Kobojunkie:
Why does she have to be a woman that men would want to marry?

Women set standards that are too high for you means they have low self-esteem? You sure say you process that logic of yours well at all?

Brahh, read my comment again... Luckily, this second time you'll be able to comprehend.

donbachi:
And failed to become the women the men want.
Reason for divorces.u forget sey two captains no fit sail one ship and sail it ruggedly.there must be rubsies.

But men don't even know what they want. Hence a lot of loveless marriage, divorce .

We4all:
She is actually right. I am impressed that more women are becoming financially independent.

Who is giving them the money? Fellow women abi?

Omicronvaccine:
Big Brother Naija star, Natacha Akide popularly known as Tacha has stated that she is now becoming the man she wanted to marry, IGBERETV reports.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ1l-qvtXbV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Woman to become like man?
Impossible.

She just said bunkum.

Rahkman:
I fit bone the body odour plus bleached skin still dawk this girl toto

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Wuna never forget that talk

Amotolongbo:

Dear Tacha,

A man is a man and will never become a perfect woman even after trans...
A woman is a woman and can never become a perfect man.

If i am in your shoes, I will prefer to work so hard on myself to become a perfect woman to complement an inperfect or perfect man (anyone I’m fortunate to marry) to build a perfect home and raise perfect children

I hear you, but I think what she is saying is finance. Financially she is independent

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
This tacha use style fine small
Forget the packaging and make up

She fine

Igbo amaka

Kobojunkie:
Black women? Just curious! Do you also believe that white women who live head and shoulders on same level, and sometimes above men are Superior to black women?

Stop twisting my words.You know the truth about black women especially Africans

shevchenko:
Stop twisting my words.You know the truth about black women especially Africans

Don't assume we live off of the same delusions abeg!

What truth do you claim to know about black women especially Africans?

Amotolongbo:

Dear Tacha,

A man is a man and will never become a perfect woman even after trans...
A woman is a woman and can never become a perfect man.

If i am in your shoes, I will prefer to work so hard on myself to become a perfect woman to complement an inperfect or perfect man (anyone I’m fortunate to marry) to build a perfect home and raise perfect children

No one is perfect though and neither can anyone have a perfect home or children

ArewaTech1:
Brahh, read my comment again... Luckily, this second time you'll be able to comprehend.

I re-read and the same questions pop out.

Again...Why does she have to be a woman that men would want to marry?

Women set standards that are too high for you means they have low self-esteem? You sure say you process that logic of yours well at all?

Simran94:
No one is perfect though and neither can anyone have a perfect home or children

I wholly disagree and this because depending on how you define perfection, you will find that it is indeed possible to attain perfection.

Why she com dey like cartoon here

Kobojunkie:
I wholly disagree and this because depending on how you define perfection, you will find that it is indeed possible to attain perfection.

This same standard for perfection is one of the reasons why many relationships and marriages are failing. Many people are looking for the perfect one, there’s no perfect one but a right one.
When you say you want a perfect man or woman, you mean someone completely free from faults and defects, which is not possible.

There’s no perfection with humans.

PrimadonnaO:
I think I get what she means.

At some point, she probably wanted a man who had a certain lifestyle... and could grant her a certain kind of lifestyle, too.

But now, she's able to do all of that by herself.

This would most likely mean that her priorities must have also changed.

*******
However, it would be a problem if the most important thing she ever wanted in a man was his money

Your head is always on your end dearie. Your comments always hits the nail on the head

Our friendship could have been up to 2 years old if only you agreed to linkup at What's the name of that garden park after Abijo area again

Kobojunkie:
Don't assume we live off of the same delusions abeg!

What truth do you claim to know about black women especially Africans?

You always feel like because you are abroad .You know anything.The truth is that your comments are very stupid and idiotic.
I don't have time to argue with your lamentable ignorance .
Go and take survey in the US and UK you find many of them are single .No man can take that shit they try to portray .
No wonder many black men prefer marrying or dating white women.By the time they are in their late 30s its too late all because "some of us are the men we wanted to marry"

We4all:
She is actually right. I am impressed that more women are becoming financially independent.

Happy she’s independent bt comparing herself to men she wanted to marry is dumb and unnecessary. Money isn’t the only thing to look for in a Man U want to marry.

