Good afternoon nairalanders,I really need your help on what to do about this issue I’m going through.,I’m sorry if my grammars are bad.,I’m not really perfect about it.,
So I’ve being dating this for over 2yrs now and it’d be 3yrs this year..,we actually stay together.,so some couple of days ago I noticed she changed her WhatsApp to Face ID.,we both use same password.,so she have acess to my phone,and I also have acess to her phone,..so since couple of days now I noticed whenever I take her phone she’s not only feeling comfortable..,she’d always stay with me till I finish using it or forcefully collect it from me..,so I sensed there’s something going on.,so this morning when she was sleeping..I have to break in her WhatsApp because she wasn’t aware after Face ID there’d still be a passcode..then I found out that..there’s this guy she is always chatting with..this is the third time.,I caught her again..the first time we fought so hard about this she begged that she will delete his number…same thing happened again the second time..,she said she’d block him and I found out that she still unblocked him again..,so I went through their chat..and what I was seeing was just so heartbreaking..,because the guy was her ex.,she was telling this guy she missed their intimacy.,even planning how they are going to meet soon..,telling the guy she can never resist him if they are together,the guy was asking her about what they talked about the last time and she said is it sex?that really broke my heart the more.,she was even saying she can’t resist him if they are together,I sacrificed everything for this girl..I love her and give her everything..,attention,money.,everything!!I don’t understand what else she want…I confronted her this morning and she doesn’t even feel remorseful about it..,all she said is it’s high time we have privacy for our phone..I’m just so heartbroken right now..I have to leave house for her..because I don’t just know how to cope with this heartbreak..whenever we have issue..if her mom knows about it she will only be begging me..,my parents know her as a good girl..,I don’t know how to break this news to them yet that I want to end things with her..,I’m just so frustrated and depressed right now..nairalanders please help me,no insults please..thanks so much in advance.

First and foremost never ever you try to spy on your partner's phone or anybody's phone..can't you folks think that an handset is something private and should only be accessible by the owner not some second or third party..it's really petty of you to do what you did..

Secondly what are you still doing?you want to keep on accepting her so she can keep on toying with your emotions huh?looks like she ain't really into you..so ninito you know what time it is right?you know what to do..

Lmao author of your own predicaments,you got alot of things to work on but my advice is:Swallow the redpill. Many things no go shock you again,not just with women but in life generally.

Oh ooo...I keep saying these,only simps do dating. Ladies are the most easiest commodity to get out there now.
Why will you be down wasted when there are a whole lot of pussies out there? My guy shine your eyes no girl or lady loves you, just catch your cruise and move on to the next cruise.

Modern Nigeria relationships...

A guy pays the girlfriend so that she won't cheat...
I mean despite bi$hes being vast you still hooked up with one...
You really dont value your peace of mind..

As a guy never go Into relationship with any naija fema!l..
Flirt and move on...
If you dont see fornication as a sin,dig the pussay and move on... No hard feelings shii..

Accept me SIMPathy bro..

You can never underestimate the power of an ex. Some ex are so irresistible, you can't help but wish they were yours. I'll advice you just stop going through her phone because you'll always get hurt eventually.

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Your story just took me down the memory lane...!! I had the same encounter, But in my case, after I saw the nonsense chat she normally had with other guys that ended my SIMPle lifestyle...!! The worst part of it all was that, I confronted her in the morning and babe boldly looked into my eyes and told me...

"(we ain't married, I'm not her husband, I'm not her father that will direct the way she live her life, I don't pay her salary, she owes me nothing, that it's her body and she's free to give whomever and however she wants)" I just looked up and whispered to myself "Na me Bleep up"

This was the same girl I was playing the role of a husband in her life...After critical thinking, I found out what she said in parenthesis was the unapologetical truth and nothing more...

OP, it's quite painful tho, but move on and never look back

Spying on one's partners phone is just one of the quick way to get hypertension

This your write-up is so poor.

No paragraphs, poor punctuation marks and no space in between. Nawa oo.

Well, Nobody is above breakfast. You can be served breakfast even at night.

Mr man, stitch your heart together and move on. Better days ahead.

Ouch...

Story that touches the heart..take heart bro..

As For those of you saying. 'privacy this,privacy that'
Don't investigate when you have a reason to, wait till the when the shock causes you emotional damage beyond repair..

It will be like high tension wire electrical shock

Jennyclay:
This your write-up is so poor.

No paragraphs, poor punctuation marks and no space in between. Nawa oo.

Well, Nobody is above breakfast. You can be served breakfast even at night.

Mr man, stitch your heart together and move on. Better days ahead.

Professor of English and Literature. Please help us edit the thread.

