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Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by legallyminded: 3:52pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: You're a pontius pig on heat of whoredom. Begone to your cave of shame bitch. |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Munamoqel: 3:53pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
cococandy:they are not ever nation has his greed driving this madness |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Positiveme2020: 3:55pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
chukbonda:What is this? |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by akaypary442(m): 3:56pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Sammy101111: |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by YeyeGbami: 4:06pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
luizpippo: AGBA! |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 4:07pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
legallyminded:Ya real mama 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by descarado: 4:12pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
When will these wailing stop? Genesis only 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Suspect33(m): 4:43pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
PresidentAtiku:ironically, it is this same southerners that complain of the depth of immorality in their region that will castigate Hisbah for trying to enforce the compliance of good moral conduct in the North.. Hypocrites 3 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Karleb(m): 4:52pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
pansophist: When it comes to this opinion, I always have my reservation. Heaping 100 percent blame on men is just an insincere thing to do. Women are the ones who chose those irresponsible men as partners and even bore children for them. 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Viccano: 5:02pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
I think Abuja is thier headquarter 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by sylve11: 5:33pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
[quote author=Munamoqel post=110198571 Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men. Lagos men how do cope?[/quote] |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:06pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Pinkyposh:because almost every living soul in this country is strictly only after money In so doing they usually think they are wise. The wisdom of this world has now become foolishness to God confirm! 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:12pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
MeghaneMorgane:My sister this one loud ooo... I have not recovered from the shock since I set my eyes on this post, I can still feel the reverberation over here. 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by handsomeyitayo(m): 6:29pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
stunnert:guy so you dey there, I dey your side ooo... All this Lagos girls self j no understand... 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by handsomeyitayo(m): 6:31pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Sammy101111:you still dey pkanshin her pufzy after she is married |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by handsomeyitayo(m): 6:32pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
toujurs:confirm...I dey with you..no more holy holy ,nah pretend on altar 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by nextstep(m): 6:38pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
TheStakeHolder: Which village girls? The ones wey dey collect 500 and indomie? Abi na the ones wey go run go city for weekend? Then when you come around you will see them acting shy? 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Czarina21(f): 7:04pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
zanshi: Yeah, I have. And I've seen good women get hurt too. |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by michael1508: 7:07pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Firstly,men have been paying for sex from time immemorial,relationship or otherwise which shouldn't be,the average woman won't even respond to an innocent greeting if you are not flaunting your dollar bundle and Benz key at her as a gateway to anything at all she wants to offer you relationship wise, sex is not a taboo as it's a biological function of every living thing,so men or everyone wanting to have sex is not the point here but of course it should be between two people joint together by marriage or other form of commitments by societal or religious law. Secondly,if everyone put past the moral values abiding us together in doing the right things as humans and chooses to be mad like you said,the men have nothing to loose in that regard. In the buying and selling game,the one who owns the cash dictates the flow of services,if we all choose to go mad,don't you think the supply ll be much more than the demand,don't you think there will be alternatives to women as the only source of sexual pleasures,don't you think some will decide to stay abstained, don't you think the woman will one day wear out as a machine tends to when over used, but one thing for sure is that those who depend on it as a source to meal tickets will scratch the surface of the earth for grains, the load of responsibilities heaped on a man in the name of relationships, marriages won't be there, you only pay for the soft, succulent and young ones , just pay for only what you want,how fun will that be,uh? Everything is wrong with that statement of you sleeping your way through to the top if you sleep with your boyfriend as a means to justify it,even though some ladies have been doing that from time immemorial,just a statement to backup everything she had wanted doing,meaning she can say no,haven't you heard of people demanding cash for an exchange of jobs before,we still have those that declined the offer. I will still say it again,the urge for sex will always be there as we are biological entities, the reasons why the girls sleeping around for money is on the high is because we have many girls of easy virtues in this era, they don't want to lift a finger but want funds in their accounts, in as much as a service is needed,if the supply is not there,people will find alternative,in this case by getting married or some other forms of legal entanglement as you may call it,the sexual urge of humans have always been there but the rise of runs girl is on the rise due to its easy virtuous,no stress,just open leg waa and you will be paid as long as you can play blind to the morals biding you. Like I said,this is from a debate point of view,I still hold my head high for good moral values. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Czarina21(f): 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
