Ahmed0336:
We wish you the best in your future endeavors.

Deborah98:
Which means all your investments is for her child. Reminds me of a single father of two coming for my hand in marriage one certain time,men and women I no gree ooo,I can't finish what I don't like that's just me. The man is okay financially and he even promised to help me complete my education na run I run seriously. These single parents to me are unknown traps hidden from our eyes maybe because of what we think they can offer. A good number of them are selfish while we still have the sincere ones. I will advise you seek counsel from old and wise people,study her more and find out what prompts those statements. If it be her ex milked her dry and left her and the child with nothing hence the statements. It's okay to care for your child but not at the detriment of someone's sweat, investments and time. Good luck.

thorpido:
So you can't simply understand what she means?
Once beaten,twice shy they say.She's still hurt from her former relationship and doesn't (at least for now) have any deep interest in men.She probably wants companionship and money but that is all.

thorpido:
So you can't simply understand what she means?
Once beaten,twice shy they say.She's still hurt from her former relationship and doesn't (at least for now) have any deep interest in men.She probably wants companionship and money but that is all.

Phoneworld:

Thanks so much, but she do hind stuff from me, I came with a clean heat, i feel her ex must have done her bad things she may not want to disclose

Deborah98:
Women are emotional being and so whatever they do,they attach feelings and emotions to it..she might have been severally heartbroken and hurt by her past relationship that she fears opening up to you for fear of losing you. Well learn to be more like a brother than a friend to her. Take her on a date and calmly demand answers for things she does which are unclear to you. Talk with love and empathy. She will open up to you with time, don't let it bother you much.

Phoneworld:


That means she is not bring love or relationship to her table??

Richy4:
It means u are there to provide sex and warmth... She doesn't care about you as u think... It is a self explanatory handwriting on the wall...

Phoneworld:

Alright..

Phoneworld:
Please no insult

My name is joe and for a very long time, I always have feeling for mature single mum because of the rate of maturity they bring out in a relationship is very high and they are very lovely to be with, they are the definition of rest of mind, but the only part of them I fear is the anger side, currently am dating a single mum who I love so much but anytime she get angry, she always use this statement ''I don't want to marry any man, married is not my problem all I want is to take care of my me and my child'', her child is not the problem but this word.

Pls my lovely ladies in the house in need to know the meaning of this when it come to the woman side and how can it affect me in future, because u know that marriage na forever thing oh, I hope am not making any mistake

Dkdavon:


What it means is that no matter what you bring to the table mostly negative like man usually do she is emotionally strong to withstand it.not that she does not like u or love but she is prepared for the worst

Richy4:

Sorry buddy.. if that was not the kind of answer u were looking for.. I might be wrong in your case though.....

But based on what u have written anyone who is not in love with your lady can that clearly read it....

LilMissFavvy:
Oga end that relationship if she's not ready to get to love and understand you . The statement is pure nonsense*.

Phoneworld:
Please no insult

My name is joe and for a very long time, I always have feeling for mature single mum because of the rate of maturity they bring out in a relationship is very high and they are very lovely to be with, they are the definition of rest of mind, but the only part of them I fear is the anger side, currently am dating a single mum who I love so much but anytime she get angry, she always use this statement ''I don't want to marry any man, married is not my problem all I want is to take care of my me and my child'', her child is not the problem but this word.

Pls my lovely ladies in the house in need to know the meaning of this when it come to the woman side and how can it affect me in future, because u know that marriage na forever thing oh, I hope am not making any mistake

Phoneworld:


Maybe she is afraid

Phoneworld:
but anytime she get angry, she always use this statement ''I don't want to marry any man, married is not my problem all I want is to take care of my me and my child'', her child is not the problem but this word.

frozen70:


Most single ladies do have mood swing and it can trigger up any time

If all she wants is to take care of she and her child, then you are at lost

Be sure of the love you share together before committing yourself into it

She too will bear child for you so there is no need for her to be repeating that statement

Just seat her down and tell her how you hate that statement

Phoneworld:


If I tell I hate that statement, she may turn it to another thing...

frozen70:


OK, so you are scared of talking to her about things you don't like

How am I sure you can take charge of this relationship in a cordial way

Phoneworld:


Maybe, I am over expressing this love to her or maybe it does what it

frozen70:


Anyway good luck

frozen70:


Anyway good luck