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I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 3:06pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Hello guys hope you're having nice day.. Please I can't say much now because I'm so devastated right now. I ruined my relationship with my action and now my heart is bleeding inside... I meet this beautiful girl last year June so cool headed brilliant and we're good friends she always visit me at home after our first conversation she' feel safe with me like is into me but unfortunately for her my ex girlfriend just broke my heart at then I vow never to love anyone. But I never told her this she keeping coming to my house one day we had sex, She'd give me all the attention I'd need from a woman I started developing feelings towards her so we got into relationship she really love me a lot, but I find it hard to love her back same way she dose I even sometimes use mean word's to her sometimes if I'm alone I'll ask myself what's the problem here why can't love her same way she dose but I can't figure it out. About 3 week's ago we had little misunderstanding which later to something else I told her this relationship is over after 2 day I call her back to apologize for action but she's really angry with me I told my friend about my friend did call her plead on my behalf she said okay. I decide to visit her on working place my baby was yelling out loud at me I didn't know what came over me I slap and I said word's which I shouldn't say out I really got angry that day I didn't know i what I was doing I've begging her since last 2 weeks till she'd refuse I'm so confuse right I feel something is missing inside me since then I've sharing tears for my action I'm so confuse this babe never for once stress me out for anything I told her I don't have she won't ask again I'm confuse right now. I wish I could turn back the hands of time |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by candidladyTemp(f): 3:08pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by immortalcrown(m): 3:16pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Na so some men too dey abuse good women and some women too dey abuse good men. Life no balance. She loves you and treats you so nice but you never reciprocated the love. You need no advice. Every action has an unavoidable consequence. If she comes back to you, you will hurt her more either consciously or unconsciously. Nonsense! You maltreated her because it was not stressful for you to get her. You are among the ones that give girls a reason to form hard-to-get. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by helinues: 3:16pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Sometimes, we do not appreciate what we have until they are gone 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 3:26pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
helinues: I really don't know what I was doing I feel like something holding me down I even ask my self questions why can't love her Same way she dose love but I can't figure it later did I know I made vow that's what really hurt me most I'm filled with regret I've sent her text of apology countless times |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 3:27pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
immortalcrown: I'm so filled with regret I've been sharing tears everyday because of my action I just want back 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by alphabbey1(m): 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Efe42:No need to disturb time, you are simply a woman beater. Leave the girl alone to find a better husband... Since my childhood till now, I have never experience my dad raising his hands on his woman... Person wey u never marry, u Don dey let anger take over u.... rest and leave the beautiful girl alone.. . 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 3:45pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
alphabbey1: We learn from our mistakes you don't know me stop calling me name's |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by OVB123: 3:52pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
I think with your naration, u are not matured enough for a relationship. I will advise u to go to her again; this time with all sincerity and apologise to her and assure her that it won't repeat itself again. |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 3:56pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
OVB123: I've goon to her but she doesn't wanna see me and I feel like if I give much space she wont accept me anymore |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Kobojunkie: 4:03pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Efe42:Time only moves forward... 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by rickpat(m): 4:51pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
OP...you should have healed first from the previous relationship before going into this one,the baggage from that previous relationship is the issue..... secondly hitting her was wrong and even in public...just calm down,work on yourself, while you continue pleading with her...she loves you,she would forgive but please try not to let this happen again especially the hitting her..good luck 2 Likes |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 5:15pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
rickpat: Thank you sir you understand me and now I'm feeling guilty for not loving her that's why I'm still begging her I know she's hurt |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by rickpat(m): 6:14pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Efe42:... don't really..all will be fine...just heal from the hurt from your previous relationship...you are good to go |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
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Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 8:07pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
rickpat: Thank you |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 8:07pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: I really don't know what get over me I just can't sleep at with peace of mind. I feel like she's the one for me but my foolishness drove her away and my heart bleed inside... |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
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Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 11:08pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: I don't have anger issues my biggest problem here I've made a vow never to love again at then something October I said the word with my mouth because I love my pervious ex girlfriend so much I love her unconditional I really do love her... But my mistake I forget to unvow what I've said some month's ago sometimes I even ask myself why I can't love her same way she'd love me but I can't figure it out until yesterday when I play one special love poems same poems I play when I made those vows then I now remember its all on me it's what I said out off brokenhearted... Below is my previous ex girlfriend WhatsApp status that made me make the vow now I'm filled with regret I've been begging her but she' refuse I'm hurt and bleeding same time |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 11:10pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
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Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 6:45am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Now I realize why I can't show her love of affection because I'm asking myself why I can't love her same way something was blocking me if i want too. And it keep hurting me more because she see me as someone who never love her I just hope she dose give me another Chance. I've prayed to God almighty about it I know God will heal her heart for the pain I've cause her and I'll love her more |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Nobody: 7:43am On Feb 18, 2022 |
She deserves better . |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Spider20: 7:50am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Op, if I were you. I must attend the four corners of a University. |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 8:25am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Spider20: What 4 corner pls I'm losing my mind I haven't feel this way the I'm feeling now |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Truvelisback(m): 9:12am On Feb 18, 2022 |
U need to see a Psychiatrist. |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Dreytonisback(m): 9:45am On Feb 18, 2022 |
You're hurting her bc of your last experience with ur ex You must've really trusted your ex and love her so much that's why it's hard to love another Y'all should always get rid of your ex's memories before venturing into another relationship And slapping lady is so stupid of you Lights up my kpoli in peace |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 12:42pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Dreytonisback: Yes exactly you're right I didn't know what came over me that very day.. I made a vowed never to fell in love again at then after my ex broke my I love so much that's why I couldn't show her much love of affection |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Efe42(m): 12:45pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Dreytonisback: Dreytonisback: |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Nobody: 2:33pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Haven't we read this story earlier this year? |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by Dreytonisback(m): 3:02pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Efe42: Work on yourself Make money in big bag Work out Look good Eat healthily Then think of having a woman and ensure you treat her right and forget that ex who broke ur heart |
Re: I'm So Confused Please Help by pansophist(m): 3:28pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Well-deserved. Let this teach you a lesson that you don't raise your hand on adults. Only animals and children you use violence for and get the intended desire results, not adults. Even if an adult can't defeat you physically, they may come for for you later with a superior force and obliterate you. We grow with experience not age. Age only allow us achieve experience that makes us a better humans. I see you feel really pained like you loss a jewel, that's a good life lesson which will prohibit you for raising your hands on a woman and also to cultivate self control. Because you are angry and can beat someone doesn't mean you're right, it simply means you're physically stronger. And to be physically strong as a means to abuse others instead of protect them is weakness, not strength. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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