This might be my last words on Nairaland....sincerely am tired of everything, sadness everyday, I can’t bear all this trouble any longer, to all my friends, family , wife and kids I love you guys.....I wish I can continue but I can’t. Just remind me.

Just hold on. Think of your kids and think of the fact that your problem has a solution, and his name is Jesus.

Yankeeboy02:
This might be my last words on Nairaland....sincerely am tired of everything, sadness everyday, I can’t bear all this trouble any longer, to all my friends, family , wife and kids I love you guys.....I wish I can continue but I can’t. Just remind me.

you can find rest in Christ ,Christ loves you and his love is unconditional

Rest in peace in advance

Please don't do this brother
I know life is very hard out there
Its never been easy
But suicide should be your last option
Believe me what I face and what other people are facing might be tougher than yours, but we still strive amd work smart for the better days
Don't kill yourself
Believe u can make a difference, yes u can
When life dey, hope dey

ikibekingsleyoo:
you can find rest in Christ ,Christ loves you and his love is unconditional

Pesin need money, u dey talk say Christ go give am unconditional love

OneCorner:

Pesin need money, u dey talk say Christ go give am unconditional love

Christ don make available all the money he needs ,even with all the money in the world,without Christ you will still be empty.

ikibekingsleyoo:
Christ don make available all the money he needs ,even with all the money in the world,without Christ you will still be empty.

Dey dere

Yankeeboy02:
This might be my last words on Nairaland....sincerely am tired of everything, sadness everyday, I can’t bear all this trouble any longer, to all my friends, family , wife and kids I love you guys.....I wish I can continue but I can’t. Just remind me.

"Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."-Psalm 30:5

The Lord said that he's still interested in you,
You can tell us what exactly is wrong, nairaland is here for you.

Don't oooooo. People saying rest in peace in advance are just f*lish. Things are so hard, look at me, my wife is a nursing mother, she is nt doing anything. I am so much in debt, I buy everything in the house, even Maggi. I have only 1black trouser which has fade to almost white. And 1 white shirt which is brown now. I even beg some1 cloth here, which he hasn't give me feedback. My daughter is sick now, I dnt even have money to buy paracetamol talkless of going to the hospital. Common soap of 150 for my daughter I can't buy. She has been bathing without soap and rashes full her body. No closeup to brush my teeth, no cream, soap, food etc. House rent is due, I dnt no were I will pack and go. For days now I eat groundnut at night to sleep. I am like a rastard now, no money to Barb my hair.... Sometimes I dnt have strength to walk. Thinking upon thinking.. so my dear friend, don't commit sucide, no body will take care of your kids... Dat z the groundnut I eat last night to sleep

You want to commit suicide?
Go out and ask people about their ordeals. I'm very sure you will thank God for your own life
I've drink garri for one straight week and I've went many days without food
Don't kill yourself

OneCorner:

Dey dere

talking from experience.

Hold strong bami everyone is going through somethings wey dey make dem restless

podium:
Don't oooooo. People saying rest in peace in advance are just f*lish. Things are so hard, look at me, my wife is a nursing mother, she is nt doing anything. I am so much in debt, I buy everything in the house, even Maggi. I have only 1black trouser which has fade to almost white. And 1 white shirt which is brown now. I even beg some1 cloth here, which he hasn't give me feedback. My daughter is sick now, I dnt even have money to buy paracetamol talkless of going to the hospital. Common soap of 150 for my daughter I can't buy. She has been bathing without soap and rashes full her body. No closeup to brush my teeth, no cream, soap, food etc. House rent is due, I dnt no were I will pack and go. For days now I eat groundnut at night to sleep. I am like a rastard now, no money to Barb my hair.... Sometimes I dnt have strength to walk. Thinking upon thinking.. so my dear friend, don't commit sucide, no body will take care of your kids... Dat z the groundnut I eat last night to sleep

Na wa o. Were things like this before you got married or they changed overnight.

ikibekingsleyoo:
Christ don make available all the money he needs ,even with all the money in the world,without Christ you will still be empty.

Seriously?

What he needs is financial assistance, not soothing words, they don't pay bills

ikibekingsleyoo:
you can find rest in Christ ,Christ loves you and his love is unconditional

The guy only provide rest in his heavenly abode as he has told his followers to expect suffering which they are happily enduring waiting for their lords return.

