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Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Nnatuu: 8:37pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Now my question is... Whe you have millions of people attend your event, what benefit does it have over 10 key people attending your event? 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by PotatoSalad(m): 8:37pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Smh. A funeral shouldn't have more than 20 people in attendance. Best if it's just family and a few friends and well wishers. Shouldn't take more than 2 hours and no need for any refreshments. No be jamboree. The unnecessary spendings on funerals dey annoying 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by phorget(m): 8:37pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
It's still doesn't make any difference, if you are an introvert then you should plan your event accordingly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by tommy589(m): 8:38pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Well, your nature as an introvert won't stop people coming to your party if you are a kind person 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CXLVII: 8:38pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
As a hardcore introvert, I will never have a reason to invite people to anything. It’s just so impossible! Canopy, chairs, party or drinks are not in my dictionary. I don’t go out and neither do I expect anybody to invite me to anything cos you will be disappointed. I will never have a reason to invite people. 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CUMIN: 8:40pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
He would have learnt a lesson that has never been taught in school from that. You have to strategically mingle with people you like and dislike 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Premiumwriter: 8:40pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
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Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Danmboss(m): 8:40pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:Op shey you see, the thing touch me I nor fit lie but I you gat to de relate for ya area, and work place mind you with the right people, To avoid this type of situation in the future. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CUMIN: 8:41pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
CXLVII: Just wait till your moments of celebration comes. You will hate yourself 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CXLVII: 8:41pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
CUMIN: What am I celebrating? 7 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Premiumwriter: 8:41pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by BENCHOKCONSULT: 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: The issue might not be mingling alone. Did you know some churches will not allow their members attend a late members burial simply because she has not fully registered and made regular class dues, women or men's association payments? Did you know some churches won't allow their members attend a late members burial if she is not a registered member? Now the issue is that even if you have been attending a church for 20 years, so long as you have not registered as a member and recognized by others as a registered member and you die, none of them will attend your burial That I am trying to say is that even if the guy doesn't mingle with everybody but for the fact that his mom was a member of a particular church, his own canopy shouldnt have been that empty. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by vincentjk(m): 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Nawa o |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by pocohantas(f): 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Acidosis: Man wey sabi!! No be by redpill… you get sense 6 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Danmboss(m): 8:43pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
pocohantas:This embarrassment pass when person salp you for public |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CUMIN: 8:43pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Nnatuu: This is not about key people. There's a reason parents join several social group. When you get there you will understand |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by MySay(m): 8:44pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
OP what you wrote is so true. I'm in that delima now. Lost my mum, the burial has been fixed and I dont even have real closed friends to invite. To be an introvert can be this bad |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Nnatuu: 8:47pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
CUMIN: What do you mean by "when I get there"? Do I seem like an unmarried child to you? 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Peace880(m): 8:48pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Na the same thing with me I don't have friends even in my area I don't think anybody know my face , I just like privacy 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Nnatuu: 8:49pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
CUMIN: When I get there? Do I seem like an unmarried child to you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by UzomaFC: 8:49pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
I like staying alone oooooooooooo, at least it has saved me so many troubles. My wife at times will be talking and I will be looking at her, well she knows me very wella. We are 12years this year and we don't go out. This year marked my 19yrs at my work place. these are my stats: Company Party: 2 Company Bar: 2 Weddings: 0 Burial: 1 Birthday party: 1 Others: 0 Even were I work, they know me that Igwe does not go out. but funny enough when they needed someone to represent them, they will call me. My own is Work/Church and nothing. I don't even like staying in crowd talk more of inviting anyone, Nna men the lower or fewer the better for me. Low headache, low troubles to attend to, infact low everything. infact if I have my way, I will just go inside the forest and build and live there. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by IghravweIG(m): 8:56pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Same thing with me o. Omo for us Introverts, how do we reconcile this? Because at the end of the day we need people one way or the other. We all need ourselves. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by seyz91(m): 8:57pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
[b]it really touched me, because I might even be worst than this guy, I hardly go out in the day....I don't have friends.. nobody to invite me to party... people in my street don't even know my name..This is really bad I need to change. @bolded, you don't need to changw cuz of burial experience, just be yourself okay, the disadvantage of moving around with people is more than the Advantage .the world is badder and crazier now so its best to keep your circle smaller I'm just like you, i don't keep friends around but i have them away just to chat on phone GraciousGod190: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by charlesdinho7(m): 9:02pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
thats why i love myself. i dont like going out with people. i like my space. so if i am getting married and people do not turn out for the wedding, i dont give a damn. as long as i am married or the main aim has been achieved, no problem 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by MorningStar233: 9:02pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Because na this generation life change and things became bad, village meeting that they will sometimes be competing and having evil minds |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by miraculousGod(m): 9:03pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
The most important thing is to try and be successful, no matter how introverted you are, if you are successful people will want to be associated with you. Besides having crowd at your party isn't an indicator that you are loved by people. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Nobody: 9:04pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
I am also just like you,but you see whether you mingle or not people will still talk... I found out that those you feel are friends,family may just likely be your nightmare!,probably try to make you look bad before others,not every gathering is graced with love for the celebrant. people get poisoned on birthdays,weddings,and burials. Be your self he get why! 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by aries26(m): 9:05pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Onye kene Sunny, Sunny ekene ya. |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by Acidosis(m): 9:06pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Klass99: 1. Cremation . . . . . . . 1001. Body donation to research institutes. |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by medropoly(m): 9:08pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
This is bullshit.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by meeketta: 9:08pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Me, people think am proud and self-center. I handly mingle, even in church, i only relate with those in my department. I tell you the truth, many people are scared of talking to me But this year my major plan is to make as much friends as possible. |
Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by CgRay: 9:09pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
As I am not a partying type, I would have tell you I'm hosting a small party, so that you won't expect political campaign group 1 Like |
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