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Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 9:06am On Mar 01, 2022
I know This will come of but am tired and frustrated, am not a weakling but my greatest mistake was to marry someone who is huge and bigger in size and strength than me. am a lanky dude edging towards my 40s, any small quarrels we had at home she use her strength to overpower me.. flogging me with my belt I used on my trousers and pressing me to the ground...I have tried several times to make her cry when the altercation leads to fight..but I can't she always overpowers me..all the people in the community nw is aware of it.
I might hit her once, she hit me twice.
Just a little words, she start cursing me out loud.

She even boast out loud to neighbors that she will wound me nothing I will do. I feel suicidal because of this, my families are ashamed of me, mediating in our affairs. The way she disrespect me in front of everyone is alarming.
I Know this will lead to several abuses here online, no worries but I really need help on how to curtain this situation.

The little money I earn can't satisfy her or her needs, she keeps on comparing me with other men.

We have 2 kids together, have thought about divorcing her several times, but the mental effects this has gotten on me is painful.


The insults you think you have crafted for me won't have any effects, because am seen worst from neighbors who knew about this my situation. Advice on what to do will be much appreciated

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Totilopussylick(m): 9:06am On Mar 01, 2022
Carry your cross

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by ayubaski: 9:10am On Mar 01, 2022
cheesy grin grin

Totilopussylick:
Carry your cross

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by vibre: 9:10am On Mar 01, 2022
You don't need help my friend, keep quiet and enjoy your marriage.
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Jeon(f): 9:14am On Mar 01, 2022
Totilopussylick:
Carry your cross

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by libertyfather(m): 9:15am On Mar 01, 2022
Google on how to be a good boxer, i think that will help

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by pyyxxaro: 9:17am On Mar 01, 2022
As Buhari lanky , Aisha nor bold slap am ... because buhari go give am DDT instantly


You are a kpormor man

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Ahmed0336(m): 9:18am On Mar 01, 2022
angry
Your.Monica says you are a barrister. Sue her for harassment, emotional torture, manhandling and vawulence. From there divorce her tongue

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Shalommy(f): 9:18am On Mar 01, 2022
Chaiii... Guy, endure.
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 01, 2022
pyyxxaro:
As Buhari lanky , Aisha nor bold slap am ... because buhari go give am DDT instantly


You are a kpormor man
yes your right, I have my flaws.
Am not buhari or tinubu
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Patented: 9:21am On Mar 01, 2022
Barrister026:
I know This will come of but am tired and frustrated, am not a weakling but my greatest mistake was to marry someone who is huge and bigger in size and strength than me. am a lanky dude edging towards my 40s, any small quarrels we had at home she use her strength to overpower me.. flogging me with my belt I used on my trousers and pressing me to the ground...I have tried several times to make her cry when the altercation leads to fight..but I can't she always overpowers me..all the people in the community nw is aware of it.
I might hit her once, she hit me twice.
Just a little words, she start cursing me out loud.

She even boast out loud to neighbors that she will wound me nothing I will do. I feel suicidal because of this, my families are ashamed of me, mediating in our affairs. The way she disrespect me in front of everyone is alarming.
I Know this will lead to several abuses here online, no worries but I really need help on how to curtain this situation.

We have 2 kids together, have thought about divorcing her several times, but the mental effects this has gotten on me is painful

Na by force to stay married?

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Richy4(m): 9:26am On Mar 01, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy
OP what is coming for you on this thread you created is getting ready.... U look up, look down.. Na Nairaland u remembered to post this kin article. just pray it doesn't get to front page.. smiley

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Kharol1234: 9:26am On Mar 01, 2022
And you be Mr barrister lawyer

Truly carry your cross
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Timoleon(m): 9:27am On Mar 01, 2022
Sey make we mobilize boys to come epp you beat am?

Maybe you should stop disobeying her and start doing as you are told since na she marry you and no be you marry am.



All these fictitious stories you all put up here, Na to Dey give una leftist answer remain.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by donbachi(m): 9:29am On Mar 01, 2022
Wife's beatens no kill u.i pray the insults from here no go kill u.

Bro,for the sake of those.whose destinies are tied to urs.abeg,leave dat marriage.if u die dia..those people own done end.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by donbachi(m): 9:31am On Mar 01, 2022
Barrister026:
yes your right, I have my flaws.
Am not buhari or tinubu
touched.
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Galaxydon1(m): 9:34am On Mar 01, 2022
Go and make money, that's the only solution.
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 01, 2022
Galaxydon1:
Go and make money, that's the only solution.
yes, that's exactly my problem.
The little I have, can't satisfy her or her needs
Hence the comparing and quarreling from little issues will turn to physical abuse

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Truvelisback(m): 9:45am On Mar 01, 2022
Ur wife na Shyna Braszler.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Dbrawllm0098(f): 12:07pm On Mar 01, 2022
Sounds like a lot of fun.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by mardis: 12:08pm On Mar 01, 2022
I am just trying to imagine how she uses belt to beat you, like seriously? She beats you like a kid damn! You're really a swegbe.
My advice, since you don't divorce, then hit the gym and take it religiously. Build up, put yourself together and be a MAN. You even have kids. I wonder how the kids will be looking at you been beating by your wife.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by faithfull18(f): 12:13pm On Mar 01, 2022
cheesy grin is this for real?

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Pascopele: 1:14pm On Mar 01, 2022
You should stop doing what will make her flogging you grin Respect your madam and be a good boy.

What other advise do you think we can offer you than to beat her next time?

You don’t necessarily have to give her punches and dislocate her jaw.

Next time She starts the rubbish, pin her down, hold her two hands and use slaps to finish her butt. Beat her like a little kid.
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by ahnie: 1:37pm On Mar 01, 2022
Lol

Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Belafonte(m): 1:39pm On Mar 01, 2022
You have two options:

1. Fight her like a man. With punches to her face
2. Divorce her

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Belafonte(m): 1:40pm On Mar 01, 2022
Barrister026:
yes, that's exactly my problem.
The little I have, can't satisfy her or her needs
Hence the comparing and quarreling from little issues will turn to physical abuse

You're going to win a Darwin award very soon. Continue
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 1:49pm On Mar 01, 2022
Wahala
Dis one pass me
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 2:38pm On Mar 01, 2022
If it was a woman who wrote this story, I'm willing to bet that, almost everyone here will insult and the man, we'll call him "beast", "animal" and other brutally nasty names, but now it's the man facing the abuse, we're taking it lightly undecided....

OP...
Sue that woman to court and divorce her asap...
If she becomes physically abusive again, make sure you defend yourself and in the process, give her the beatings of her life undecided...

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Pauladex(m): 2:45pm On Mar 01, 2022
You should endure for the sake of your children. Try to find out what provoke her and try to avoid it biko

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Spherical77(m): 3:13pm On Mar 01, 2022
Please endure your marriage for the sake of your children. Pray fervently for a change of heart. May God restore your marriage
Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Mariangeles(f): 3:26pm On Mar 01, 2022
Barrister026:
yes, that's exactly my problem.
The little I have, can't satisfy her or her needs
Hence the comparing and quarreling from little issues will turn to physical abuse

Money is not the problem. At least, not the major problem.
The problem is your wife is a bully, and she neither respects nor value you as her husband.
Nobody belittles what they value.

How do you solve it? It is up to you.

Nobody needs to tell even a maid how to save herself from her wicked madam.

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Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 01, 2022
undecided

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