Good evening house, need your opinion concerning something that just happened to me yesterday.

This is the thing, there is this young lady who happened to be my colleague at work, not the same office though. I can say we had only spoken once.

She walked to my seat posing like she would tell me something in the ear only for her to kiss my cheek with a smile on her face then walked away.

Other people were around but I guess none noticed. It was weird because nobody had boldly flirted on me like she did.

Please i don't want to just jump into escapades with her, rather I want to know the whys behind her action and what I should do.

Thanks you.

Stop acting like a kid pls..it's embarrassing..a lady kissing you doesn't mean she's into you..
Is this the first time a lady walked up to you and kissed you..it's very normal..

Just greetings nothing else..

Bros you don't need a crystal ball to tell you she's cheap and wants a casual affair with you. But play your cards well and manipulate the situation to favor you in the long-run . Just remember that because she kissed you now , doesn't mean she can't kiss someone else in the near future

Ammishaddai:
Bros she's cheap and wants a casual affair with you. But play your cards well and manipulate the situation to favor you on the long-run . Just remember that just because she kissed you now , doesn't mean she can kiss another in the future

You need to grow up pls..
Just stop feeding from your mom's pot so you will understand life pls..

Ammishaddai:
Bros you don't need a crystal ball to tell you she's cheap and wants a casual affair with you. But play your cards well and manipulate the situation to favor you on the long-run . Just remember that just because she kissed you now , doesn't mean she can kiss another in the future

Nigeria men are so complicated. If you meet hardened ladies now, you men! Would still insult them. Girl was just being flirty, she isn't cheap.

OP Dear, nothing bad. She likes you. Don't take the advice of Redpillers and frustrated men here, many wish to be in your shoes but their ugly faces and stinking attitude towards ladies both offline and online won't let them get an hand-shake from a Lady .

But if you don't like it, talk to her, Is your choice.

Bros op, we all know what your plans are you just want our validation, but OYO is your case

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FERNANDEZISBACK:

You need to grow up pls..
Just stop feeding from your mom's pot so you will understand life pls..

[/s] Only people with sense are allowed to quote me

Ammishaddai:
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And only intelligent people are allowed to comment here not kids that haven't started life pls..

That's sexual harassment, report her to HR Immidiately. Don't tolerate this abusive nonsense.

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FERNANDEZISBACK:

And only intelligent people are allowed to comment here not kids that haven't started life pls..

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Ammishaddai:
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That's how I roll..pls do cancel this so I am gonna end this here..
Happy cancellation in advance baby boy..grow up...get matured and stop feeding from momma's pot..

do what your mind is telling you..If you succeed,bravo...if you fail..sorry...bear the consequences..in this part of the world we barely use a kiss to the cheek for pleasantries..but I advise,you take it as normal or stop her...office romance doesn't always end well ..face your work o...work scarce and bills many ..good luck

FERNANDEZISBACK:

You need to grow up pls..
Just stop feeding from your mom's pot so you will understand life pls..

You need to grow up. This is sexual harassment in an office.
If a man does thesame he will be termed a freak.
I wonder why the guy no report am. This men need to have values for themselves.

soundOsonic:

You need to grow up. This is sexual harassment in an office.
If a man does thesame he will be termed a freak.
I wonder why the guy no report am. This men need to have values for themselves.

Then he should if he wants to..like I care.. haha
Quote him not me.. report that's his life not mine...
I dropped my comment already so what? none of my business.
Look how he said it like I give a hoot.. I don't..

As e dey hot.

E fit be truth or dare. But I doubt if adults still do that stuff
U can approach her and ask why she did it. If she denies doing it for any particular reason,insist that u want an answer but only do that ONCE,u don't want to sound too desperate while trying to seek an answer. If she still denies doing it for a particular reason,my broda face ur work. Still be observing her sha u may not necessarily cut her off cus she didn't really do anything to offend u. But still dey observe her with corner eye

Redpillers will be like come off it jare. Don't fall for her and I'll be asking myself who then are those ones in my dms asking for my number and location. A good number of them are here on Nland forming rubbish. My sweet broda Biko don't think much,if you love her then go ahead and ask her out but don't bring up the kiss of a thing so it won't look like that's what brought you close. Don't be a redpiller online and a simp offline as majority do here

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Stop acting like a kid pls..it's embarrassing..a lady kissing you doesn't mean she's into you..
Is this the first time a lady walked up to you and kissed you..it's very normal..

Just greetings nothing else..

werey..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

And only intelligent people are allowed to comment here not kids that haven't started life pls..

wow, putting the kid to order

Deborah98:
Redpillers will be like come off it jare. Don't fall for her and I'll be asking myself who then are those ones in my dms asking for my number and location. A good number of them are here on Nland forming rubbish. My sweet broda Biko don't think much,if you love her then go ahead and ask her out but don't bring up the kiss of a thing so it won't look like that's what brought you close. Don't be a redpiller online and a simp offline as majority do here

True redpillers are the minority, so of course guys would be in your DM tbose simps who are the majority, the minority redpillers are trying to emancipate those in your DM from SIMPlicity!!!
Please call out any "redpillers" preaching redpill and simping in your DM, when I mean simping I mean guys doing the most for your attention, because it's not a crime for a guy to be in your DM, redpillers don't hate women.

Popjoan:
wow, putting the kid to order

You can say that again..

czarr:
werey..

What's that..

I'm sure if the situation was reversed, it could have been termed sexual harassment but you're here asking mumu question... Mtcheeew

You sef kiss her too.

You are asking nairalanders the reasons behind her action as if we were the one that kissed you Op, how old are you?

Office romance most often ends badly.

Run o! Don't joke with your reputation and job.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Stop acting like a kid pls..it's embarrassing..a lady kissing you doesn't mean she's into you..
Is this the first time a lady walked up to you and kissed you..it's very normal..

Just greetings nothing else..

Dummy he never say the woman is into him, he just ask what was the meaning of what she did. It's a simple question but you're talking another thing

This is very common to me, i got kises from different ladies i don't converse with, walk up to her, flirt with her x20 of what she did to you, atleast that's what in your mind, don't be a simp with low confidence

Qatar2022:

Dummy he never say the woman is into him, he just ask what was the meaning of what she did. It's a simple question but you're talking another thing

Ok

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What's that..

It means you're mad. Maybe, he's right

omolasho:
Good evening house, need your opinion concerning something that just happened to me yesterday. This is the thing, there is this young lady who happened to be my colleague at work, not the same office though. I can say we had only spoken once. She walked to my seat posing like she would tell me something in the ear only for her to kiss my check with a smile on her face then walked away. Other people were around but I guess none noticed. It was weird because nobody had boldly flirted on me like she did. Please i don't want to just jump into escapades with her, rather I want to know the whys behind her action and I what i should do. Thanks you.

I think it's a very nice green light sign...

I had similar experience...she was a friend tho ..

She just sat on my leg and looked right in to my eyes ..and gave me nice 4sec Paris kiss...

I was like wtf

I understood immediately...

If you like her, talk to her

omolasho:
rather I want to know the whys behind her action and I what i should do. Thanks you.

So you're asking us because na we kiss you for cheek?