JustforMen:
Yes, I can.
But you made the first claim and therefore, you have the burden of proof.
CAN YOU PROVE THAT GOD DOES NO EXIST? Provide your proof right here.

I will how ever present very simple arguments for the existence of a higher intelligence whose attributes are associated with God.
But first let me listen to the proof of your claim that GOD DOES NO EXIST.

the existence of satan is a fall out of the belief in God.

Friend, this doesn't work by argument: except you just want a proper way to waste time.

It is written: Faith comes by hearing, and hearing is by the word of God. And Jesus said:

John.6.37 - All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.

ngwababe:



Story.

See them! Present day women.

richie240:

Brah, I dey tork about marriage as a whole biko!
We claim to be followers of d master but due to d sweetness of d flesh we tend to rationalize d master's commandment!

From d Master's response to d diciples' comment in d scripture i just showed u, does it sound as if The Master was pro-marriage? ~~ matt 19 vs 10 and 11~~
Nor be d parzin wey wan marry in d first place dey do courtship?
Shuo!

We talking marriage here brah, not any other kind of relationship.
Abeg nor let us mix sand with salt biko!

I'll reiterate:
If u want to eat 'meat' go ahead biko as its no sin (just be ready to face d consequences like d op), but he who abstains from that 'meat' is wiser!

As far as Jesus Christ is concerned, there are no separate set of rules for the married. It is the same set of commandments that apply as far as every kind of relationship out there is concerned- Do to others as you will like for them to do to you.

So again Anyone in a relationship, be it marriage or not, ought to use it as an opportunity to learn how to interact as a social animal. It is foolishness to see marriage not as you would any other relationship you get yourself info out there

Learning to respect the thoughts, feelings and life of the individual next to you should start outside of marriage so you can continue to mine from that wisdom should you then find yourself in marriage. If you cannot even do to others as you want for them to do to you, how can you claim to belong to Jesus Christ or expect to live in peace with anyone?

Lolz.... I see say u like quarrel pass fight!
So d relationship BTW u and ur wife is d same as dt BTW u and ur maiguard?
You can fire ur maiguard for d flimsiest of excuses, can u do that with ur wife?

Is d relationship BTW u and ur best friend a "till death do us part" as dt BTW u and ur wife?

This is d more reason divorce rates keep skyrocketing with this kind of mindset when d couples (aka overgrown infants) feel that , to borrow ur words, "marriage is d same as other relationships out there "

Kobojunkie:
As far as Jesus Christ is concerned, there are no separate set of rules for the married. It is the same set of commandments that apply as far as every kind of relationship out there is concerned- Do to others as you will like for them to do to you.

So again Anyone in a relationship, be it marriage or not, ought to use it as an opportunity to learn how to interact as a social animal. It is foolishness to see marriage not as you would any other relationship you get yourself info out there

Poser:
1. When d disciples said "it is good not to marry" what did Jesus say?
Did he dissuade them or supported them on dt line of thot?
2. From ur answer in 1 above, does that show u that Jesus pro-marriage ?
3. If d same person who said love ur neighbour as itself also directly supported those who were against marrying as seen in matt 19 vz 10 and 11 so what's exactly are u dragging biko? What's ur point gan-gan?

All I've bn echoing since 'morning' has bn nothing but Matt 19 v 10 - 12, and nothing more.
These are not my words, but The Master's.
Are u in opposition to matt 19 v 10-12 or u are peeved bcus I echoed The Master?

24brains:
But today it hurts me so much to go back to mama and Say "mama i'm getting divorce"

its not easy, to understand it son, but i hope you made it, you will be happy and blessed.

Lucky Dube of blessed memory ..


Someone I can't do without listening to his songs.

richie240:
Lolz.... I see say u like quarrel pass fight!
So d relationship BTW u and ur wife is d same as dt BTW u and ur maiguard?
You can fire ur maiguard for d flimsiest of excuses, can u do that with ur wife?

Is d relationship BTW u and ur best friend a "till death do us part" as dt BTW u and ur wife?

This is d more reason divorce rates keep skyrocketing with this kind of mindset when d couples (aka overgrown infants) feel that , to borrow ur words, "marriage is d same as other relationships out there "

Poser:
1. When d disciples said "it is good not to marry" what did Jesus say?
Did he dissuade them or supported them on dt line of thot?
2. From ur answer in 1 above, does that show u that Jesus pro-marriage ?
3. If d same person who said love ur neighbour as itself also directly supported those who were against marrying as seen in matt 19 vz 10 and 11 so what's exactly are u dragging biko? What's ur point gan-gan?

All I've bn echoing since 'morning' has bn nothing but Matt 19 v 10 - 12, and nothing more.
These are not my words, but The Master's.
Are u in opposition to matt 19 v 10-12 or u are peeved bcus I echoed The Master?

