pocohantas:


Place your right hand on your head and repeat that to yourself.

You are really the hopeless one fr. How did you even manage to switch the topic over to me.. Abeg waka

U will go to jail , better just send her away period

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

You will end up becoming a rapist and a paedophile if you let such thoughts come to light.
Why would you even have lustful thinking over an underaged girl?
God have mercy

Choilila:


Nigerian men are cheap and useless.

What kind of generlisation is this?? including your dad too?

Nedangel:
The parents were begging for her to be with us. When she was taken back, so she was brought back.

Afonja get behind me satan,
Defillin underage girls is in una Blood,
Am nt surprised,,,

Am waiting 4 u in Kiri kiri prison

You can be a blessing to the young girl not the other way.See her as someone you ll help achieve her potentials.See her as your daughter. Feelings are real.Let true love to elevate be your passion.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

If I call you a goat, it would be too nice a compliment to give to you. Kindly step outside of yourself for a while and read what you wrote again. You are sexually attracted to a 15 year old, knowing fully well that she's under aged and having your way with her is a criminal offense. If this simple fact is not enough for you to kill whatever stupid feelings you have for her, then it obviously shows you are a sick and mentally unstable person. Honestly, having female children with people like you moving on the surface of the earth, is heartbreaking and traumatic for both current parents and would be parents.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

send d gal away ASAP Nd thank me later.

She can be your root of blessing .

I don't blame the man. Whom I blame is the stupid tired wife who refuses to perform her marital obligations.
Bros take this advice. Your sexual urge is very strong at the moment. Get a side-chic outside and be kpanshing her. Don't you date kpansh your househelp. The embarassment e go cause you no be here. Screwing your housegirl is the worst kind of cheating because you bring cheating to your home. And guess what, you can't hide it. Your wife will know no matter how you code it.

Choilila:


Nigerian men are cheap and useless.

ode
go and meet American men

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow at all!

The man is struggling to keep his libido in check, and harbors thoughts of possibly raping his househelp, yet you are suggesting his wife should live in apprehension as a result?

What else? Should she abort all female children they conceive for fear that the child may end up raped by her husband who lacks self-discipline in the sex department?

One thing thing problem is the wise thing is always to seek help to resolving them. You aren't even suggesting the man seek resolution but instead suggest he guilt his wife into living in apprehension of his lack of self-discipline.

People like u r just blatantly stubborn. Someone is giving a serious advice here, you are putting up a toxic advice

Oche211:


Send that girl away at all cost before your marriage scatter.
15 years old ooo
How do some men have such erections?

I know the amount of men that tried to have sex with me from age 13-17. Men who were well into their 40s. Now at 26 looking back, I realise how a lot of men have no sexual control, and it ruins their life. A man with self discipline has extreme favour.

rayopt:


You are really the hopeless one fr. How did you even manage to switch the topic over to me.. Abeg waka

Why shouldn’t it be switched to you? Didn’t you type the highlighted parts of your previous post?

Minister of Hopelessness.

ikennamadu1:


Nigerian girls are useless and senseless including you

kiss the truth. I'm your fellow guy but most naija guys are useless. Though not all

They know nothing than sex, sex, gambling and money rituals. The truth is bitter but we have no choice than to say it

samwash:


Na wa ooo!!!
So irritating, see waytin person dey vomit for mouth. So person nor go fit entrust girl child for your care
Am disappointed, if you need s*x get a side chick or visit the brothel simple as that. This is were it start from, Man 50 yrs defiling a 10 yrs old minor.

I mentioned this thing one time, that it’s now very hard to entrust a female underage child to some men nowadays and one idiot started insulting his father.
We hear news everyday on fathers defiling their underaged daughters and uncles too doing the same thing.

Imagine what this OP is saying now.
A 15 year old girl that you are supposed to even guide her through education and to stay away from boys.

IamRegal:
When you spend 5 minutes with someone everyday seeing just their positive side, you will like them.

Men are very soft, easy to get to with little kind gestures. The way she has been taking care of your child and home in general, have sent a continuous signal to your brain to see as as been a perfect fit. She possibly does things your wife has been failing at.

