ahnie:
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candidladyTemp:



Please say something

Your girl is confused

MufasaLion:
We can't change people unless they are willing to. So, he's gotta accept the reality about you or sacrifice the friendship for his principle.

Worry not! Ain't nothing bad with 4:20.

ahnie:

Sweetie you would be alright laslas,that's all that matters.

candidladyTemp:



Thanks so much...

But ihave always kept my heart guarded..

But he is the only one that knows some secrets of mine that even God can't know..
You feel anything for him??


After my mum the dude is a father

rickpat:
permitted to speak?

candidladyTemp:


Rikky speak your mic is connected to an outlet that can never be off

candidladyTemp:


If he got to sacrifice then what would ihave to sac too...

Cuz the only sac ihave done is by hiding it...

Iaccepted his way of life but after what he saw he is finding it hard to accept mine...

Ireally enjoy his company especially when iam stoned

Modified: pardon whatever typo ihave got up there...

MufasaLion:


You really don't need to hide anything from anyone. It's your personality. It's either he get along with you and accept you or leaves. If he doesn't want you to take a spliff again, he must understand that you're used to it and you can't just stop it all of a sudden. He gotta be patient to make you stop it by gradual process.

Yes, you like him being around you and vice versa. You have to let him know you wanna stop also but he's gonna accept you for what you are now while at the same time you work on withdrawal.

Just give it time.

rickpat:
sometimes is not about people accepting is the way we are but us accepting ourselves the way we are NOT,all we need is strength to let go of things that doesn't portray the true us.

candidlady this is more like a triangle..you want your friendship,but you need to be healthy to have that friendship and the only enemy to your friendship and your health is the stuffs...THIS IS NOT ABOUT HIM ACCEPTING YOU THE WAY YOU ARE BUT YOU ACCEPTING YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE NOT,THEREBY COVERING THE TRUE AND REAL YOU..




sorry for intrude...don't mind if I get bashed....#runs away

candidladyTemp:


Ihave always had conversations with myself as to why ikeep him in dark as regards my love for the mari

When it comes to understanding terrestrial beings tend to be selfish !!

@bolded
That would be a lie... Ifound peace on this quest...

MufasaLion:


You're right about your second statement. Although, he's only trying to be a good friend to you. Him not comfortable with what you do doesn't mean he resents you. He want you not to be hooked on it but then, you didn't get used to it in one day and you can't stop totally in one day. He needs to understand that.

Yes, you've found peace and I understand how thrilling it is. I strongly believe that if you are determined to take a bold step at conquering it, you would be able to.

candidladyTemp:


Liberal !!!!; liberal !!!!

Idont care a milli when he drinks to stupor.. I'd be there to wipe the closet clean....








Conquering peace Whose side are you on uh!!!!

No lies am I faulty?

candidladyTemp:



My health got nothing to do with Nada... Iknow iam healthy cuz the natural herbs engineered by the earth to give fresh air (peace)


Don't you think its selfishness you wanting in your world but you can't stand a min in mine

candidladyTemp:
He saw e_cig in my pigeonhole .... Laced with mari!!!


Ilied ionly do cigarettes...

Although he has told me times with out digits not to spliff again....

Don't wanna kill our friendship but then again I can't end the relationship igot with the MG

Mufasalion datboredberry illicit sonnobax
Smellysperm kriss216

illicit:


U didn't have to lie
That's what would have pained me not even the herbs

I prefer herbs to cigarettes

Not everybody will take u for who you are, sometimes u have to compromise

A lie is a lie no matter the quantity or purpose

I know u need a new friend like me

BTW do u know datbored.berry in person?

candidladyTemp:



But you know at times outta respect/regards for a person you have to lie

Most people find it hard to stomach the truth

Thanks for your input I'd try to process it..


Berry Fernandez and Maria are my e pals





Good morning

rickpat:
.. yeah,it might seem selfish but again maybe he feels he wants to make you a kinda better person ..if you must drop the habit though let it be for yourself first not for him..cus if you drop it for him,what if he leaves tomorrow would you angrily go back to the habit?,..but trust me a greater peace lies in a world without those herbs..you find happiness in them,I know my friend[b] but a more permanent happiness lies outside of it.[/b] ..I know you want him to accept you the way you are...it's hard for him too....all I ask of you now is to take a time away from him...try to look yourself in the mirror and look at the good and bad side of the habit...then decide whether to give it a try to quit or continue,it's all about you first before him...sorry girl,this is a very difficult situation *hugs* but I believe everything will be fine and you will always be happy... ofcourse I will always support you and your point is valid about him being kinda "selfish" but again sometimes people walk into our lives and makes us try our new things for the better or for the worse..you will be fine whether he stays or goes

illicit:


Morning sunshine
U are doing well

Maria? I don't know who's that

candidladyTemp:


Mariangles

How are you enjoying kubwa

SmellySperm:
You shoulda made it clear to him from day1 you blow trees. Not you lieing to him. There's nun'wrong in smoking mari.

Now it's either he accepts you the way it is or you adjust to his wills. Choice is yours

ahnie:
Sometimes when we genuinely loves someone we have to let go of some of our unhealthy habits.

I for one,I like taking spirits alot,but I had to put an end to it when it started affecting my health and my kids were complaining.

Yesterday I took small stout mixed with laxatives,I had t pour away most of the stout.because it was irritating me.
I have replaced spirits with daily intake of milk.
I hope you get my points.

candidladyTemp:



@B1
Make me a better person ko?!!! What makes me a bad person.. ??

@B2
Permanent peace lies outside?... Really funny


Thanks