Validated:
Wish you success ... but you will be FULL of regrets later. A man that could have easily used you for money rituals but kept you and fend for you when you were weak and vulnerable to this age must have loved you. Do not be ungrateful now because he in not able to provide all you need.

viyon02:
That is serious, whatever his iniquity was, just don't make quick decision at the moment, I just want you to know that you are still living just by undeserved kindness of God, and the best way to punish him is to forgive him. Then God will see reasons to do the right thing.

jyz200:
He doesn’t deserved to be called a father

jyz200:
He doesn’t deserved to be called a father

Kobojunkie:
What has God's mercy to do with his father though?

Mariangeles:
Jesus Christ said Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.

Validated:
Wish you success ... but you will be FULL of regrets later. A man that could have easily used you for money rituals but kept you and fend for you when you were weak and vulnerable to this age must have loved you. Do not be ungrateful now because he in not able to provide all you need.

jyz200:
He doesn’t deserved to be called a father

Lucasmuyiwaa:
I'm in your shoes bro. My father is a nagging type and he always want something done in his own way. Imagine my dad telling me to stop wearing shirts, round neck and Polo's And Jean simply because they will tag me an irresponsible person Lol. He prefer a learned person like me to be wearing Ankara and jalabia. But everything that's happening to you is because you still live under his roof.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
I'm in your shoes bro. My father is a nagging type and he always want something done in his own way. Imagine my dad telling me to stop wearing shirts, round neck and Polo's And Jean simply because they will tag me an irresponsible person Lol. He prefer a learned person like me to be wearing Ankara and jalabia. But everything that's happening to you is because you still live under his roof.

jyz200:
He doesn’t deserved to be called a father

Ahmback:
Teenage talk!

Nekky5:
I wish my father is still alive. I would have done more for him no matter his short comings. I envy those that still have someone to call FATHER!

JeffreyJunior:
He is probably a teenager or young adult so he won't understand yet.

Even in this my old age, I once in a while cry privately for not having my dad around.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
I'm in your shoes bro. My father is a nagging type and he always want something done in his own way. Imagine my dad telling me to stop wearing shirts, round neck and Polo's And Jean simply because they will tag me an irresponsible person Lol. He prefer a learned person like me to be wearing Ankara and jalabia. But everything that's happening to you is because you still live under his roof.

KingAlayinde:

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Validated:
[s]Wish you success ... but you will be FULL of regrets later. A man that could have easily used you for money rituals but kept you and fend for you when you were weak and vulnerable to this age must have loved you. Do not be ungrateful now because he in not able to provide all you need.[/s]

Karleb:


You people should stop this rubbish. No two fathers (or mothers) are the same.

The fact that you loved and cherished your dad, who may or may not be alive now doesn't mean others should cherish their own horrible parents. Our experiences differ.

It's like saying Shekau's children should be proud of him because he gave birth to them or a managing director telling a cleaner who is treated like trash at work to be happy he has a job. Or telling a woman whose husband beats everyday to be happy she has a husband because alot of women are single.

The attitude is disgusting, let's stop it.

ogashman:
Omo!

Op I was actually in ur shoes while growing up.

My father never really gave me the joy of being a teenager and to some extent an adult. I can count the number of days that I was Happy as child under my parents roof.

Imagine in my early twenties being sent on errands that ur younger ones could go. Like who does that? Because I'm under ur roof? No respect. He tells u to do a house chore and would want u to start doing it immediately without any breathing space.


But alas I knew that even if I keep living with him till I get to 40 years, he did be doing same thing all the time.


Parents fail to the reality that their children have grown and are no longer kids.


I solve this problem by moving out immediately after graduation.

He was against it...but my mind was made already.

Since then I have peace of mind.