My Neighbour's 14 Years old Niece Whom was brought from the Village is Quite Respectful and Nice! She goes on Errands without complaining@All.

But her Problem is She does not Joke with anything Sex-related! Once you by Mistake tell a story or Joke containing Sex, She will be all over you for more Details(on the sexual part)!

Recently, I heard her singing Rema's song (Soundgasm) and you need to see how she was 'Chewing' the Lyrics and Singing excitedly with some naughtiness!
It is Crystal Clear that by 2024 or 2025, This Girl might be Collecting 'Rods' Steady!

But I Could not help but Think. WHAT IF I WERE HER ELDER BROTHER OR FATHER.
WOULD I JUST WATCH AND LEAVE HER?

So I am Thinking of Stylishly Advising her to Wait till 20 or 21 Years before she has sex since it is obvious she has a High libido!

SO AS AN ADULT, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE FOR A HOR.NY GIRL?

A) you shouldnt be telling anything remotely sexual (sex related) around a 14 yr old...
B) many of these teens dont know shiiit about the lyrics they sing
C) the way you talk about this girl, i suggest you just stay away from here (as the way you talk about her is VERY VERY suspect!)
D) you speak of her like a predator would speak of their future victims...

Mind your business man. . ,


PERSON THAT WANT TO SPOIL WILL SPOIL. nothing gat to deal with someone lifestyle. . You betta leave her and let her be. . Who are you to advice her what to do with her own life. ? Who your advice has helped. ?

MrBrownJay1:
A) you shouldnt be telling anything remotely sexual (sex related) around a 14 yr old...
B) many of these teens dont know shiiit about the lyrics they sing
C) the way you talk about this girl, i suggest you just stay away from here (as the way you talk about her is VERY VERY suspect!)
D) you speak of her like a predator would speak of their future victims...

Staying away is really cool but if she 'spoils' later and you see her, won't your conscience judge you?

Telling sex related stories to a 14yr old? Are you fr? 14yr old addresses me as bro or sir. How old are you op?

You know too much about this little girl. Be careful

Vinnie2000:
Staying away is really cool but if she 'spoils' later and you see her, won't your conscience judge you?

you mean, that same conscience that has already judged her and thrown away the key? if you really want the best for this child then stop telling sex jokes/talks around her.

Teddy96:
Mind your business man. . ,


PERSON THAT WANT TO SPOIL WILL SPOIL. nothing gat to deal with someone lifestyle. . You betta leave her and let her be. . Who are you to advice her what to do with her own life. ? Who your advice has helped. ?

So when you have a daughter and she has traits like dis Girl i talked about, Would you mind ur Business also?

Vinnie2000:



My Neighbour's 14 Years old Niece Whom was brought from the Village is Quite Respectful and Nice! She goes on Errands without complaining@All.

But her Problem is She does not Joke with anything Sex-related! Once you by Mistake tell a story or Joke containing Sex, She will be all over you for more Details(on the sexual part)!

Recently, I heard her singing Rema's song (Soundgasm) and you need to see how she was 'Chewing' the Lyrics and Singing excitedly with some naughtiness!
It is Crystal Clear that by 2024 or 2025, This Girl might be Collecting 'Rods' Steady!

But I Could not help but Think. WHAT IF I WERE HER ELDER BROTHER OR FATHER.
WOULD I JUST WATCH AND LEAVE HER?

So I am Thinking of Stylishly Advising her to Wait till 20 or 21 Years before she has sex since it is obvious she has a High libido!

SO AS AN ADULT, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE FOR A HOR.NY GIRL?

She's at a very suggestive age and should be getting this from a woman not a dude( except her father)
Just make sure your not the dude who does the unthinkable. Besides that, just pray for her cause anything else you say is going in one ear and out the next one.

You this old man, better remove your eye from that small pikin

We know your type

SmellySperm:
Telling sex related stories to a 14yr old? Are you fr? 14yr old addresses me as bro or sir. How old are you op?

Lol, i am 10yrs. Make una dey try read na. I do not discuss sexual stuff with her. I said 'Mistakenly'.

Vinnie2000:
Lol, i am 10yrs. Make una dey try read na. I do not discuss sexual stuff with her. I said 'Mistakenly'.

Na so u go mistakenly plug your 1 for her 0 one-day then blame devil

That is how they will pretend they want to help then they will "mistakenly" touch her developing breast or kiss her on the lips.

Then they'll start telling her not to mind all this small boys around that they'll be able to take care of her.

They will invite her into their house and lock the door and rub their disgusting sperm on her skirt and threaten her not to tell anyone.

I've dealt with your type many times in this my short life. Nonsense!

Vinnie2000:
So when you have a daughter and she has traits like dis Girl i talked about, Would you mind ur Business also?

MIND YOUR BUSINESS MR MAN. . . After advicing her finish you think she will go with your advice? . . .
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.Think with your head above not below. . .

rickleye:


She's at a very suggestive age and should be getting this from a woman not a dude( except her father)
Just make sure your not the dude who does the unthinkable. Besides that, just pray for her cause anything else you say is going in one ear and out the next one.

