assurance I can't do scan from the hospital again tonit.
Am just 23weeks pls
mama please try and go to the hospital first thing tomorrow morning since it's late already this night. I will put u in my prayers, the lord will put a stop to all the cramps and stomach pain ijn and nothing will happen to the baby lagbara olorun.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nnekamso: 11:40pm On Feb 11, 2022
teebee22:
Pls who have used or have idea about Fmc asaba for antenatal till delivery. I want review and cost pls.


You should try specialist hospital at okpanam, I hear fmc refer cases there. Their wards are very neat and nurses are nice too. Aside a few test, every other thing is free including CS

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ligxy(f): 2:49am On Feb 12, 2022
nahzyla:


October here. I was shy to say it before because the date still dey kind of far small... tongue
Nothing to be shy of jare, the journey has started already, I've started forming "pregnant woman" for hubby, and receiving that special care and attention reserved for pregnancy period, akanot comman wound maisef grin grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nahzyla: 3:35am On Feb 12, 2022
Ligxy:

Nothing to be shy of jare, the journey has started already, I've started forming "pregnant woman" for hubby, and receiving that special care and attention reserved for pregnancy period, akanot comman wound maisef grin grin

Me too ooo

Pregnancy sickness started on Tuesday for me so I don't even need to form sef.
I no get power and I have nausea that keeps me from eating. Last night I just left children and house for him to take care of and I went to lie down.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by threegees(f): 3:50am On Feb 12, 2022
GenyEbere:


Yes you can tie it without CS

Please enlighten me. How is it done without CS
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 6:21am On Feb 12, 2022
shutupareyouGOD:
Jumia, baby stores,,,, online stores etc

I have checked few baby stores in my area but could not find it.
Do you know any baby store in Abuja that I can get it?
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Glozzy239: 6:53am On Feb 12, 2022
My princess arrived yesterday.
Edd 11th of February
DOB 11th of February
BS loading..
Thank mummies for the advice and guidances
Safe delivery to all the mothers expecting their babies... There shall be no loss.
Congratulations to everyone that has welcome their babies.
God bless you all

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Teminisuccess66: 6:59am On Feb 12, 2022
Expectantmom:

Please May mamas who are yet to supply us with their little ones gender should please do so.
Wishing us all a healthy waddling and perfect delivery in Jesus name.

Ameen, good morning cappo. Kindly update the gender to XX.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 7:31am On Feb 12, 2022
Teminisuccess66:


Ameen, good morning cappo. Kindly update the gender to XX.
Good morning mama. I'll do just that and thanks for responding to roll call. I hope you and little one are doing great? Wishing you a healthy and happy waddling.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Expectantmom: 7:36am On Feb 12, 2022
Expectantmom:
TEAM MAY OTHERWISE KNOWN AS TEAMPERFECTION!

FEBRUARY ROLL CALL FOR TEAM MAY 2022.

Hello teamies! How are we all doing? Please let's start talking and chatting with each other because that is the main purpose of this group and our seniors have been excellent in helping out with some concerns and advice which I know most if not all of us appreciates.

I will lead by example by providing Little one's gender and I'll like us to follow suit. I'll try as much as possible to always update our roll call till the end of every successful birth because the Lord has perfected all that concerns us, He will surely see us through alive and healthy.

I hope we have started shopping for baby's things(I have and almost done)? Please let's endeavor to do so before we become heavier which would then become harder to do. For those who are going through financial challenge, may Almighty God miraculously surprise you beyond your expectations and He will make things easy for and on us.

Furthermore, please let's take our antenatal drugs seriously and also eat healthy like eating fruits no matter how little it is.

Lastly, God Almighty that has brought us this far will see us through. None among us shall die nor have a still birth. We shall carry to term and people shall rejoice with us very soon in Jesus name.
NAME...........................GENDER....................EDD

1. Omakraid ....................XX...................7/5/22

2. Mjblinks .......................XY..................22/5/22

3. Expectantmom ...........XY..................20/5/22

4. Gracygem100 .....................................15/5/22

5. Ladyfair .......................XX.....................7/5/22

6. Mumplenty ..........................................19/5/22

7. Mandela89 ..................XY....................29/5/22

8. Teminisuccess66 .......XX...................23/5/22

9. MGeey ................................................

10. Niyyah ......................XY........................4/5/22

11. Breeezefe ........................................7/5/22

12. GracieN ..........................................25/5/22

13. Uririandme .....................................7/5/22

14. MamDG .................................................

15. Yinbridge...........SURPRISE...............31/5/22

16. MorningStar233....UNKNOWN...22(31)/5/22

17. Vivi01......…..............XY..........................5/5/22

18. Spicy128....…...........XX.........................23/5/22

19. Smartriya...... SURPRISE..................15/5/22

Please if you're a May mama kindly drop your EDD and gender so you can be added to our lovely team. Wishing us all smooth and healthy waddling for perfect delivery.