To put your advice properly, you are telling him not to wait for your lord return but to go meet him asap in his heavenly abode so as to find rest, cause to my knowledge, true Christians don't rest, they fight spiritual war everyday since everyone else is their enemy always attacking them spiritually (because them no get something more productive), and most are never happy because they have been made to only see the sad part of life.

OP (yankeeboy02), if sadness is your problem, I will instead advice you to be genuinely happy with people around you and made yourself useful, I have been in a worst situation and I was able to overcome because I don't expect happiness, I give it instead, and I don't expect gains, I put in my best to help others, so they take me as family, I was even able to change some people toxic mindset by showing them how blissful the world can be, even though they expected me to live in fear and sadness cause of my situation then.

The secret to happiness will always be people, but if you expect happiness from people, you will be more frustrated, give it instead, you have in multitude, what you give freely. Air, Water, and Sand are important life elements, but the more you hold onto them, the more and faster they slip off your hand.

Those who I work for will not be happy to let me go, you know why? I treat their work like mine and put in a lot of sacrifice to make it grow. 99% of humans are selfish, to beat the rest, you need to stand out. The most successful people (all-round success) are those who selflessly serve humanity, while the most unsuccessful people are not only selfish but also evil at heart.

AdeOri99:


Wait, you dey like this and you still dey advice someone not to commit suicide, if you hate yourself this much, don't confuse others please. Not everyone is addicted to prolong suffering, sometimes it is better to fold one's card and reshuffle.

When I was in hopeless condition myself, if not because people came through at the last time, I would have gone tey tey, and you see, most of the time, people can only give you some little thing to replenish your strength, to find a permanent solution to your woes, it's up to you. I used to blame my mom for taking her own life and leaving us alone to this cold world, but I stopped when I learnt she was terminally ill and often visit the hospital, so she don't have time for us even at that time, moreover, she was going crazy from overthinking, so to preserve her honor, she made the right choice, because even though she had a successful business, she spent the gain to foot hospital bills.

Believe me, she is more useful when dead than she would have been if she is to be alive, because there are some feat I will never be able to achieve without her support, I only hope she come back through me so that she can enjoy a good life, because I believed in re-incantation. So it is better to be dead and useful than to be alive and worse than dead, me I can't withstand suffering oh, I can only withstand suffering if I am pursuing a goal, but no goal?, even if I am a billionaire, I am dead without a goal, so if my ambition is taken from me, coupled with lack of basic amenities, lol. I will just go and rest.

Sorry I can't help you though cause I don't feel satisfied if I provide half help, those I helped, I help them fully, but your own case pass my own, but stop discouraging others from committing suicide it only make them sick in the mind if they continue to suffer, me personally, I hate it when people lost touch with their humanity especially because of suffering.

Guy your mentality is like my own and that op even has kids and is married omho men. I can't even imagine what the family is going through if he's suffering like that.

OP don't give up, instead state how we can help you.

AdeOri99:


The guy only provide rest in his heavenly abode as he has told his followers to expect suffering which they are happily enduring waiting for their lords return.

To put your advice properly, you are telling him not to wait for your lord return but to go meet him asap in his heavenly abode so as to find rest, cause to my knowledge, true Christians don't rest, they fight spiritual war everyday since everyone else is their enemy always attacking them spiritually (because them no get something more productive), and most are never happy because they have been made to only see the sad part of life.

OP (yankeeboy02), if sadness is your problem, I will instead advice you to be genuinely happy with people around you and made yourself useful, I have been in a worst situation and I was able to overcome because I don't expect happiness, I give it instead, and I don't expect gains, I put in my best to help others, so they take me as family, I was even able to change some people toxic mindset by showing them how blissful the world can be, even though they expected me to live in fear and sadness cause of my situation then.

The secret to happiness will always be people, but if you expect happiness from people, you will be more frustrated, give it instead, you have in multitude, what you give freely. Air, Water, and Sand are important life elements, but the more you hold onto them, the more and faster they slip off your hand.