Nice comment, Bro! Point's well noted.

AoifeNightfall:


That is how they will pretend they want to help then they will "mistakenly" touch her developing breast or kiss her on the lips.

Then they'll start telling her not to mind all this small boys around that they'll be able to take care of her.

They will invite her into their house and lock the door and rub their disgusting sperm on her skirt and threaten her not to tell anyone.

I've dealt with your type many times in this my short life. Nonsense!

Lol, its how d thread will turn to Gbas Gbos u re finding. But seriously, lets assume you have a daughter, niece or Salesgirl lyk dis, will you just sit and do nothing?

Vinnie2000:
Lol, its how d thread will turn to Gbas Gbos u re finding. But seriously, lets assume you have a daughter, niece or Salesgirl lyk dis, will you just sit and do nothing?

Can't you go through her guardians?

AoifeNightfall:


Can't you go through her guardians?

Now, you are talking. D Guardian is actually a Guy! He might misunderstand everything! Even d advice i am thinking is not meant to be direct. I said stylishly in d post!

Vinnie2000:
Nice comment, Bro! Point's well noted.

I Visited Port-Harcourt during my days at UNILAG . I was about 18 and there were these two girls, the landlord's daughter and her friend about 14/15. I was new and the rumour they were spreading was that I was their boyfriend. These girls tried everything to get me to sleep with them. Dude, I came across a journal i wrote where I was just praying to God for strength. They were just too young and I wanted no part of them. I would bring ladies home and they would try and listen through the doors or make noise and interrupt ( bros, you quiet , everything okay, bros can we finish watching the movie etc) they would giggle with their revealing tops and bumshots. One day I touched the landlord's daughter bosom and she's like bros, you can go deeper, I open for you !.
I quickly withdraw my hand - She was mad. A few weeks later, I get called by the Landlord . As i entered the parlour, I see the daughter on the floor, she had been crying, the mother is saying her life don spoil o. I greeted him, someone slapped me, I fell to one knee. looked around and saw the culprit. As, I stood up to confront the dude, the landlord shouted that's enough - and proceeded to explain why he had asked me to come.
The girl was pregnant and he wanted to know my plans for her daughter. I couldn't laugh because I was still wriggling in pain. ( Apparently, he had heard the rumours and assumed as I was the guilty party) .
I asked the girl as calmly as I could - Am I the one ? - She said no .
I then informed the landlord , when my brother returns, we are leaving this house and you are going to pay back the rent . ( my brother pays 2 years rent in advance plus he's very generous with giving the landlord's wife money. )
I then walked out of his room.
2 days after when my brother returned, the landlord and wife came to apologize and informed me that they had found the culprit and begged that we not leave the house....

rickleye:


I Visited Port-Harcourt during my days at UNILAG . I was about 18 and there were these two girls, the landlord's daughter and her friend about 14/15. I was new and the rumour they were spreading was that I was their boyfriend. These girls tried everything to get me to sleep with them. Dude, I came across a journal i wrote where I was just praying to God for strength. They were just too young and I wanted no part of them. I would bring ladies home and they would try and listen through the doors or make noise and interrupt ( bros, you quiet , everything okay, bros can we finish watching the movie etc) they would giggle with their revealing tops and bumshots. One day I touched the landlord's daughter bosom and she's like bros, you can go deeper, I open for you !.
I quickly withdraw my hand - She was mad. A few weeks later, I get called by the Landlord . As i entered the parlour, I see the daughter on the floor, she had been crying, the mother is saying her life don spoil o. I greeted him, someone slapped me, I fell to one knee. looked around and saw the culprit. As, I stood up to confront the dude, the landlord shouted that's enough - and proceeded to explain why he had asked me to come.
The girl was pregnant and he wanted to know my plans for her daughter. I couldn't laugh because I was still wriggling in pain. ( Apparently, he had heard the rumours and assumed as I was the guilty party) .
I asked the girl as calmly as I could - Am I the one ? - She said no .
I then informed the landlord , when my brother returns, we are leaving this house and you are going to pay back the rent . ( my brother pays 2 years rent in advance plus he's very generous with giving the landlord's wife money. )
I then walked out of his room.
2 days after when my brother returned, the landlord and wife came to apologize and informed me that they had found the culprit and begged that we not leave the house....

Wow your head save you.

I wish Danhumprey was not on this forum, I would have said my mind without fear or favour

I don't get why we demonize sex so much.

It's normal, absolutely normal for a 14 year old girl to be curious about sex.

Teach her sex education.
Tell her to be faithful to a partner when she's of age.
Take her the dangers of unwanted pregnancy especially for poor and average Nigerians.


This is better than telling her that sex is bad.

Vinnie2000:



My Neighbour's 14 Years old Niece Whom was brought from the Village is Quite Respectful and Nice! She goes on Errands without complaining@All.

