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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cococandy(f): 1:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?
who is sleeping with them? I’m willing to bet that as the women sleep with hundreds of men, that’s directly proportional to the number of women the men sleep with. It’s population mathematics

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
5k dey. I just finished sampling my neighbour's daughter in one hotel.

That na newbie hooker grin
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by planetx: 1:39pm On Feb 14, 2022
If this country is so religious with a church on every corner where is there so much immorality. Also you see posts here in NL preaching against pre marital sex, I found that to be hypocritical with the level of transactional sex going on in Nigeria, like who the hell are you preaching to about pre marital sex.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Emperor88(m): 1:40pm On Feb 14, 2022
Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

Runs girls are patronize by guys so they will get married to a guy who once patronize runs girls.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:41pm On Feb 14, 2022
Mooh247:
Girls now do hook up not for the money but for fun of it, like when they are bored or horrny

Omo things have truly changed... Rich Private school girls, bankers doing hook up
it will shock you to know your sister is a LovePeddler

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Acidosis(m): 1:41pm On Feb 14, 2022
cococandy:
who is sleeping with them? I’m willing to bet that as the women sleep with hundreds of men, that’s directly proportional to the number of women the men sleep with. It’s population mathematics

Women should also open a thread and complain about the high rate of male pros.tituti.on, if at all they're concerned about men's body count.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cococandy(f): 1:42pm On Feb 14, 2022
Rahkman:
Naija girls don cast finish I no fit marry lie lie na to dey fuùck dey go.........fùck and enjoy urself fellas ....pussy is everywhere....pussy for everyone...marry one of this damaged slay queen's at ur own peril
Imagine complaining about the problem when you are a direct cause of it. Cognitive dissonance

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:43pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
tell your sisters to reduce the price. 10k is too much for short time
start with your sisters and female cousins, charity they say begins from home.Be the change you want to see in others, start with your family members.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Wakanakarue: 1:44pm On Feb 14, 2022
The funny thing is that even the employed ones amongst them actively do hookups especially on weekends and pub holidays.


Omo fear these trendy and woke chicks most na Ho

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:44pm On Feb 14, 2022
What is Make-up artist if not advance olosho/ashawo using nonsense profession cover face.
Fiscus105:



95% of make up artist ladies are into runs or like sleeping around

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by seyz91(m): 1:45pm On Feb 14, 2022
cheesy funny you
Carot:
am going to shoprite right away with my benz. I need to bang some pussies tonight
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cococandy(f): 1:46pm On Feb 14, 2022
Acidosis:


Women should also open a thread and complain about the high rate of male pros.tituti.on, if at all they're concerned about men's body count.
The cognitive dissonance is not strong among women. Makes me wonder who’s actually the “illogical gender “ that is actively causing, contributing and participating in a problem but turn around almost immediately to complain about it.
Pretty sure OP has had two-three hookups since last week. Yet here he is.
I don’t know if men think any women they sleep with magically falls off the face of the earth to be replaced by a brand new untouched one.
There are approximately 100 men to 100 women at any given time. If you have a 30 woman body count, expect the same for the average person next to you male or female. Not exactly but approximately. It’s what it is

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:48pm On Feb 14, 2022
pansophist:


Remember that biblical story where they were about to stone a women to death, and Jesus asked them, "he who is without sin, should cast the first stone", then the crowd dissappear. That's just one sad part of human nature. The need to blame others, while of course abdicate themselves from their own sins.

I repeat, these women are victims. No sane woman would like all kinds of dirty men to access the most private part of her body. The male dominated Nigerian leaders messed up, these girls should not be tempted to starve or be a prostitute in the first place. My heart goes feels for them.
most girls are greedy and materialistic. They want to buy the latest phones, clothes, bags etc. Hence they see hoeing as the best means of affording these things

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by IamV: 1:50pm On Feb 14, 2022
BigBashiru:


Can you explain your last paragraph.

I have learn to embrace the reality that the girl that may mean heaven and earth to me, that's so special to me,might just be another guy's f*ckmate.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Shiver99: 1:51pm On Feb 14, 2022
High levels of prostitution is one of the main indicators of a failed society. Same with vices like drug trafficking and rituals.

Hence the reason why sane civilisations aim to to eliminate these vices by providing jobs, re-education and career channels.

However, Instead of some dimwits here to use their higher order thinking, they are here shining teeth and pointing fingers from their broken-down huts.

You can't be surprised sha, low quality of education in Nigeria makes some of it's citizens act and reason like sub-humans.

Btw, for those trying to make it a gender issue, because Nigeria currently is an entity with no direction or purpose , the country is witnessing a sharp increase in not only female but male prostitutes.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:51pm On Feb 14, 2022
Kajaard:


If you say Lagos is worse, what will you say about Owerri?
you get babe for owerri make i cum
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Mooh247: 1:52pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
it will shock you to know your sister is a LovePeddler

Rule 2. Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Oamj4 Dominque

And to answer you

My sister is a British trained Lawyer working for a British firm and the MP of her constituency . Mother of two junior team British professional footballer

So NO she isn't a lovepedler

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 1:53pm On Feb 14, 2022
franchasng:
My sister ask them oh grin


Nigerian men think they are wise grin

Don’t mind them. So it is we women that deserve to marry retired broloshos? They are yet to see anything.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cococandy(f): 1:53pm On Feb 14, 2022
What type of leadership do men have that leading them into patronizing the so called prostitutes?