Those who I work for will not be happy to let me go, you know why? I treat their work like mine and put in a lot of sacrifice to make it grow. 99% of humans are selfish, to beat the rest, you need to stand out. The most successful people (all-round success) are those who selflessly serve humanity, while the most unsuccessful people are not only selfish but also evil at heart.

did you get your understanding of true christaininty from your relationship with God or from what the society made you understand or you own understanding,the bible says the kingdom of God is in you here on earth,you do not have to die to experience ,peace,joy, etc,so you do jot need yo die to find rest in Christ .I do not want to go front and back or your religious concepts or ideology in Christ,the word Christian was mentions only few times in the Bible,the disciples where called christains becauae theu exibited the life and character of christ .Christ as not called us to be Christians,but disciples...I know what I am saying not because a pastor told me so,or a phophet or society,but because I have a personal walking talking relationship with God everyday.Jesus Christ asked is disciples who do they say I am,and all had different concepts of who they thought Christ was,until peter said you are the son of God and Christ replied that only heaven could have told him that.find christ for yourself through the help of the holy spirit. To be a follower of Christ is not a religion ,it is a way of life.

ikibekingsleyoo:
did you get your understanding of true christaininty from your relationship with God or from what the society made you understand or you own understanding,the bible says the kingdom of God is in you here on earth,you do not have to die to experience ,peace,joy, etc,so you do jot need yo die to find rest in Christ .I do not want to go front and back or your religious concepts or ideology in Christ,the word Christian was mentions only few times in the Bible,the disciples where called christains becauae theu exibited the life and character of christ .Christ as not called us to be Christians,but disciples...I know what I am saying not because a pastor told me so,or a phophet or society,but because I have a personal walking talking relationship with God everyday.Jesus Christ asked is disciples who do they say I am,and all had different concepts of who they thought Christ was,until peter said you are the son of God and Christ replied that only heaven could have told him that.find christ for yourself through the help of the holy spirit. To be a follower of Christ is not a religion ,it is a way of life.

If you know the truth, good for you then, I chose to talk the way I do because a lot don't know what they are doing, so I will rather urge them to drop religion than try convincing them that they are doing stuffs the wrong way.

AdeOri99:


If you know the truth, good for you then, I chose to talk the way I do because a lot don't know what they are doing, so I will rather urge them to drop religion than try convincing them that they are doing stuffs the wrong way.

I understand you bro ,sometimes all the person that wrote this post needs is just little financial assistance and a person to show care for him which is also showing him love in Christ ,not pushing religion through his throat .

ikibekingsleyoo:
I understand you bro ,sometimes all the person that wrote this post needs is just little financial assistance and a person to show care for him which is also showing him love in Christ ,not pushing religion through his throat .

Yes financial assistance, but if the root is not address, he will continue to seek financial assistance, I will rather teach people or help them to a sustainable stage than to give them what won't last long.

Me, I believe that it is more rewarding to give than to expect to always be the receiver, infact most people are miserable because they chose to be unproductive, contribute selflessly to the society and you will never lack, but stay selfish and discover how lonely you are in the midst of plenty.

AdeOri99:


Yes financial assistance, but if the root is not address, he will continue to seek financial assistance, I will rather teach people or help them to a sustainable stage than to give them what won't last long.

Me, I believe that it is more rewarding to give than to expect to always be the receiver, infact most people are miserable because they chose to be unproductive, contribute selflessly to the society and you will never lack, but stay selfish and discover how lonely you are in the midst of plenty.

true,you are also preaching the life of Christ with your way of life as long as it is coming from a place of love and selflessness.

You don chop?

Don't commit suicide bruh . Me like this I have not eaten anything since Morning, yesterday na only kuli kuli I chop throughout yesterday. I'm 300 level student of unilorin, I'm trying my best because I believe a day will come come that I won't feel any pain in me again . I'm depressed, lonely even I have become a sadddist because I can't compare myself to my colleagues . I have never think of commiting suicide in my life, despite all what I'm going through. I have dad ,mom , and 2 big brother, its hard for me to get 2,000 a week from all this people, I don't have food stuff, no gas nothing. Don't commit suicide bruh, you can find a menial job Like bricklayer , you can join them and start labour or find a place where they are constructing road or factory work atleast you will be making 1,500 or 2k perday. I also did it in December last year when my phone got spoil, I make over 60k within one half month.