Honestly speaking, i am the kind of guy that don't like looking or spying on my partner's phone and i hate seeing my partner looking or spying on mine too.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Nna ehh,I no talk make you take care of your girl,but the way you SIMP spend money deh make Dem look you as mumu,op I wan tell you something, The thing's you supposed give OUR serious girlfriend is something you fit loose,if you want to spend on a girl, spend on your jr sisters if you have one,,,

There are so many signs out there to know if a nigerian girl really loves you, but NO una nor wan learn.

Clearly, this girl nor want you, and will keep on frustrating you in the nearest future.

Tell her it's over, that you can't take it anymore. Make peace de your life.

Nor let shirt wear you this February.

To be honest, I'm sure that if a partner is 100% honest about everything, then the other person won't even think about spying on the phone or something like that. Of course, what you did was wrong as well, but you weren't paranoid about something being wrong, and otherwise, you'd stay in a toxic relationship. Now I think you should try to forget her and move on. You can try websites like https://omeglebrazil.com/en to find someone else, but first of all, you need to get over her.

Up till this moment , she’s still living in your house

Sorry oo

Your a mumu man

I have never used the word "Simp" on any nigga here, but damn here is one But remember there is always a room for improvement....Relationship this days aint for the weak

Bro if you like buy heaven and earth for woman she will still cheat so please best advice just walk away. Be a man and not a woman.if she love you she will beg you but she done see you finish so now bro tell her to go back to her ex And never sex her again or eat her food again . . bro that girl can poison you be mature and man enough start giving her attitude. If she refuse to go then send her out call her parents tell them directly that she is cheating and you dont want her any more .

I bet you bro in some month she will call you back but be smart because she will regret her decisions for cheating

The hoes are not loyal
Na waything them go chop and relax them they find

Start arranging to send her sway from your house
You cant continue feed and caring for a cheating hoe / bitch


All this ladies i don't know why they like fucking there ex
They are confused

Just move on bro

Slynation:
Your story just took me down the memory lane...!! I had the same encounter, But in my case, after I saw the nonsense chat she normally had with other guys that ended my SIMPle lifestyle...!! The worst part of it all was that, I confronted her in the morning and babe boldly looked into my eyes and told me...

"(we ain't married, I'm not her husband, I'm not her father that will direct the way she live her life, I don't pay her salary, she owes me nothing, that it's her body and she's free to give whomever and however she wants)" I just looked up and whispered to myself "Na me Bleep up"

This was the same girl I was playing the role of a husband in her life...After critical thinking, I found out what she said in parenthesis was the unapologetical truth and nothing more...

OP, it's quite painful tho, but move on and never look back

Finish the story na.. How u take pursue her

valdes00:

Finish the story na.. How u take pursue her

Lol...you know ladies naw, they will always come back to their senses when they realize they are missing something they are supposed to be getting from you...

She came to my crib apologizing with crocodile tears after I ignored her and her calls for almost a week, but ain't buying any of that, that word has kept on ringing in my head ever since, it automatically cleared whatever feelings I had for her...

Once shagged, can always be re-shagged.
OP listen to Chris Brown's Loyal

Educonomist:
Once shagged, can always be re-shagged.
OP listen to Chris Brown's Loyal

Thanks very much bro..,she’s been giving me attitude since yesterday and I’m also giving her the same energy she’s giving me.

Slynation:
Your story just took me down the memory lane...!! I had the same encounter, But in my case, after I saw the nonsense chat she normally had with other guys that ended my SIMPle lifestyle...!! The worst part of it all was that, I confronted her in the morning and babe boldly looked into my eyes and told me...

"(we ain't married, I'm not her husband, I'm not her father that will direct the way she live her life, I don't pay her salary, she owes me nothing, that it's her body and she's free to give whomever and however she wants)" I just looked up and whispered to myself "Na me Bleep up"

This was the same girl I was playing the role of a husband in her life...After critical thinking, I found out what she said in parenthesis was the unapologetical truth and nothing more...

OP, it's quite painful tho, but move on and never look back

Some ladies get mind sha..

Slynation:
Lol...you know ladies naw, they will always come back to their senses when they realize they are missing something they are supposed to be getting from you...

She came to my crib apologizing with crocodile tears after I ignored her and her calls for almost a week, but ain't buying any of that, that word has kept on ringing in my head ever since, it automatically cleared whatever feelings I had for her...

;Dbadoo

Eiyaaaar.. Kpele..
Surely, you'll get over it, it's just a matter of time.

Medianna:


Some ladies get mind sha..

E shock me...

Jennyclay:
This your write-up is so poor.

No paragraphs, poor punctuation marks and no space in between. Nawa oo.

Well, Nobody is above breakfast. You can be served breakfast even at night.

Mr man, stitch your heart together and move on. Better days ahead.

What he wrote is clearly understood by all. He is not in the right frame of mind. You can edit for him as you be Prof of English language