Again, As far as Jesus Christ is concerned, there are no separate set of rules for the married. It is the same set of commandments that apply as far as every kind of relationship out there is concerned- Do to others as you will like for them to do to you.

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

What exactly does she wants from you

Why not seat her down and have a heart to heart discussion with her

Because its too early for that kind of negative behavior

anu3:


Friend, this doesn't work by argument: except you just want a proper way to waste time.

It is written: Faith comes by hearing, and hearing is by the word of God. And Jesus said:

John.6.37 - All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.

Thanks alot! I appreciate your input.
But if he doesn't believe the Bible then the discussion ends there.
By the grace of God, there are objective philosophical and scientific arguments that dispel the nonsensical arguments they bring up to appear smart.
Unfortunately, they attribute their unbelief to knowledge. That is why they feel smart by affirming that there is no God.

My bloda, tnx 4 d dialogue, e be like say we done dey argue two totally different tinz altogether. Its not even a matter of looking at a coin from either side. We are on separate spectra!

Every mallam to hin kettle!

Kobojunkie:
Again, As far as Jesus Christ is concerned, there are no separate set of rules for the married. It is the same set of commandments that apply as far as every kind of relationship out there is concerned- Do to others as you will like for them to do to you.

Mexyz:
Lucky Dube of blessed memory ..


Someone I can't do without listening to his songs.

i respect the man alot. May his soul rest in peace.

My advice to you is to continue like everything is normal. Don’t react aggressively or violently like some small boys are advising you here.

Rather than Re-act, just act as a normal human, with empathy and compassion for human misbehavior. Concerning anything she does, Don’t complain. Just ignore it, without acrimony. Try this for a few days. She how she behaves.

gasparpisciotta:


Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

You said what is in my mind. In addition, help her to pack her clothes outside and change your key when she is not around. Tell her to give you some space that you need to clear your head.

Once you do the above, you will gain the full attention of her family members and they will talk smese into her head. Believe me, she will become more patient than you and will avoid any trouble.

gasparpisciotta:


Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

You said what is in my mind. In addition, help her to pack her clothes outside and change your key when she is not around. Tell her to give you some space that you need to clear your head.

Once you do the above, you will gain the full attention of her family members and they will talk sense into her head. Believe me, she will become more patient than you and will avoid any trouble.

just have sex with her more regularly

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

She will definitely change, its just a matter of time... It happened to me... Marriage is alot of patience, to leave your parent house and be with a man is not easy, if she has siblings she might be missing them and feels like going back home, allow her visit her home once a while, she will get over it.. Dnt fight her please.

That was not why she changed. You are not the man she wanted to marry. You are the man she settled for. With time, she realised she had no other choice but to continue managing you. That is why she has calmed down.

You guys should start doing some serious thinking. If she was into you, your first few years of married life would be bliss. She wasn't. She settled for you.

Don't get mad. You are not alone. Majority of women all over the world simply settle as they can't get the type of men they want. Women are aspirational by nature. You will see a women who didn't complete high school and sells akara by the road side. Yet she wants to marry not just a university graduate, but one that carries himself well and looks good. That is the nature of women. Don't take my word. Go and read about Eve, our very first mother. It was aspiration that made her forsake the advice from God (the One who created her and gave her everything), in place of an aspirational desire to know all things.

Pennykeyz:
She will definitely change, its just a matter of time... It happened to me... Marriage is alot of patience, to leave your parent house and be with a man is not easy, if she has siblings she might be missing them and feels like going back home, allow her visit her home once a while, she will get over it.. Dnt fight her please.

You are not the man she wanted to marry. You are the man she settled for. With time, she will leave you in a heart beat if she is fortunate to meet another guy who looks like the sort of man she wants to marry. So there is the hightened possibility that she is going to be unfaithful to you in the course of finding that right man for herself. If she does not find that right man and she probably gives you one or two kids, she may then realise she has no other choice but to continue managing you. That is when she will calm down.

If she was into you, your first few years of married life would be bliss and you wouldn't be on here complaining about such nonesense behavior from a woman let alone a wife. She isn't. She simply settled for you.

Don't get mad. You are not alone. Majority of women all over the world simply settle, as they can't get the type of men they want. Women are aspirational by nature.

You may need to learn to live with the situation. You clealry knew she wasn't into you before you asked her to marry you. Chin up, go about your business and hope you don't come back to an empty house one day. Don't plan your future with her until she decides that she can't find the man of her dreams out there. You will know when that time comes, because that is when she will calm down. But in the meantime,keep your own counsel. You don't want to expend resources planning a common future with a wife who will most probably take everything and leave you later. When she calms down, then you can start planning a commong future together. Right now, plan your own future.