I know that once someone includes woke in their post, they are always on some BS
Legendoo:
When we were telling you to slow down with the woke sexual liberalism nonesense , Una talk say we they backwards.


It's like you guys don't even understand how bad it is .

Women need leadership and some certain level of control, our ancestors understood this.

Wherever you look for a woman now, either she's a feminist, prostitute, sex worker of some sort, baby mama or lesbian. You will get an assorted mix... Of the aforementioned.

Anyways continue encouraging them rather than fixing the mess. .. we don commot hand.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by michael1508: 1:54pm On Feb 14, 2022
Christane:
most men re afraid to get married dis days ...cus of how Nigerian ladies av become prostitute all in d name of hook up ... Nigerian girls ain't after true love dey are after money ...once u av money u re their true love ..bt once u go broke dey move ....this gat me thinking how can a man get a true partner to plan a future with when girls av turn themselves to glorified prostitute all in the name of hook up
So what is the difference between hook up and prostitution ?
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Kajaard: 1:54pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
you get babe for owerri make i cum

Lol cheesy grin cheesy

It's so easy to get them in Owerri. It seems every girl above the age of 15 is into runs over there. I cannot tell you the amount of IMSU and Futo girls I slept with while on official assignment there last year. You just cannot compare the level of decay in Lagos to that of owerri. Oloshos everywhere cheesy

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by illicit(m): 1:55pm On Feb 14, 2022
Bryan88:
u must b an Abuja based... angry

Yes
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 1:55pm On Feb 14, 2022
Gerrard59:
The men have to marry them na. Who else were you expecting to marry these ladies? It's surprising how men who patronise hookup ladies don't want to marry the same women they patronise.

Hello!!!!! Hookup will continue to thrive as long as the vast majority of Nigerian men are sex starved and patronise these ladies. When the men want to marry, they will marry the same ladies.

They cheat on their virtuous wives with these ladies. Buy them luxury flats and Range Rover. Go on IG now, it is omo wobes with small ashewo vibes posting Range Rover with flowers. Chest pain is for virtuous women. Yet they come to ask silly questions. They will marry them like that! grin

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by INCREDIBLE007(m): 1:55pm On Feb 14, 2022
Another angle

Some men and women believe everyone out there is involved in sexual frenzy

I once visited a friend the guy brought 10k out
and wants us to lay with some ladies
That night

I told the guy say I be M.O.G, the guy was shocked to the bone, he said I was lying and went to carry one for himself.

These sexual rascality, some guys/ladies got into by peer pressure and one thing about these thing is that once into it, it can be quite difficult to quit.

What we need is Divine intervention cause there's a demonic angle to this problem.
For instance, if you are inquisitive enough you would see a rather high rate of sexual perversion in areas close to Rivers e.g Lagos, AKWA-IBOM e.t.c

Revelation 17:1 ... And there came one of the seven angels which had the seven vials, and talked with me, saying unto me, come hither; I will shew thee the judgement of the GREAT LovePeddler THAT SITTETY UPON MANY WATERS...

if you are having problems leaving fornication or adultery

It's time to seek the face of God,
A place like prayer city would be a good suggestion for prayer excercise.

We all need to repent from our sins

And stop the sinful lifestyle

And cry to God for mercy


Shalom

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 1:56pm On Feb 14, 2022
Ladycewhy:
start with your sisters and female cousins, charity they say begins from home.Be the change you want to see in others, start with your family members.
i dont have a sister. Its your decision to make
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by zanshi: 1:57pm On Feb 14, 2022
Czarina21:


Nigerian men don't like such good women


Why would you say that, have you postured yourself as a good woman and had men say they don't want a good woman like you?
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cococandy(f): 1:58pm On Feb 14, 2022
Kajaard:

I cannot tell you the amount of IMSU and Futo girls I slept with while on official assignment there last year cheesy

Will you have a problem marrying an olosho then?

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by addexx: 1:59pm On Feb 14, 2022
You see this strategy our forefathers used in selecting a young riping girl from a good home is true wisdom. Abraham used it when selecting for Isaac.
When looking for a wife narrow your search. Forget girls from 24 upwards cos they might be irredeemable ( no offense) Start early monitoring early bloomers. girls with good home training from their teens into adulthood.
Form friendship but don't be assertive. Make sure you're standing as a high quality male already. Once you're convinced she's still on a good standing, probably from 19-22, put your gas on the pedal and start a serious relationship to get married asap.

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:59pm On Feb 14, 2022
Carot:
i dont have a sister. Its your decision to make
Ask your cousins. If you don't have female cousins,then just ask your mother,I'm sure she is capable of passing the message along. undecided

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Carot: 2:02pm On Feb 14, 2022
Kajaard:


Lol cheesy grin cheesy

It's so easy to get them in Owerri. It seems every girl above the age of 15 is into runs over there. I cannot tell you the amount of IMSU and Futo girls I slept with while on official assignment there last year. You just cannot compare the level of decay in Lagos to that of owerri. Oloshos everywhere cheesy
bad guy. Pass one number to me make i chop
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by legallyminded: 2:04pm On Feb 14, 2022
Ladycewhy:
Ask your cousins. If you don't have female cousins,then just ask your mother,I'm sure she is capable of passing the message along. undecided

You're just being emotional. Truth is bitter you know?

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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by dingbang(m): 2:04pm On Feb 14, 2022
Are they not the same men sleeping with the girls? If all men decided to respect themselves and not pressure girls for sex, people's future wives would not have much body counts

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