poweredcom: You can't dictate a woman's life either. Perhaps you could find a nice woman, marry her and add value to her. That'll make it one less girl off the streets and hook-up apps. As for the number of girls on the apps, supply equates demand. No demands, no supply. |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
michael1508:The bolded is the reason you should have stopped typing. I don't see the need for the rant and wailing if men have been paying. . All this wailing is uncalled for and contradicts your opening statement or y"all just hate direct approach of instant gratification and price negotiation? so you can put on your morality smokescreen and cloak of hypocrisy . I guess it's more moral if men get to pay in other ways.Its helps with the Pharisee attitude of being better and more moral . Anyway, this generation nor send una, that's why I just love them. . 3 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Czarina21(f): 7:18pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
ehay: Not just Nigerian men, it's that way the world over |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by michael1508: 7:25pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:I never said the men who patronised them are right by moral standard,but one thing for sure is the need for sex is natural and will always be there,the society coined out a concept to ease this need in the form of marriage or the now boyfriend and girlfriend, my point of contention here is why should there be a monetary barrier in attaining this,a girl won't look at you twice if you are not holding a Benz key and a dollar pack,no one is naturally equipped with that,we all have to work hard for that and unfortunately,not everyone will have that,should such man be denied the privilege to have a mating mate? I still put it to you that,the ladies of easy virtuous today are doing so because it's an easy way to riches and not even necessarily because they are after caring for the man sexual needs,they are all out there for their own selfish needs and not to satisfy you as you might have thought,that is why the high you pay,the higher she's willing to satisfy you more. Lastly,I will still say that it's the women that are taking advantage of the men's sexual needs to cash out,don't be surprised that if such exchange of services are banned in our society today,most of these girls won't have a way out of life,they are always looking for the easy way out. 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Arielle: 7:26pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
pansophist:Thank you. Help me tell them. There are women all over the world. Leave Nigerian women that you feel are rotten and beneath you. Go find a woman elsewhere. Ghana sef no far. |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by michael1508: 7:34pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Please defend your argument with logics and not using words like hate speech to black mail people,I told you what will happen if everyone decides to go mad like you said,or you think you can eat your cake and have it,lol. The generation should go haywire,it doesn't remove a sweat from my body. Anyways,I am done with the argument. |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Jeon(f): 7:44pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
person where go marry go marry even though prostitution is reigning like Sun. 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by poweredcom(m): 8:00pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Czarina21: No better girl de dis country again ...ana hungry girls full everywhere with little life experience and always needy in any small relationship When they don't see what de deserve they turn into hookup prostitution @womenareapess @mosdii @ikillbrokehoes 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by WoundedLamb: 8:02pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
michael1508: The only thing you need to know is that the need for sex is as natural as the need for better life standards and we are all responsible for the choices we make in quest for both needs. Women are not taking advantage of men's needs more than the men are taking advantage of woman’s needs. Both parties have needs and they are willing to exploit each other. If ladies are doing so because it's an easy way to meet thier needs, then men are doing also because it's an easy to meet theirs without any responsibility. Or didn't your Economics teacher tell you that the customers rule the market? You think olosho business is an exception? If the exchange was banned, the men will survive and the girl will not die. Each will find better ways of meeting thier needs. What do you think the women should do to stop the societal menace? Start giving sex freely or get into a proper relationship before having sex? The first is illogical and if the second option is really a possibility, then it means men can actually do the same but choose to do it the fast way. The keyword here is "choose". Patronizing olosho is a choice and people should take responsibility for thier choices. Whether morally, logically or otherwise, both genders are equally culpable. There is simply no other possible way of looking at it, so just stop these futile attempts to make light of the issue on the men's side. I am a man and it's highly embarrassing. 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by ibinaboonline: 8:09pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Na serious matter o |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 8:10pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
michael1508:The generation has not gone haywire already? oh really? Almost all guys are fraudsters and many are on the hunt for people to kill and mutilate , Sodomy and rape is all time high but Mr moral police is more concerned about chastity than actual crimes committed by mostly his gender who by the way are also enablers. If e nor remove sweat for your body, why all the long epistles as if you are writing a thesis? . 1 Like |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Ladycewhy(f): 8:16pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:seems the guy failed economics in school . He simply doesn't know the dynamics of demand and supply. 2 Likes |
Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by cuddling44(f): 8:27pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
[quote author=Sammy101111 post=110201854]I wonder hook up every where most girls will have a good job they will still do coded hook up . I know this beautiful lady i liked she had a shop she was a make up artist she was forming for me so i stopped bothering her . Hey sammy.. how are u. Av sent u am email thooo. Yemi |
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