Mr Man go and focus on your wife that's having sex elsewhere and stop thinking about the small girl. Your wife says NO to you most times and u think it's normal. Better go and find out who your wife is grinding before it's too late ....

Some people will use their hands to invite trouble to themselves.



If your wife isn't getting you enough sex can't you go outside and look for another mature lady to satisfy your sexual urge? What if your wife didn't bring her to the house won't you think of an alternative? ......... Assuming na house boy she bring you for fvck he nyashh?

Choilila:


Nigerian men are cheap and useless..
I have nothing to do with them. that is why I mind my SHITX..

Keep using your dilddo and let's hear word

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Better send that Innocent little girl away, before GOD disgrace you....


Kongi kill you there....

Johnsown1:
I suggest that you tell you wife your weakness and fears also tell her that if anything happens to the marriage tomorrow; then its her fault.
Which you can send the girl to school in other to help or you send her out with a good compensation. For Gods and humanity seek

Which marriage are you even talking about? By the time all these upcoming bloggers carry him matter for head, he go fit remember marriage?
Which kind of wife is not sensitive to her husband's body language? Which kind of wife will invite a nubile teenager into her home after opposition by her husband? Which kind wife be that? wife that does not know her husband's strength and weakness, is that one a sensible wife?

Why can't you see her as a child that you should protect? Do not engage in a few minutes of pleasure that could cost you your reputation, marriage and family at least . It's not worth it. If you cannot see her as a child that she is, please , send her back to her people. Do not take advantage of her, if man doesn't punish u, karma will .

Kobojunkie:
Why does he need to offload the consequences of what is his lack of self-discipline on his wife abeg?

Must her world stop rotating on its axis because this man failed to learn self-discipline when his mates were?

how will you feel if your husband brings his friend as a driver to live with you and you start developing feelings for him and he refuses to heed your warning to ask his friend to leave. This man is obviously uncomfortable around this girl and he knows he needs help and that's why he's on Nairaland to get advice.
NOBODY chooses who they develop feelings for. However, when the love becomes a taboo, you flee from it. We've all had to flee from similar situations before, even as teenagers. It's not new to anyone. He and his wife are playing with fire.

dingbang:
I sha dont have strength for this thread.

another angle to look at it from.

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Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

What do you like about this girl?

okoroemeka:
there are some girls that mature far more than their age,I know about many 14-15 yrs old girls in my area that has astonishing ass and boobs these things are what signals that a girl is matured and in turn makes the dick to rise,and also to tell the truth this young girls nowadays no send anyone,she already knows the oga is eyeing her and she will stop wearing bra in the house,imagine a pair of provocative puffy nipples dancing under a flimsy t-shirt in front of a sex starved man,if the the op is not careful it is just a matter of time he will end up fvcking his house maid,and the girl will not refuse.

See adjective wey dis wan take describe ass and boob. I fear who no fear you.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

With all due respect, you're an He goat as in Busuru

This dyumbass brought this issue here so they people will tell him it’s okay to cheat on his wife as long as he doesn’t rape the child living in their house.
Meanwhile they just had a baby that he should be focusing on. Deadbeat is not only when you leave. You can be present and still be deadbeat.

okoroemeka:
there are some girls that mature far more than their age,I know about many 14-15 yrs old girls in my area that has astonishing ass and boobs these things are what signals that a girl is matured and in turn makes the dick to rise,and also to tell the truth this young girls nowadays no send anyone,she already knows the oga is eyeing her and she will stop wearing bra in the house,imagine a pair of provocative puffy nipples dancing under a flimsy t-shirt in front of a sex starved man,if the the op is not careful it is just a matter of time he will end up fvcking his house maid,and the girl will not refuse.

people who describe children the way you do are walking red flags.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her.Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Bros, there's no how u overcome this temptation until you do the needful( take her back from where you brought her I know your wife may kick against this.

olabrinks:
I know the amount of men that tried to have sex with me from age 13-17. Men who were well into their 40s. Now at 26 looking back, I realise how a lot of men have no sexual control, and it ruins their life. A man with self discipline has extreme favour.

Oh your own was 13 years?
My own was since 11 years old when I started fending off horny_ bastards and learning that many males are nothing but creatures controlled by their sex urges. They don't even care the age of the person they are sleeping with.

watersideboys:

Keep using your dilddo and let's hear word

Nigerian men are cheap and useless

LyfeJennings:

ode go and meet American men

Nigerian men are cheap and useless

What a way to say most men are pedophilic?
If a woman said this, y’all would call for her head. Seems you have no problems disrespecting yourselves

ajimo54:


My dear friend, your feelings are normal. Teenage girls attract most young men. Those castigating you here have slept with almost all their housegirls. I have had many housegirls in my house. Did I ever sleep with any? NO! Was there chance to do so? Yes! Did I ever have sexual feelings for them? YES if pretty. How did I do it? I usually think about my status and dignity. Some wud even seduce me, I stood my ground. My wife is very meticulous as well but not because of her, I neva yielded because of my own dignity. So, u too can succeed unless u can stand societal shame! See and leave. You wnt die! If u cannot, pls go outside and sleep with girls! If u are sexually satisfied, u will not see her!

That is totally a craziness, how can you have feelings to a girl you can be her father, please am begging you don't spoil the little girl life at a tender age... oloso plenty outside, go have your feelings to them. if you can't control your body better marry another wife, remember that whatever you show you shall reap....... if you can't minus the little girl problem don't add to it.....

IVORY2009:


What kind of generlisation is this?? including your dad too?

he followed the instructions of ur dad.
Nigerian men are cheap and useless

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Your peen peen is now the head of your household.




You have abdicated your throne.



SMH

Everyone shout Olosho!!!

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

If Ur wife didnt bring the house help,who would U go 2 4sex? Cant U wait 4 when she is not tired? U are a bloody adulterer&carnallly minded Read Ur Bible. Life is more than sex man;U would die if U have sex with Ur house help.Olojukokoro

If you are sexually tensed up, try masturbating.

Nedangel:
It's hard to see any house help, as it took a long time to see this one. And my wife was always in tears, pains and nagging since she was always doing all d chores..

It’s seems like you’re a troll.
Because if you were really concerned about your future and truly believe you have no self control, you would have eliminated the so called source of “temptation” and used your own hands to help around in your own home.
Just being xtupid on purpose. Coming here to create a dense xtupid thread thread for reactions

I was on the same situation.

Before I hit the jackpot, I groomed her till she was 16. Bought nice stuff for her, took care of her.

Infact she already knew that I liked her. On her 16th birthday, I bought a nice Samsung phone for her.3 days after, it started in the kitchen

Now everyone is happy - My idiot always tiring wife is there doing her own thing, the girl is having all the sex of her life and I am on cloud 69

Feelings are natural. Explore it if you can but wait till she is 16 o. That's the age of consen and always use protection

Op u don knack DAT girl for ur mind severally, on mummy GO voice "u will go to hellfire"

And that feeling could not make you see her as your little sister instead?

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Oh..... what a world. Before I used to wonder why God will send people to hell fire forever. But after carefully studying the wickedness in man, I finally blessed God for His decision.

Meawhile, your wife might brought her intentionally to spoil your life and end your career. Its a pity you are reasoning with your penis and not your brain, heart, soul and spirit. You should have read enough comments and advices on this thread for you to be reasonable and logical.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

You know the solution already; send the girl away by all means, don't destroy your marriage.