Mariangeles:
Did you ask him for financial assistance during your own wedding planning and he refused to help?

Fairandlovely:
Let bygone be bygone cos no one knwz 2mao,,help him in anyway u can just 2 prove dat u're more matured than him

Acidosis:

Nigerians and their fake owanbe love

If they give and you don't give back, problem. If they upload your birthday photoshoot and you don't, wahala. Peace of mind is very very key in this life sha.

@op, I'm yet to see where or how he asked for money.

Viruses:

I didn't ask him, same way I didn't ask those that helped.

Mariangeles:


I don’t think your friend is the one with the problem.
I don’t think your friend will make it a big deal if you don’t contribute to his wedding.
I don’t think the wedding will be put on hold if you don’t contribute.
I think your contribution will be much appreciated.

Mariangeles:


I don’t think your friend is the one with the problem.
I don’t think your friend will make it a big deal if you don’t contribute to his wedding.
I don’t think the wedding will be put on hold if you don’t contribute.
I think your contribution will be much appreciated.

socialmediaman:
OP It happens every day. Did you ask for financial contribution when you wedded and he didn't contribute? or this came up because he's asking? What you do in response is up to you. Most people will return the favor, not only because of tit for tat but because they'll feel cheated. Again, it's up to you.

MufasaLion:


You have said it all!

Imagine the pettiness! Disgusting!

donbachi:
Some friends no get head.i lost my dad before a friend lost his own dad.he was in same town and never attended.but,kept malice with me for not attending that of his dad.

I taught him a lesson he wont forget in a hurry.

Richy4:
Wedding ceremony is not a life threatening situation...

Hence, If I was to be in your situation, I will apply the common law of nature that states... "As the left hand washes the right hand, the right hand in turn washes the left hand... '

What u cultivate during planting season is what u will harvest...

Viruses:

Do you mean he is reaping what he sowed?

He cultivated nothing and so he can't reap anything...

Richy4:


He cultivated nothing and so he can't reap anything...

donbachi:
Some friends no get head.i lost my dad before a friend lost his own dad.he was in same town and never attended.but,kept malice with me for not attending that of his dad.

I taught him a lesson he wont forget in a hurry.

Viruses:
I have a friend that didn't contribute financially to my wedding ceremony, He didn't even attend perhaps because the wedding was in another state, can't tell. I know this guy has money because he is my colleague and we are on the same pay grade Not as though I was expecting anything from anybody as I could chest all the bills, but it came to my consciousness when he sent me his wedding IV and asked for financial assistance. In my mind I was guy na happy married life you tell me, expect same.

Honestly, when you see friends supporting each other in events, some could be first time while others are sort of returned favours, so if you don't do for somebody, don't even expect people to do for you.

Has this happened to you before? share your experience.

Truvelisback:
B4 u start judging him, did u ask him for assistance for ur wedding?

Viruses:

Like I already mentioned, I didn't ask him, just the same way I didn't ask those that helped.
But seriously if your close friend is getting married, will you not assist him financially just because he has not asked even if you have the money. Just like saying you won't contribute to buying gift item for a colleague who is getting married because he or she has not come out to say "you people should buy me gift item".

If that is the case you shouldn't bother anybody with contribution since nobody bothered you.

LordIsaac:
Let no one blackmail you into helping someone who has no mind of helping others. Share the money's worth you'd have given him to the homeless on the street and God will bless you. He doesn't deserve it. Surround yourself with people who can come through for you in times of need as such times will come, and be ready to be helpful to such people too. Any other sermon beside this is mere hypocrisy.