But her Problem is She does not Joke with anything Sex-related! Once you by Mistake tell a story or Joke containing Sex, She will be all over you for more Details(on the sexual part)!

Recently, I heard her singing Rema's song (Soundgasm) and you need to see how she was 'Chewing' the Lyrics and Singing excitedly with some naughtiness!
It is Crystal Clear that by 2024 or 2025, This Girl might be Collecting 'Rods' Steady!

But I Could not help but Think. WHAT IF I WERE HER ELDER BROTHER OR FATHER.
WOULD I JUST WATCH AND LEAVE HER?

So I am Thinking of Stylishly Advising her to Wait till 20 or 21 Years before she has sex since it is obvious she has a High libido!

SO AS AN ADULT, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE FOR A HOR.NY GIRL?

Get a responsible pretty female who she can look up to to advise her. Before you go and impregnate her, because she might think you have interest and start fantasising over you. Since most guys think with their penis, you will stop seeing her as a child,but a woman from there , lashing will start, from lashing to belle

Vinnie2000:
It is Crystal Clear that by 2024 or 2025, This Girl might be Collecting 'Rods' Steady!

But I Could not help but Think. WHAT IF I WERE HER ELDER BROTHER OR FATHER.
WOULD I JUST WATCH AND LEAVE HER?

So I am Thinking of Stylishly Advising her to Wait till 20 or 21 Years before she has sex since it is obvious she has a High libido!

SO AS AN ADULT, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE FOR A HOR.NY GIRL?

You do research and get her Educated and learned about safe sex practices and also pregnancy prevention methods. Convince her to probably begin also using birth control pills at the current age in order to avoid pregnancy.

As for you, educate your mind on the fact that sex is not a bad or dirty topic at any age. If the gal has high libido and starts early, it is because her hormones and maturity as as aligned. It isn't your place to Judge or condemn her but to teach her any wisdoms you have yourself learnt as an adult to help her better maneuver what is her life and choices.

Vinnie2000:
Staying away is really cool but if she 'spoils' later and you see her, won't your conscience judge you?

What do you mean by "if she spoils later"? Did having sex ruin you as an individual? Is that the conclusion you have drawn from your own personal experience or something?,

If she chooses to explore her sexuality as she chooses, what has that got to do with you and your inane standards where sexuality is concerned?,

Vinnie2000:
So when you have a daughter and she has traits like dis Girl i talked about, Would you mind ur Business also?

What traits are those? You feed her sex stories and then turn around to condemn her for being curious, and you think this is really about the child?,

Karleb:
I don't get why we demonize sex so much.

It's normal, absolutely normal for a 14 year old girl to be curious about sex.

Teach her sex education.
Tell her to be faithful to a partner when she's of age.
Take her the dangers of unwanted pregnancy especially for poor and average Nigerians.


This is better than telling her that sex is bad.

Better comment! More wisdom to you, sir!

Kobojunkie:
What do you mean by "if she spoils later"? Did having sex ruin you as an individual? Is that the conclusion you have drawn from your own personal experience or something?,

If she chooses to explore her sexuality as she chooses, what has that got to do with you and your inane standards where sexuality is concerned?,

Spoils later means having indiscriminate sex in the neighbourhood and having her life probably messed up in the process!

Vinnie2000:
Spoils later means having indiscriminate sex in the neighbourhood and having her life probably messed up in the process!

The best you can do for any child is ensure they are adequately educated on their rights as individuals, and in this case, thoroughly educated as far as safe sex and pregnancy prevention practices and resources available to them in the community. Also, you can warn her against predators out there looking to preying on her gullibility and possible signs to look out for.

If at the end, she decides to go down the rough path, unless a crime is being committed, there isn't much you can do and it isn't your place to judge or condemn her for it. Once she gets into life's class, Life is more than able to teach her who the true master is.

Vinnie2000:



My Neighbour's 14 Years old Niece Whom was brought from the Village is Quite Respectful and Nice! She goes on Errands without complaining@All.

But her Problem is She does not Joke with anything Sex-related! Once you by Mistake tell a story or Joke containing Sex, She will be all over you for more Details(on the sexual part)!

Recently, I heard her singing Rema's song (Soundgasm) and you need to see how she was 'Chewing' the Lyrics and Singing excitedly with some naughtiness!
It is Crystal Clear that by 2024 or 2025, This Girl might be Collecting 'Rods' Steady!

But I Could not help but Think. WHAT IF I WERE HER ELDER BROTHER OR FATHER.
WOULD I JUST WATCH AND LEAVE HER?

So I am Thinking of Stylishly Advising her to Wait till 20 or 21 Years before she has sex since it is obvious she has a High libido!

SO AS AN ADULT, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE FOR A HOR.NY GIRL?

Na which kain advice u wan give her? Girl wey don already dey fvck. Does she look like a Virgin to u? It's not that easy to advice a teenager/girls who is no longer a virgin to abstain from sex.

ITbomb:
I wish Danhumprey was not on this forum, I would have said my mind without fear or favour

SMH.