FlowerGirl040:
Can you just imagine??

Madam I'm not a fool.
He's my man.

Just give ur advice and move on.

silibaba:


If you will adhere, divorce him and look for another man that will be wearing boxers please.

Okay.
Thank you sir

Lekan1o1:


A very very stupid thing to do..
Sometimes when i see some stuffs online iwonder if we use same brain as humans or some use chips.

Lol. Some advice here can break a happy and peaceful home.

November24:


Okay.
Thank you sir

Remain bless sis

Lol don't worry. It's for convenience. Wrapper feels for free and convenient and less constricting than boxers or shorts to some men. I guess that one cross you have to bear with him. Nothing wrong with him it's just that you don't like it. I think the problem is if he does that even when visitors are around. It should just be a personal free inhouse dressing. Just like the convenience of being nude indoors. Wrapper frees the body, no tightenings, and more air. Unlike boxers or pants with their elastic tightenings especially after wearing them the whole day. I wear both too sometimes and I can know the difference.

Ikillbrokehoes:
You yourself knows that i am your medicine here

Don’t say I did not warn you.

Vision101:
@Mariangeles

Don’t you think it is better a man buy his own shorts, so that he can get himself what he’s most comfortable in?

By the way, what shorts do men prefer? The tight fitted ones that pack up everything or the loose ones that let in some air?


@me
Loose ones jare.... I need some fresh air. Pls sis. Maria buy for me.

Okay.

I hope you like colourful ones.

Mariangeles:


Don’t say I did not warn you.

No let me change am for you.

thorpido:
Children no dey house?

And you think this is a factor because?

FlowerGirl040:
Lol. Some advice here can break a happy and peaceful home.

Ofcourse when some village people who hunger dey wire hear say ur man dey chop 500k monthly.
Or some jealouse slay queens.
U will be shocked at the lenght humams can go.

Kingdemu:
Says a typical old and single slay queen. Why are you trying so hard to make her turn it into a fight when from her write up she stated that they usually laugh it off? Get a life!

U can imagine that. The loser honestly wants her to sneak in a knife into a throw-pillow games.

The poster has sense, I almost smiled reading where she said no.. No need for that. At the same time, carrying your marriage to.enter online and seek advice from deranged fellows is a no no.

Some of these persons telling u to turn it into a fight are punishments of God waiting for a man that have committed great sins against God to marry them and it's doom, fire and brimstone.

I tire for all these poorly raised, brainless scums.

I personally don't like it when a man ties wrapper in the house or wears boxers around the street.

Why should everybody see the shape of the kini and it will be dangling abeg its not nice

OP it's just one of those things you remove your eye from.

November24:
Good day Daddies and mummies.
I am a Northern woman, met my Igbo husband during my NYSC days at Nccf.
We have been married over 5 years now.

He's a good man, works and earn good money, now my problem is this man always ties wrapper in the house o. Educated man o, earns over 500k monthly, but this mentality is something else.
Not that I'm angry,

but I just want him on boxers while in the house. But he will just be laughing at me, this was same man that told me he don't like ladies tying wrapper in the house, so this morning, I tied it like him, he just burst into laughter, infact, both of us were laughing at ourselves.
How can a 33 years old man like wrapper like zobo?

This is not because he's Igbo,because his younger brother and wife told me to carry my cross,that he has been like that, in fact,they tease us with this.

He laughs at me when I correct him, last week my sister in law bought me a wedding wrapper, guess what, came back from work I met my husband tying it.

Pls will he change with time, is there any idea I can get to change my Daddy!
Thanks.

Cc: RoyalRoy

Don't get worried about it he is a native and traditional man. He must have learnt that from his dady or stayed around those who tied wrappers while growing up especially the elders

They do so to fell free down there

Well he may not stop it but it will be controlled

Get enough boxers for him and just take the wrapper away from his eyes

Very soon he will tier towel, if it's larger enough to go round his waste

Lekan1o1:


Ofcourse when some village people who hunger dey wire hear say ur man dey chop 500k monthly.
Or some jealouse slay queens.
U will be shocked at the lenght humams can go.

November24:


Madam I'm not a fool.
He's my man.

Just give ur advice and move on.

My dear, you will never be a fool. He's your man,right. The reason why I quoted Lekan1o1 was because of some advices here,not everyone has a strong willing heart like yours. (Because I read some of your replies,which I am impressed with) Some people with weak mind can take advice on here and it will lead to divorce or something. Issue that should have been settled within themselves maturedly. Sis give him time pls. I wish you the best. Cheers

ThothHermes:
And you think this is a factor because?

How will parents walk naked around the house with kids?It isn't right.

.