#teamperfection.
Good morning all! How are we doing? Uririandme mumplenty MGeey GracieN MamaDG Gracygem100 it's been a while we've heard from you guys. Hope everything is going on fine with y'all? Please answer roll call so our minds will be at rest.
Wishing us all a wonderful weekend.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by TOHHAN(f): 8:14am On Feb 12, 2022
Expectantmom:

I think you should carry out a scan in a private lab. Please do this as early as possible tomorrow to be sure of what is really going on. There shall be no loss in Jesus name.
I did the first in a a private lab and datz wat show the fibroid b4 the general hospital said dey ll still do dere own scan for me. Thanks ma, will b on my way to the hospital
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by TOHHAN(f): 8:15am On Feb 12, 2022
Layormiii:
mama please try and go to the hospital first thing tomorrow morning since it's late already this night. I will put u in my prayers, the lord will put a stop to all the cramps and stomach pain ijn and nothing will happen to the baby lagbara olorun.
Amen. Thanks ma
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 8:47am On Feb 12, 2022
BS! BS! BS!

Finally I have the privilege to share my birth story.

For the privilege of testimony and thanksgiving, Quick throwback to 2018.

So I got married to DH in 2018 and before our white wedding, I experienced my first miscarriage. Like joke, I suffered recurrent first trimester miscarriages three different times, of course, Doctors cannot explain why this happens. Forward to Oct 2019, I conceived even when I was not planning. How did it end? I had IUFD at 9 months - 7th July, 2020 - accompanied with bleeding due to placenta abruptio. I was sectioned to deliver my beautiful baby girl but, then she was already lifeless. I was transfused 6 pints of blood to be alive today. Fast forward to 2021. I planned to take in, yes it was not accidental but, I was worried about the outcome. Really exhausted from miscarriages and disappointments. I remember saying that prayer, "God, if you won't grant me this honor, do not take me half way". If you have experienced evacuation as a woman, your prayers will almost be never to conceive than to miscarry along the way.

So the journey started in May, 2021. I prayed intentionally and I closely questioned every impossibility. My Dr. adviced me to do cyclogest treatment up to 20 weeks. But I am both stubborn physically and spiritually. So, I thought to myself, I did all the bed rest and progesterone treatment yet, I lost my baby to IUFD. Hubby was ready to embark on this journey at all cost but, I told him I was not doing any medical treatment except bed rest. He bought cyclogest and I personally called the pharmacy to return it and exchange it for prenatal vitamins. I encourage DH to meet me at the level of my faith. We prayed the prayers, had the bad dreams of course but we were determined to win this time.

Please, let me not be sounding like it was my capacity, No. God had me all the way because at the time I took in, I needed bed rest but, I am also a working class mum. I thought it through, then a program came up in my office that needed 2 months virtual participation, I was successfully selected to participate. Guys, see bed rest on a platter. LOL!
So, just before I finished the program, I was past my first trimester. Apart from the usual symptoms, I had no cause for alarm. Then I resumed work in my second trimester and everything continued to move well with lil anxiety here and there though.

Fast forward to this year, 2022. EDD was 14, Feb, 2022 - val things. I was excited, all of a sudden, my consultant started suggesting CS because of my medical history. I really struggled with this option. Not because CS was a big deal but because I always wanted to have the pleasure of jagina delivery too - all round experience - and a second time CS would mean a risk for jajina trial in the future.

Well, story cut short. I was told that 37 weeks it would be for me. I went home and prepared my mind. A week to my 37 weeks, consultant booked me for 29th Jan, 2022 - that is 38 weeks. I did not object. More time for me. I went home happily. A week to my 38 weeks, I visited and they insisted on admitting me and carrying out surgery the next day. Ah!!! Ogbeni is that how this butchering is easy for you people to mutter? Do you know how I have been adjusting psychologically? I refused o. Before they could gather in accordance to convince me, I packed my bag and ran home o without looking back. I called my mum and told her to start preparing for 29th is the date.

Finally, on 28th, I was supposed to check into the hospital against 29th but my spirit was cold. I simply stayed back and slept on my bed. Lol!!!
DH was just like, this my wife, please let us get this thing over with na. I said hubby, everything will be fine. That morning, we got to the hospital very early. We went to check in with the nurses that started giving attitudes as to why I did not come last night. I just said, I could not come but I have come now. After much drama, I asked them, do you want to cancel my booking and send me home? Lol!!!

Las las, they prepared my bed and dressed me up. Reality gradually started closing in on me. I started sleeping o. When they took me to the theater, I continued sleeping. Dr. came and tapped me saying, "I like the way you are just relaxed about this process. The only thing remaining in your disposition now is beer and fish". I laughed out loud and said, "Dr. CS it is and nothing else. So, let me be sleeping until we are ready".

