I had a little misunderstanding with my wife over gift I bought for her. She blocked me both on call and WhatsApp. Some crazy things have been running through my mind. I'm thinking of the best way to approach the situation.

Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back on her by blocking her permanently. Person were de do first , no de fit do.

Ignatio:
I had a little misunderstanding with my wife over gift I bought for her. She blocked me both on call and WhatsApp. Some crazy things have been running through my mind. I'm thinking of the best way to approach the situation.

Did she tell you she blocked you or the voice in your head told you this?

Rather than blowing the problem out of proportion, why not wait till the situation calms down to talk to her about it?

MadamVanessa:



Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back her by blocking her permanently.

OP don't follow this advice o. I doubt if this poster is married.

Try to resolve this issue amicably

Kobojunkie:
Did she tell you she blocked you or the voice in your head told you this?

I confirmed she did. Used another line to call her and she picked. Both of us are not in the same state as we speak. She's with my parents

How will she communicate with you when you are both not in the same vicinity? Maybe she will unblock you and communicate her message and block you back..lolz just wandering what a childish act is this. Are you sure you didn't marry an underage girl as wife. Marriage should be for two matured people so that they can settle misunderstanding like an adults. Talk her to her direct and make her understand how low she has gone by doing that.

She get mind sha

When last did you spend good money on her?

Try to discuss with her, don't allow the blocking on WhatsApp get in the way.. ok stop communicating with her on social media try to call her as a means of communication.. ok

Goldbw122:
Try to discuss with her, don't allow the blocking on WhatsApp get in the way.. ok stop communicating with her on social media try to call her as a means of communication.. ok

She blocked my line too.

Iyaebe:
When last did you spend good money on her?

so not spending good money on her, should validates her blocking her husband?? You re just a usel€ss clown. You are irritating to this nairaland community already with ur delusional thinking nd comments.

Your wife already has another dick banging her pussy!

No stress yourself. Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back her by blocking her permanently

At the bolded . Follow that advice, man up and take charge

That was a harsh decision on her part.

Let's hear her own side

Uncle Ignatius, please don't follow some childish advice of some people who don't know or understand what marriage is all about. No one is perfect and each of us react to things differently. She is angry and may not have gotten it right by blocking you but trust me, when she is calm, she will unblock you herself and also call you. Please, just laugh over her action, and make light the misunderstanding and get your home back to it's peaceful state. When the dust is settled, call her attention to this blocking issue and let her know it isn't the best. When I was newly married, I usually keep malice with hubby whenever he offends me but now, I don't do such anymore, I told my self recently that I was really childish then.... Maturity is a gradual process in marriage, please, don't permanently block her like some advice... You are the head of the family and God expects you to love your wife as he loves the church. Forgive her in advance please..
... We women dey get scoi scoi for head sometimes. God bless you and grant you more wisdom and patience to sail this married life happily in Jesus name amennnnn

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Iyaebe:
When last did you spend good money on her?

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GoodHardDick:
Your wife already has another dick banging her pussy!

No stress yourself. Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back her by blocking her permanently

At the bolded . Follow that advice, man up and take charge

You don't know what it takes to marry, do you even know the definition of marriage? just listen to your childish advice. Honestly I blame the op for bringing his marital issues here on nairaland for stupid and schizophrenia patient like you to comment.

Op should have seek for a professional counsel somewhere else. Assuming this case was the other way round. I'm sure you would advice the lady to "talk to your husband" "sit him down" "pray for him, he will change" "abi he's spending money on you" "he might be going through alot at work" "bla bla bla"

Back to op: sit your wife down, speak to her in a polite way.. ask her what you did wrong? She might be hoarding alot of things in her mind. I perceive both of you lack communication.