FlowerGirl040:
My dear, you will never be a fool. He's your man,right. The reason why I quoted Lekan1o1 was because of some advices here,not everyone has a strong willing heart like yours. (Because I read some of your replies,which I am impressed with) Some people with weak mind can take advice on here and it will lead to divorce or something. Issue that should have been settled within themselves maturedly. Sis give him time pls. I wish you the best. Cheers

Pls ignore her obviously she is "mrs i too know it all" Who literally dont know anything.
Becoz if atually she knows she would have learnt that bring her man here is foolhardy.

So ignore her dear

Mariangeles:
Tell him the wrapper typing turns you off.
Let him know you feel the least attracted to him whenever he ties on a wrapper, and that you don’t like it.
That ought to get him to step up.

U always gv bad advice, I don't know why and at your age

November24:


This man just sees me as a joke o.
Thanks sis... Though I can't tell him it turns me off, we have made some promises to ourselves not to say somethings to ourselves.

I just want to do it playfully with love.

Listen my dear, if u don't want problem, do not listen to that aunty advice, I take any God u worship beg u bcs I see u as a very good woman to behold.
Allow guy man to be pls, that's him for u.

Mariangeles:


Tell him sincerely, and not as a joke.

You don’t want your sexy feelings for him to die too soon, do you?
I doubt he wants that too.
Wrapper tying is a vibe killer for you, and that is just it.

Aunty zukwanike, zukwanike biko. Always dishing out wrong advice in marital aspects
Can't u decode that op is happy in her marriage, can't u?

emmanuelbrown26:

Aunty zukwanike, zukwanike biko. Always dishing out wrong advice in marital aspects
Can't u decode that op is happy in her marriage, can't u?

If your wife tie wrappers around the house and you don’t like it, what would you do?
Wouldn’t you sincerely tell her that you don’t like it?

Bringing the issue here meant that it bothered her and she needed advice right?

Why do people with wicked mindsets like yours read deep meaning into things and see things that aren’t there?
Why are people afraid of the truth?
Do you think sincere and heartfelt communication will destroy the happiness in their marriage?
Why are you people so wicked as to make others look bad?

Go read my comments again; it might not have gone well with you but it came from a sincere place.
I would never wish anyone misfortune in their marriage.
Why would I when I was born and raised in a happy home?

Lekan1o1:



Pls ignore her obviously she is "mrs i too know it all" Who literally dont know anything.
Becoz if atually she knows she would have learnt that bring her man here is foolhardy.

So ignore her dear

No dear,don't call her that. Obviously she has a good reason why she seek for advice here,my problem is some advices here can change a good woman to a bad wife. I have been married for years and there are some things that when you try to Correct after many attempts,you just have to let the person be, especially if it will not post any harm to your life. Treat some issues with love and understanding for peace to reign.

November24, don’t mind people like emmanuelbrown26 who are trying to poison your mind against me.
The advice I gave was from a good place and it is totally okay if you don’t agree with it.
I will never wish you or anyone misfortune in their marriage.

My kind of person is that I don’t keep things bottled up inside. When I see or feel something I don’t like, I have to speak up about it for better understanding.

Mariangeles:
November24, don’t mind people like emmanuelbrown26 who are trying to poison your mind against me.
The advice I gave was from a good place and it is totally okay if you don’t agree with it.
I will never wish you or anyone misfortune in their marriage.

My kind of person is that I don’t keep things bottled up inside. When I see or feel something I don’t like, I have to speak up about it for better understanding.

I get u whole sis.
Chop kiss

November24:


I get u whole sis.
Chop kiss

Thank you dear.

Kingdemu:
Says a typical old and single slay queen. Why are you trying so hard to make her turn it into a fight when from her write up she stated that they usually laugh it off? Get a life!

Brother man, i owe u. Exactly what i told d op never to listen to that aunty. From op's vib one would understand that she is happi in her marriage

Mariangeles:


If I were you, I’d be very careful with me.

You don’t wanna provoke the higher powers.
No go use head carry wetin you no bargain for.

How dare u, if u are true daughter of your parents dare him, rubbish.

pocohantas:


Do they send? I have never received one o. I
never met the ones that are nice enough to send office pictures sef.

I am glad none has ever sent me such. The sheer thought of it and my head aches already. What am I supposed to see? Pot belly or hairy balls? Nahhh! I’ll pass.

u have being meeting d wrong ones and for u to be meeting d wrong ones shows the type of vibration that comes with u or from u

emmanuelbrown26:

u have being meeting d wrong ones and for u to be meeting d wrong ones shows the type of vibration that comes with u or from u

Oh yea? The right men send nudes?

Tell me more.

November24:


Yes I showed off.
Met him when he had no job. So what's your advice sir

I still repeat, u are very good woman, I never met u before, but i know people from far away. Pls do not listen to negative energies here, i take any God beg u.
Here, we hv so many frustrated ladies that always parade as marriage councilors. They will come to u as sister know it all, while they cant keep a date for 1 week.

Mariangeles:


Don’t say I did not warn you.

Dare him lets see