Olagoods1:
Don't commit suicide bruh . Me like this I have not eaten anything since Morning, yesterday na only kuli kuli I chop throughout yesterday. I'm 300 level student of unilorin, I'm trying my best because I believe a day will come come that I won't feel any pain in me again . I'm depressed, lonely even I have become a sadddist because I can't compare myself to my colleagues . I have never think of commiting suicide in my life, despite all what I'm going through. I have dad ,mom , and 2 big brother, its hard for me to get 2,000 a week from all this people, I don't have food stuff, no gas nothing. Don't commit suicide bruh, you can find a menial job Like bricklayer , you can join them and start labour or find a place where they are constructing road or factory work atleast you will be making 1,500 or 2k perday. I also did it in December last year when my phone got spoil, I make over 60k within one half month.

Do you have anyone available, am jobless, am a graduate, I can’t stand seeing my wife and kids begging Neigbour for food....if you have any job , even menial , I will do it
Am fed up

AdeOri99:


Wait, you dey like this and you still dey advice someone not to commit suicide, if you hate yourself this much, don't confuse others please. Not everyone is addicted to prolong suffering, sometimes it is better to fold one's card and reshuffle.

When I was in hopeless condition myself, if not because people came through at the last time, I would have gone tey tey, and you see, most of the time, people can only give you some little thing to replenish your strength, to find a permanent solution to your woes, it's up to you. I used to blame my mom for taking her own life and leaving us alone to this cold world, but I stopped when I learnt she was terminally ill and often visit the hospital, so she don't have time for us even at that time, moreover, she was going crazy from overthinking, so to preserve her honor, she made the right choice, because even though she had a successful business, she spent the gain to foot hospital bills.

Believe me, she is more useful when dead than she would have been if she is to be alive, because there are some feat I will never be able to achieve without her support, I only hope she come back through me so that she can enjoy a good life, because I believed in re-incantation. So it is better to be dead and useful than to be alive and worse than dead, me I can't withstand suffering oh, I can only withstand suffering if I am pursuing a goal, but no goal?, even if I am a billionaire, I am dead without a goal, so if my ambition is taken from me, coupled with lack of basic amenities, lol. I will just go and rest.

Sorry I can't help you though cause I don't feel satisfied if I provide half help, those I helped, I help them fully, but your own case pass my own, but stop discouraging others from committing suicide it only make them sick in the mind if they continue to suffer, me personally, I hate it when people lost touch with their humanity especially because of suffering.

Sucide is not an option... If he commit sucide now, what will happen to his kids, who will take care of them! Sucide is not and will never be an option... The future is always bright...

Yankeeboy02:

Do you have anyone available, am jobless, am a graduate, I can’t stand seeing my wife and kids begging Neigbour for food....if you have any job , even menial , I will do it
Am fed up

Do the menial job... If u have the strength and power... There is money... I am also a graduate, I sponsor my self in a private polytechnic. Now I am done, to do clearance and go for service is about 400k. Were will I see such money, I have been sent out of exam Hall before. I have seen so much in life, na still here some1 gave some old clothes for my baby.. my bby doesn't have a sock anymore, cap and clothes.. there are not sizing her any longer.. I am so much in debt that I have been running in bush if I see any1 I am oweing.. if I show u the palm slippers I am wearing, am nt sure if a madman will wear.. I can't even face my mate, my clothes are fade off. All my contacts, I don ask money finish, yet no shishi... As I am typing this now, my eye are inside my skull. No food since morning... Na only my phone I dey use pass time.. my rent been expired, Dem been even disconnect my light.. if I been no get daughter, maybe I for come back 1 day to see my things outside.. maybe that is the reason there are having patient... If I die now, who will take care of my daughter... If I see my parents call now, I am dead.. I will be scare wether something has happened... I once plan sucide, but my daughter will suffer.. I once plan to run away.. she always wake up by 5 to climb on me everyday.. she is 6mnth but she can't stand a day without seeing me... I believe one day it will be better and all this hardship will be a thing of the past.... I have relatives who are millionaire, uncle's mostly... But shi shi Dem no go give u... My cousin is building a 20unit selfcon, I ask him for 1k today, he told me is financially down... I always post with evidence, it was a chat, I deleted the chat so that my wife will not see it and started crying... I have beg alot, no help... That is why I always delete sms of begging my relatives for money, so that she will not start tinking and crying... Sucide is not an option... I believe it will get better.. abeg no mind the English, I am hungry and my eyes are seeing too well.