African black immigrants women sometimes behave like filipino women .
Having no idea of success

We4all:


You mean women they can control right?

What's wrong in a man wanting a woman he can control?

It's called socioeconomic independence and self-reliance. All reasonable human has the right to be mentally and physically free in life. And being free does not translate to arrogance and high headedness, rather it should mean humility and compassion.

just2endowed:


Who is giving them the money? Fellow women abi?

So a woman can never make her own money unless it’s from a man? Really? Do people still think this way in this century?

We4all:
She is actually right. I am impressed that more women are becoming financially independent.

Someone answered you saying, SIMPle men actually helped most of them to become financially independent. If you disagree to that.

Then we would like you to tell us what kind of skills and businesses most of them do to earn big bux and live large...

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Compuro:



Your head is always on your end dearie. Your comments always hits the nail on the head

Our friendship could have been up to 2 years old if only you agreed to linkup at What's the name of that garden park after Abijo area again

Lol

Simran94:

This same standard for perfection is one of the reasons why many relationships and marriages are failing.
When you say you want a perfect man or woman, you mean someone completely free from faults and defects, someone which is not possible.

There’s no perfection with humans.

See, marriage is an agreement between a man and woman - no third-parties. What that means is one couple's standard of perfection where marriage is concerned isn't necessarily another couple's. So let's get that down abeg.

In relationship, perfection is subjective, meaning we cannot assume it for all. And depending on what one desires, it is possible to find the level of perfection one seeks in a partner. For instance, a woman whose idea of a perfect man is one who shares chores, cooks for her on special occasions, exercises regularly and gives her regular compliments is likely to find herself such a perfect partner if she looks hard enough.

shevchenko:

You always feel like because you are abroad .You know anything.The truth is that your comments are very stupid and idiotic.
I don't have time to argue with your lamentable ignorance .
Go and take survey in the US and UK you find many of them are single .No man can take that shit they try to portray .
No wonder many black men prefer marrying or dating white women.By the time they are in their late 30s its too late all because "some of us are the men we wanted to marry"

Stop assuming we both live off of the same delusions abeg!

What truth do you claim to know about black women especially Africans?

Omicronvaccine:
Big Brother Naija star, Natacha Akide popularly known as Tacha has stated that she is now becoming the man she wanted to marry, IGBERETV reports.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ1l-qvtXbV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

I agree with her oh, if I can do everything for myself, who man help?

Kobojunkie:
See, marriage is an agreement between a man and woman - no third-parties. What that means is one couple's standard of perfection where marriage is concerned isn't necessarily another couple's. So let's get that down abeg.

In relationship, perfection is subjective, meaning we cannot assume it for all. And depending on what one desires, it is possible to find the level of perfection one seeks in a partner. For instance, a woman whose idea of a perfect man is one who shares chores, cooks for her on special occasions, exercises regularly and gives her regular compliments is likely to find herself such a perfect partner if she looks hard enough.

Madam, take this anywhere.
There is no perfect man or woman, no perfect being.

Simran94:

Madam, take this anywhere.
There is no perfect man or woman, no perfect being.

Forget all you have been told about perfection being impossible for humans...perfection in relationship depends on the agreement between the parties in the relationship and once both are in agreement, perfection can be attained by the standard they set for self.

Simran94:


So a woman can never make her own money unless it’s from a man? Really? Do people still think this way in this century?

yes, people with functional brains do think this way in this century.

Even the Almighty western influence on you mind do allocate funds from discretionary budget to non-defense programs to support women empowerment. Majority of Men are the people providing those appropriation bill.

We4all:
She is actually right. I am impressed that more women are becoming financially independent.

Many people didn't understand her proverb. Good you grasped. See all the interpretations some are splitting on the forum.

Amotolongbo:

Dear Tacha,

A man is a man and will never become a perfect woman even after trans...
A woman is a woman and can never become a perfect man.

If i am in your shoes, I will prefer to work so hard on myself to become a perfect woman to complement an inperfect or perfect man (anyone I’m fortunate to marry) to build a perfect home and raise perfect children

If you put your reasonable words to action, you definitely will belong to a small percentage of women that are objective which from my own experience are less than 5%. I have high hopes for you. You are on the right part [color=#006600][/color] .