Please talk to her, I'm sure she will open up to you.

ststyreal:
Uncle Ignatius, please don't follow some childish advice of some people who don't know or understand what marriage is all about. No one is perfect and each of us react to things differently. She is angry and may not have gotten it right by blocking you but trust me, when she is calm, she will unblock you herself and also call you. Please, just laugh over her action, and make light the misunderstanding and get your home back to it's peaceful state. When the dust is settled, call her attention to this blocking issue and let her know it isn't the best. When I was newly married, I usually keep malice with hubby whenever he offends me but now, I don't do such anymore, I told my self recently that I was really childish then.... Maturity is a gradual process in marriage, please, don't permanently block her like some advice... You are the head of the family and God expects you to love your wife as he loves the church. Forgive her in advance please..
... We women dey get scoi scoi for head sometimes. God bless you and grant you more wisdom and patience to sail this married life happily in Jesus name amennnnn

Thank you.

Jennyclay:
You don't know what it takes to marry, just listen to your childish advice. Honestly I blame the op for bringing his marital issues here on nairaland for stupid and schizophrenia patient like you to comment.

Op should have seek for a professional counsel somewhere else. Assuming this case was the other way round. I'm sure you would tell the lady that "talk to him" "sit him down" "pray for him, he will change"

I have warned you not to quote me on Nairaland again. And this will be the last time I'm warning you not to ever quote me again on Nairaland

Umu nwanyi sef. Lol

Ignore her for the time being and pretend you’re not hurt. She wants you to beg her small. We women our shakara too much ahn ahn!!

Ignatio:


Thank you.

You are welcome sir.....

MadamVanessa:



Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back her by blocking her permanently.

That's a harsh approach

You don't quench a burning fire with fuel

Jennyclay:
You don't know what it takes to marry, do you even know the definition of marriage? just listen to your childish advice. Honestly I blame the op for bringing his marital issues here on nairaland for stupid and schizophrenia patient like you to comment.

Op should have seek for a professional counsel somewhere else. Assuming this case was the other way round. I'm sure you would tell the lady that "talk to him" "sit him down" "pray for him, he will change"

Back to op: sit your wife down, speak to her in a polite way.. ask her what you did wrong? She might be hoarding alot of things in her mind. I perceive both of you lack communication.

Please talk to her, I'm sure she will open up to you.

Exactly ❗

MadamVanessa:



Act so unconcern, don't act as if it bothers you at all. And when she finally unblock you, then get back her by blocking her permanently.

Don't you have sense? We're talking about marriage here and not boyfriend/girlfriend stuff.

Is this the only "mature" advice you could think of?

Respect yourself!!!

Iyaebe:
When last did you spend good money on her?

Either u are just catch cruise or u are just one useless entity in real life, so choose your poison well.
Back to d topic, if your wife get mind block u from reaching her whole she is still with your parents, I wonder what she would do when she start making her own money. That's one thing about begging a woman to marry u, when u beg woman that's what u get.
We have too many men in boys skin this day, why are they deviating from d real men we used to know back in d days.
Everywhere I go still same story in different way. Also, too many soft men in boys skin is alarming,

emmanuelbrown26:

Either u are just catch cruise or u are just one useless entity in real life, so choose your poison well.
Back to d topic, if your wife get mind block u from reaching her whole she is still with your parents, I wonder what she would do when she start making her own money. That's one thing about begging a woman to marry u, when u beg woman that's what u get.
We have too many men in boys skin this day, why are they deviating from d real men we used to know back in d days.
Everywhere I go still same story in different way. Also, too many soft men in boys skin is alarming,

Dont talk to me anyhow,I’m a virgin and if I curse you it will follow you

Iyaebe:
Dont talk to me anyhow,I’m a virgin and if I curse you it will follow you

Either u hv decided to be useless in life and on nairaland or u are just caused

She has the sole right to block you. Hope you know??

NobIeKING:
oga shut up, you Dey always talk nonsense as if your brain is missing

Look whose talking!

My fiancé also blocked me on WhatsApp, I use another WhatsApp number text her and it went through. I just deleted her number and unfriend her on my Facebook friend list, it hurt me but with time i will he healed. Today make it a week she blocked me and she’s not picking my call also since that day.