Then your wife absence isn't helping matters.

You have to pick the one that is most important to you between her and your family.

Let her and leave, when she's gone sit your wife down, let are know you love her and want her for forever but she's not helping you.

A man should be able to control is emotions, control yourself sir.

@OP here is another good advice to follow. Also, they try control yourself. But don't hesitate to send the girl away pls. I see some comments about treating her like ur daughter. Please don't ever do that. You are the one that needs treatment first ooo

Omoh..i can relate ooo.. Staying under d same roof with girls of 15,16,17 can be soo challenging BC os of their sexual appeal especially those with boobs.. Chaii
fvcked my sis apprentice in 2018,damn that girl was hot.. Its was con sexual sha. I guess I exposed her to shiits,cos girl is now tushed and now into yahoo runs.

Nedangel:
[s]So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.[/s]

Pedophilic red pillar creature.

Oche211:


Send that girl away at all cost before your marriage scatter.
15 years old ooo
How do some men have such erections?

Is shocking to me, even an 18 years can't make me feel anything because I see the childish and immature body still forming, then I imagine my own young daughter and I know it's just wrong. Even if she agree to bleep you it should be obvious she hasn't grown enough to know what she wants and you are simply taking advantage of an innocent child. Mr OP everybody I know that did such lived to regret it, a 19yr old girl that worked for me fell in love with me and I could see it but I stayed away because I know she has no idea what she wants or whether I'm even worthy of her. And today she's like my younger one running an aspect of my business for me unsupervised and loyal 100%. OP instead go out and carry olosho

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Send the girl away ASAP

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Tell your wife not us

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

You are simply sex starved..Talk to your woman...You have needs to be satisfied...

As for the househelp, she is your child...She is your first before the biological children...If you deem it fit to violate your child, then wait for the karma...It will reduce you to bread crumbs...

Perish that thought..Go and meet your wife..If she no gree, better go outside than violate that your daughter.

On a second thought, how do you guys keep a wife that travels? If need be, a man does the travelling and not the wife..You begin to have problems when you deviate from the normal procedure.

If a partner is always on the move, the other will get h.orny and nature must fill the vacuum...You will cheat, and she will cheat as well.

My brother don’t blame your wife you are just a big for nothing I really don’t know the words to use here.leave that small girl alone and go and look for someone to Bleep and be okay I’m ashamed of you man

pocohantas:


Why shouldn’t it be switched to you? Didn’t you type the highlighted parts of your previous post?

Minister of Hopelessness.

Rotflol @bolded.... Wetin be minister of hopelessness bayii

It is even pointless arguing with you. Atleast I know you saw the remaining part of the post. But you picked the side that you don't like. Rest pls

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Send her away first. Then you and your wife should have a talk. A serious, hitting-the-nail-on-the-head, not-beating-around-the-bush, talk.

You’re an id!ot sir!
15 years old maid? Gerraout of here.. mumu!

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Op No Allow Me Reason Your Matter. No Dey Tarnish The Image Of Real Men Out There.

15 Years Old Child. If It Was Your Daughter Nko?

See Some Idiots Here Describing The Body Of A Child Like You Have Stripped Her Naked With Your Eyes.

You Can Find A Mature Woman To Vent Your Urge Or Talk To Your Wife.

If You Touch The Girl. You Will Never Know The Problems You Created For YourSelf.

Johnsown1:
I suggest that you tell you wife your weakness and fears also tell her that if anything happens to the marriage tomorrow; then its her fault.
Which you can send the girl to school in other to help or you send her out with a good compensation. For Gods and humanity seek

What are you saying now? What if he has a female child? Are you telling us that OP would not be able to control himself from having erections for his teenage daughter because of his inability to think with his head and not his d*ck?

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Na ur irresponsibility dey worry u. U don see smallie wen u fit oppress. If ur wife no give u sex go outside. Girls plenty for outside wen go give sex how u want for small cash. leave poor house help make village people no conquer u early inside 2022