Finally, in the order of Sarah, my laughter has come. My cute princess was birthed on the 29th of Jan, 2022. Everyone who heard me has been laughing with me.

Yours will also end in praise.

Take home
- mean it when you trust God. Don't doubt Him.
-still do your part because faith must be accompanied with work
-the baby that will stay will stay.
-know what your problem is and handle it. Mine was first trimester miscarriages.
-mums we are and children must come. So, remain +ve against all odds

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Omakraid(f): 9:48am On Feb 12, 2022
Splasshhh:
BS! BS! BS!

Finally I have the privilege to share my birth story.

For the privilege of testimony and thanksgiving, Quick throwback to 2018.

So I got married to DH in 2018 and before our white wedding, I experienced my first miscarriage. Like joke, I suffered recurrent first trimester miscarriages three different times, of course, Doctors cannot explain why this happens. Forward to Oct 2019, I conceived even when I was not planning. How did it end? I had IUFD at 9 months - 7th July, 2020 - accompanied with bleeding due to placenta abruptio. I was sectioned to deliver my beautiful baby girl but, then she was already lifeless. I was transfused 6 pints of blood to be alive today. Fast forward to 2021. I planned to take in, yes it was not accidental but, I was worried about the outcome. Really exhausted from miscarriages and disappointments. I remember saying that prayer, "God, if you won't grant me this honor, do not take me half way". If you have experienced evacuation as a woman, your prayers will almost be never to conceive than to miscarry along the way.

So the journey started in May, 2021. I prayed intentionally and I closely questioned every impossibility. My Dr. adviced me to do cyclogest treatment up to 20 weeks. But I am both stubborn physically and spiritually. So, I thought to myself, I did all the bed rest and progesterone treatment yet, I lost my baby to IUFD. Hubby was ready to embark on this journey at all cost but, I told him I was not doing any medical treatment except bed rest. He bought cyclogest and I personally called the pharmacy to return it and exchange it for prenatal vitamins. I encourage DH to meet me at the level of my faith. We prayed the prayers, had the bad dreams of course but we were determined to win this time.

Please, let me not be sounding like it was my capacity, No. God had me all the way because at the time I took in, I needed bed rest but, I am also a working class mum. I thought it through, then a program came up in my office that needed 2 months virtual participation, I was successfully selected to participate. Guys, see bed rest on a platter. LOL!
So, just before I finished the program, I was past my first trimester. Apart from the usual symptoms, I had no cause for alarm. Then I resumed work in my second trimester and everything continued to move well with lil anxiety here and there though.

Fast forward to this year, 2022. EDD was 14, Feb, 2022 - val things. I was excited, all of a sudden, my consultant started suggesting CS because of my medical history. I really struggled with this option. Not because CS was a big deal but because I always wanted to have the pleasure of jagina delivery too - all round experience - and a second time CS would mean a risk for jajina trial in the future.

Well, story cut short. I was told that 37 weeks it would be for me. I went home and prepared my mind. A week to my 37 weeks, consultant booked me for 29th Jan, 2022 - that is 38 weeks. I did not object. More time for me. I went home happily. A week to my 38 weeks, I visited and they insisted on admitting me and carrying out surgery the next day. Ah!!! Ogbeni is that how this butchering is easy for you people to mutter? Do you know how I have been adjusting psychologically? I refused o. Before they could gather in accordance to convince me, I packed my bag and ran home o without looking back. I called my mum and told her to start preparing for 29th is the date.

Finally, on 28th, I was supposed to check into the hospital against 29th but my spirit was cold. I simply stayed back and slept on my bed. Lol!!!
DH was just like, this my wife, please let us get this thing over with na. I said hubby, everything will be fine. That morning, we got to the hospital very early. We went to check in with the nurses that started giving attitudes as to why I did not come last night. I just said, I could not come but I have come now. After much drama, I asked them, do you want to cancel my booking and send me home? Lol!!!

Las las, they prepared my bed and dressed me up. Reality gradually started closing in on me. I started sleeping o. When they took me to the theater, I continued sleeping. Dr. came and tapped me saying, "I like the way you are just relaxed about this process. The only thing remaining in your disposition now is beer and fish". I laughed out loud and said, "Dr. CS it is and nothing else. So, let me be sleeping until we are ready".

Finally, in the order of Sarah, my laughter has come. My cute princess was birthed on the 29th of Jan, 2022. Everyone who heard me has been laughing with me.

Yours will also end in praise.

Take home
- mean it when you trust God. Don't doubt Him.
-still do your part because faith must be accompanied with work
-the baby that will stay will stay.
-know what your problem is and handle it. Mine was first trimester miscarriages.
-mums we are and children must come. So, remain +ve against all odds
Congratulations on your testimony. More joy on your way in Jesus name

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