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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Aksnoopy: 12:35pm On Feb 14, 2022
sandra50:
They can marry mother harlot for all I care..as if they value the ones that sleep in their houses every night..if you are not into dating multiple men at a time..I mean if you don't make their blood pressure to go up and down they never value you..they will still leave and then come back later to ask if you can both get married..Oga go and marry those people.
lol! Werey dey disguise. Continue to fool yourself. grin

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Joseph08(m): 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
Gerrard59:


They're doing hookup with men. How come the blame only lies on women?

Would you be happy to marry any?
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Starzo: 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
Gerrard59:

They're doing hookup with men. How come the blame only lies on women?
cuz na the men dey pay
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:39pm On Feb 14, 2022
pansophist:
Nigeria score impressively high on all indices used to determine a failed society that has rotten to the core, and the worse is yet to come. When the best days of a country is in the past and memories of their parents, while the present seems unbearable, it's well within reason to determine that the future will be hell. Prostitution is just a symptoms of the rot. Those girls are the victims, surviving in the toxic mess their parent's generation created.

Thank God someone has said it. I don't even blame the girls and don't see how them prostituting themselves is anyone's business. What of the millions of yahoo boys, ritualists, kidnappers, and armed robbers undergoing training in Nigeria.
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Gerrard59(m): 12:40pm On Feb 14, 2022
pansophist:
Nigeria score impressively high on all indices used to determine a failed society that has rotten to the core, and the worse is yet to come. When the best days of a country is in the past and memories of their parents, while the present seems unbearable, it's well within reason to determine that the future will be hell. Prostitution is just a symptoms of the rot. Those girls are the victims, surviving in the toxic mess their parent's generation created

Which brings to the fore that Nigerian men have failed their women.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Mooh247: 12:42pm On Feb 14, 2022
Girls now do hook up not for the money but for fun of it, like when they are bored or horrny

Omo things have truly changed... Rich Private school girls, bankers doing hook up
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by pansophist(m): 12:46pm On Feb 14, 2022
Gerrard59:


Which brings to the core that Nigerian men have failed their women.

100%

We failed our women. If the Nigerian politicians that are male dominated led the country well, why would Nigeria ever be the prostitution and fraud capital of Africa? Lots of folks just heaping blame on the girls, but the alternative is starvation, watching their sick parent die, betraying their kids, depression and death. Also a lifetime is short, and no one wants to miss out on the goodies of life. Selling their bodies seems as a bearable price to pay.

It's easy to blame, point fingers and assume the high moral ground, any idiot can do that, where the work lies is in the acknowledgement and the consequent process to solve these issues. I deeply feel sorry for them. I wish I could help. This is particularly one of the reason why I take very good care of my cousin sister, from her education and boarding, I funded it since she was 17. I'll bear that burden because the alternative is disastrous. It will break my heart to see her become a cum bag for the trashiest of men, all in the name of survival. How much Nigeria has forsaken its people. I weep.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Lordhades21(m): 12:49pm On Feb 14, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Go take a Virgin if you have standards.
Bro.. As years pass by, they are turning to evening newspapers...

5yrs from now females will be desperate for marriage... Mark my word 5yrs from now...
They literally think they can eat their cake and have it..
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Even bible Don see am say, women go dey desperate for marriage Isaiah 4:1
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by BigBashiru: 12:52pm On Feb 14, 2022
IamV:



Most men enjoy living in deceit.

Most men think their own girl is different.
Like,among those girls involved in runs,that their own girlfriend can't stoop that low.
The only thing that can convince them otherwise is when she's caught cheating red handed,only then can most come to the reality that their much appreciated girlfriend is not that special and different from the other ladies they don't consider marriageable.

Ever since I learnt that "the air I breathe" might be another guys unappreciated sperm bank and h*e,I live happily thereafter.

Can you explain your last paragraph.
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by edunaragold(f): 1:00pm On Feb 14, 2022
luizpippo:
A bag of rice is 26k, while fish and meat are sky high.
Normal office work for most females is 35k tops per month while transportation from it is around 15k.

But some charges 10 to 15k for short time which may not be up to 4 hours, remove TP from it and if they get this 3 times in a week, then you think they would want to do any white or blue collar job when red collar job is more profitable?

Some even gets satisfied by the guy. Laughing

Imagine runs girl expecting to be sucked and wants to cum!!!!
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by pansophist(m): 1:00pm On Feb 14, 2022
tensazangetsu20:


Thank God someone has said it. I don't even blame the girls and don't see how them prostituting themselves is anyone's business. What of the millions of yahoo boys, ritualists, kidnappers, and armed robbers undergoing training in Nigeria.

Remember that biblical story where they were about to stone a women to death, and Jesus asked them, "he who is without sin, should cast the first stone", then the crowd dissappear. That's just one sad part of human nature. The need to blame others, while of course abdicate themselves from their own sins.

