nkemdi89:
I agree with him, my family in the past has ruined most of my relationship, it's better to keep it secret, even when it fails you move on .

Please share your story so that we can learn.

NewSoul:

Keep quiet and rest joor.. busybody

I repeat do you want to get banned?
Break any rule here and watch the greatest suprise happen to you..

True. I agree with you, sir.

Mynd44:
Wait, are you not supposed two ask for permission from the parents first?

What kind of thing is this?

Ask for permission from her parents to date a lady? Did you ask for permission from your girlfriend's parents (that's if you have any) before you started dating her?

teeste:
Pastor , stop confusing them.
If a man is asking you out, inform your parents. Pray about it, if okay, tell him to come with his folks to see your parents. That's how to go about it!

Pray about what? Why introduce him to your parents when he hasn't even decided if he wants to walk you down the aisle yet?

NewSoul:

Keep quiet and rest joor.. busybody

Her own too much

Secrecy is best my dear..some families think there opinion really count

nkemdi89:
I agree with him, my family in the past has ruined most of my relationship, it's better to keep it secret, even when it fails you move on .

People should not buy into this kind of nonsense advise, this is because I never proposed to my girlfriend of ten years before we got married in 2021

Mynd44:
Wait, are you not supposed two ask for permission from the parents first?

What kind of thing is this?

You don't need the permission to propose. The proposal is the act of making an intention to marry a lady known to her in expectation that she will either accept or turn the intention down and as such, it should be between you and the girl. Why taking a man who has not said he wants to marry you to your parents?

pesuwe:
People should not buy into this kind of nonsense advise, this is because I never proposed to my girlfriend of ten years before we got married in 2021

Obviously you don't understand the word, propose when it comes to marriage. Proposal doesn't has to come with ring or happen at a particular spot.
What you just said is, you never told your wife that you were going to marry her. Please tell us what you told her

UyaiIncomparabl:


Pray about what? Why introduce him to your parents when he hasn't even decided if he wants to walk you down the aisle yet?

Why did you ask her out in the first place? To be fornicating

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Mynd44 don't mind these brainwashed religious folks..that statement makes no sense to be sincere..
This man is just another pastor trying to cage and brainwash more gullible persons..

you are the gullible fooool. What that clergy man has said is the bitter truth. Just that you are one of those who for no reason take delight in abusing clergymen. Riffraff

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Mynd44 don't mind these brainwashed religious folks..that statement makes no sense to be sincere..
This man is just another pastor trying to cage and brainwash more gullible persons..

Simple check on Google would have given you the meaning of propose and that would have save you from this embarrassing post of yours.
The man is 100% correct. Since you don't understand the word propose, let me tell you in simple language what the man said.
Stop introducing people who have not make their intention to marry you to your parents. Simple as that. Propose in relationship means, telling a woman that you intend to spend the rest of your life with her.

In otherwords, ladies keep your options open till someone asks you to marry him

alizma:

You don't need the permission to propose. The proposal is the act of making an intention to marry a lady known to her in expectation that she will either accept or turn the intention down and as such, it should be between you and the girl. Why taking a man who has not said he wants to marry you to your parents?

Good question!

teeste:


Why did you ask her out in the first place? To be fornicating

Direct that question to your MOD.

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Pastor, you dey advise the person wey don dey live for him house tey-tey!
Many od of them believe as he dey kpansh them, he go talk one day

That's why they in the house of 3rd guy, 2 years running.

TroubleMaker47:
In otherwords, ladies keep your options open till someone asks you to marry him

Yes. And that's how it should be.

how, but it is the first step to getting be committed

Someone was banned for saying "ode" I'm sure you know the difference between ode and òdé

An ode is a type of lyrical stanza. It is an elaborately structured poem praising or glorifying an event or individual, describing nature intellectually as well as emotionally.

Olodo moderator

Fernadezisback call the simp you told to ban me let me school his ass

UyaiIncomparabl:


Direct that question to your MOD.

No, direct it to your useless mother. Or just show her my post

He's saying the true oo cos E GET WHY ���

As long as you are not sleeping with anybody, you can have as many dates as you have time for.

Feel free.
Meet people.. interact.. make friends.
Keep your boundary.
A serious man will propose and meet your parents.

TroubleMaker47:
In otherwords, ladies keep your options open till someone asks you to marry him

Yes, that's what it should be.

The man also.. until he asks a lady to marry him

I agree. Don't do it. Unless you are Motunde

pesuwe:
People should not buy into this kind of nonsense advise, this is because I never proposed to my girlfriend of ten years before we got married in 2021

So how did you marry her?

Proposal means telling a lady you want to marry her.
It doesn't mean the drama of getting down on one knee and giving her a ring.

Proposal is by word of mouth.
There is no marriage without proposal.