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

Stop drinking the cool aid given to you by that Bible illiterate you call your "Man of god". There is no where in the Scriptures that spiritual husbands were mentioned let alone discussed.

He simply isn't the man of her dreams. She just settled and that is why she is showing her uncontrolled displeasure over the issue. A good number of women are able to conceal the fact that the men they married are not the men of their dreams. But this one obviously has an additional character flaw that's not enabling her to control herself.

tiswell:
she has spiritual husband


I kid you not!

AJohnnasa:


See them! Present day women.

That thing him talk na solution?

richie240:
No wonder master Jesus refused to marry.
Did d guy (any man for that matter) complain dt he wants his brain/life reset......least by a woman?
Hian!

That’s why the world is growing with you ending your reply with HIAN.

Everything is nothing and not worth showing off anger

Odiegwu!

Benrosaria:


That’s why the world is growing with you ending your reply with HIAN.

Everything is nothing and not worth showing off anger

richie240:
Odiegwu!

Bros na you speak ibo pass.
Ke kwanu onyishi

Pennykeyz:
She will definitely change, its just a matter of time... It happened to me... Marriage is alot of patience, to leave your parent house and be with a man is not easy, if she has siblings she might be missing them and feels like going back home, allow her visit her home once a while, she will get over it.. Dnt fight her please.

Thanks for your advice.

OmoEsan:

So is this a new character? I always wondered how y'all newly weds come online and complain what your spouse do, like you guys just wake up one morning and decide to get marry, without getting to know yourselves.

Hmm! I said more than you are saying, but now I know better. Human being are dynamic. The person you know today might behave like a total stranger tomorrow. Goodbye!

Philip94:


Hmm! I said more than you are saying, but now I know better. Human being are dynamic. The person you know today might behave like a total stranger tomorrow. Goodbye!

I totally get you. Hope everything has been resolved now?

gasparpisciotta:


Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

Lol... Your brain is well lubricated.

I wanted to type the same advice
too to boycott her food and instead bring food from a restaurant to eat at home. She'll get the message!

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong even though she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

She's trying to control and
manipulate you. Don't let
her do that... But never hit
her if she drives you up the
wall.

Tell her the behavior is causing you pain that could lead to a disgraceful divorce and calmly tell her to tell you her feeling in writen words or verbally.

In a very extreme situation,
boycott her food, and bring food
home from a restaurant. Majestically sit at the dining table and eat to your satisfaction. She'll start getting the message.

Cheers.

Dreytonisback:
Give her a stern warning of her malicious acts
It's a big red flag when your wife keeps malice with you more than 1 day
If it exceeds 2days then you must've hit her, else it mustn't exceed 1 day .

If she still doesn't change, the next time it happens just take few of your clothes and leave the house for her and never respond to her calls for a month , just go to ur friend's place to chill , avoid her food
If she cooks the best soup in the world , avoid it and cook yours period
That one go pain her die, and don't let her use kpekus to scatter your brain, avoid konji .

Lights up my kpoli in peace

hit Kwa??…. Who raised you boy?

Kobojunkie:
Does she have a job and life of her own or does her existence revolve around yours?

Do you yourself take care to show her respect as an equal partner in your marriage or do you think her as a doll you can shove anything at and expect and accept it?

U see, that's the problem. Man and wife concept was never designed as equal partnership. I'm sorry, but as long as this wrong mindset persists, then there'll be more n more divorce cases. We can't go against GOD'S design for marriage and expect it to work, because it won't.

Bola146:
Your marriage is still new for this now Didn't you go through any relationship at all? You ought to be in your honeymoon you saw the signs unless you want to deceive yourself. Sir, know what is causing her sadness and work towards making her happy. You know her better, be praying for her also.

Your questions are ok on a general point of view

In africa most people date while they come respective homes, meaning during dating most people see each other for hours, the most is a week for those in university etc

My point, the true character of a person comes out when u start to live with them, you official play roles and official responsible for each other.

Remember the moment you get married you now atleast spend 12 hours of each day together, different from that weekend visit etc

Rinoxy:
U see, that's the problem. Man and wife concept was never designed as equal partnership. I'm sorry, but as long as this wrong mindset persists, then there'll be more n more divorce cases. We can't go against GOD'S design for marriage and expect it to work, because it won't.

God's design was for equality.... submission in marriage is a curse God placed on marriage when man fell - Genesis 3 vs 16. I suggest you absolve yourself of ignorance before you respond next time, particularly where God and the things of God, is concerned.

Kobojunkie:
God's design was for equality.... submission in marriage is a curse God placed on marriage when man fell - Genesis 3 vs 16. I suggest you absolve yourself of ignorance before you respond next time, particularly where God and the things of God, is concerned.

They resolve to insults when they're incompetent and lowly esteemed. I don't discuss with your lot. Your moniker already shows you have no value on yourself as a living thing.