I repeat, these women are victims. No sane woman would like all kinds of dirty men to access the most private part of her body. The male dominated Nigerian leaders messed up, these girls should not be tempted to starve or be a prostitute in the first place. My heart goes feels for them.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 14, 2022
If money dey you guys should go for ethiopian, South sudan and somalian village girls...... You better hurry while stocks lasts

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Adex2442: 1:06pm On Feb 14, 2022
Senomii:
If money dey you guys should go for ethiopian, South sudan and somalian village girls...... You better hurry while stocks lasts


Those ones nor dey do runs?
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by tensazangetsu20(m): 1:09pm On Feb 14, 2022
pansophist:


Remember that biblical story where they were about to stone a women to death, and Jesus asked them, "he who is without sin, should cast the first stone", then the crowd dissappear. That's just one sad part of human nature. The need to blame others, while of course abdicate themselves from their own sins.

I repeat, these women are victims. No sane woman would like all kinds of dirty men to access the most private part of her body. The male dominated Nigerian leaders messed up, these girls should not be tempted to starve or be a prostitute in the first place. My heart goes feels for them.

We have failed our women in Africa honestly. It's a shame. Men create the society and women integrate into it.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:13pm On Feb 14, 2022
Rahkman:
Naija girls don cast finish I no fit marry lie lie na to dey fuùck dey go.........fùck and enjoy urself fellas ....pussy is everywhere....pussy for everyone...marry one of this damaged slay queen's at ur own peril
you get bigyash there make i fùck
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:17pm On Feb 14, 2022
Ladycewhy:
If no customers market go close.


Who are the people paying for the hook up. The op made it seem as if the men are not culpable. undecided
tell your sisters to reduce the price. 10k is too much for short time

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:19pm On Feb 14, 2022
sandra50:
They can marry mother harlot for all I care..as if they value the ones that sleep in their houses every night..if you are not into dating multiple men at a time..I mean if you don't make their blood pressure to go up and down they never value you..they will still leave and then come back later to ask if you can both get married..Oga go and marry those people.
you are cruel
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:21pm On Feb 14, 2022
azpekuliar:


I am more concerned about the next wave of HIV infections that will come as a result of these apps, that is if it has not started already. Thanks to technology all it takes to get casual sex now is a simple swipe of your phone screen.
how did she charge you
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Panda7: 1:23pm On Feb 14, 2022
it is government incompetence not giving citizens good jobs to cater for themselves thereby causing insecurity among people
it is a societal menace which every govt must address
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by poweredcom(m): 1:23pm On Feb 14, 2022
Czarina21:



How do we cope with marrying a man that has slept with hundreds of women too?

See this one here na Dem be dis ...see you can't ever. Dictate a man way of life . Do you think every me like ashewo

Ashewo na ashewo....and it's eve. Sickneing than Frauding...Frauding can be controlled

But to take a girl out of prostitution ..it's hard ooo...go every app the number of girls I see de fear me for u married folks

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:25pm On Feb 14, 2022
seyz91:
You no lie, especially shoprites, they believe big men and guys bring cars there so they believe they will catch client with money there not knowing everybody dey package ni

Blame our politicians and leaders for this mess hey created in our society
am going to shoprite right away with my benz. I need to bang some pussies tonight

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Afonasa(m): 1:26pm On Feb 14, 2022
The whole stuff tire me....I see infidelity becoming a norm in few years to come....

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Hydronium(m): 1:28pm On Feb 14, 2022
What you get is a reflection of what you surround yourself with.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by InvertedHammer: 1:28pm On Feb 14, 2022
Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?
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The question should be: Between married women and single ladies, which group is worse? Ladies with high paying jobs and or good businesses play in executive league. Don't count them out.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by sakanifemi123(m): 1:29pm On Feb 14, 2022
This is not particularly to Lagos, it is entirely country issues, the sad part of it is that married women are not left out in this matter... the generation is fail na only God will help person not yet marry......

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:30pm On Feb 14, 2022
Chuvin22:


You say what? 5k? E be like you never dey where boys dey carry hook up steady. 15k upwards.
5k dey. I just finished sampling my neighbour's daughter in one hotel.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:34pm On Feb 14, 2022
Pharaoh4rin:
Lagos the learn for where Abuja dey.
connect me with one fat ass abuja bitch

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:36pm On Feb 14, 2022
kenodrill:
Not just in lagos bros.port Harcourt here they are everywhere.even girls you presume to be responsible still does it on code.na God go help us wey never marry.i just weak!
you no dey fùck
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Kajaard: 1:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
lolu2019:
That is what I av been saying.dis Lagos is worst.

If you say Lagos is worse, what will you say about Owerri?

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