Well this is my gf , i am not asking for a friend or anyone.. This is a girl that tells me the password of her phone without stress, gone through her Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp and Snapchat.. na me dey tire sef to check , all I do is drop her phone anytime she is asleep because, I no dey see anything like she going out with someone ..

She currently has an accommodation issue here in Abuja, so she went to stay in her friends house. The parents of her friends are oversea but they have a male cousin who stays in one of the rooms in their duplex because job brought him to Abuja and he has been with them for months now pending the time he gets on his feet and gets his own place..

Me and my gf has a misunderstanding last week Saturday , so we did not talk except in the morning, in the afternoon she apologised for her wrongs , which was not something too serious and it wasn't related to infidelity.. although she called to tell me sorry and also sent 2 texts which I forgot to reply cos I was too stressed from work and fell asleep early when I got home.

I woke up around 1am on Sunday morning and realised I did not respond to her messages where she pleaded sorry, I decided to text her up on whatsapp, immediately my text delivered, not up to 2 mins , she replied and the next thing she said was that her friend cousin just left her room, then I asked what is he looking for , although I know he is used to checking up on her anytime she is back from her own work.. then she told me her friend cousin just came to check on her as usual and that she needed someone to talk to but since i wasn't in a good mood with her , she just wanted to gist with someone.. so I said its OK, and we settled the whole misunderstanding..

Later she told me and said she thinks the guy likes her, that he tried to kiss her while she was laying in bed and he sat beside her.. she said the guy moved his lips closer to her and asked her if she knows what he wants to do, and she replied yes that he should not try it.. then she said the guy apologised for trying to kiss her lips and then he left ..

My guts have been having different feelings since that Sunday because she said , she was on a top and just tied towel around her waist when she was laying down and he was beside her.. I tried teasing her to be honest but she said nothing of such happened and that the guy apologised.. she told me not to tell her friend what the guy tried to do , so it won't affect her stay in the house cause it will cause issues.

This is a girl that I have monitored her WhatsApp instagram, and facebook chats for over 6 months and never see her going out or dating someone else.. even she barely text this guy on whatsapp .

[/b]I'm just having mixed feelings tho , Why don't she want me to tell her friend, and could it be they actually kissed and had little romance and I have been wondering why she actually keeps saying she thinks the guy likes her[b] ..

Self Acclaimed alfa males, U can bash as usual, but I just need to hear different opinions

Stop being SIMPathetic man.

The best way to be in charge of any relationship or situation is worry less.., and instead invest more in yourself. Stop the monitoring and overbearing act at once!

ruzell86:
Stop being SIMPathethic man.

sometimes u guys misuse the word SIMP, I don't think anything here is simp matter..

You're so insecure. Even when the girl opened up and tell you even when you did not asked her, that the guy tried kissing her and she refused kissing him, you still stupidly doubt her, that she actually kissed him and lied.

Again, what is so wrong in kissing, is kissing not a form of greeting anymore?

Is either you're too broke or so ugly hence you doubt her loyalty to you. Uselesssss doubters everywhere.


You don't deserve such loyal girl in your life, because I can imagine I Vanessa being kiss by a guy then I report such to my boyfriend.

MadamVanessa:

oya talk

Nothing happened as she said. So cheer up.

I can't trust human, deceit everywhere

Shalommy:
Nothing happened as she said. So cheer up.

Honestly I never asked her self , but she was the one that brought that up .. and I don't know why she keeps saying, she thinks the guy likes her

If you don't want any issue then get her to stay with u in ur apartment.... Man don't give 90% of ur heart to her... Or probably maybe she just wants you to be jealous cos girls hardly review such

Hollandaise:
sometimes u guys misuse the word SIMP, I don't think anything here is simp matter..

Okay, I have no reply for you... if you can't read between the lines.

Payperboii:
I can't trust human, deceit everywhere

this is a girl I have monitored her WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook chats for over 6 months from my device bro, na me even tire, e reach one time, I stopped cos I have not seen anything like she going out or having affairs with any guy

ruzell86:

Okay, I have no reply for you... if you can't read between his lines.

You see the bolded lines at the end of my writeup ? That's just what I'm curious about.. well so are u saying she might have kissed him and lied ?

a simp is about to get flushed in the toilet. first of all, a woman don't need to be on social media to cheat. it's even more easier than that. second if you like check her internal organs, a hoe can never be loyal. she will always find way to chat. third, since she knows you're emotionally invested, she can get easily manipulate you because she knows you're a big fool and you'll believe anything she tells you simply because she lets you checks her phone lol..

your being overprotective will even make it to easy for her to cheat because as long as she shows you her phone, your mumu mind will believe that everything is fine.. leemao.. na your type dey raise another man pikin.

my advice, focus on yourself. a girl that will cheat will cheat.. all this looking for facts won't save you.. wise up man.. no woman on earth is worth going jumping through hurdles for.. you better use your head..

Reminderz:
a simp is about to get flushed in the toilet

be calming down ooo Alfa male. I never asked this girl anything before telling me about the incidence o

Hollandaise:
You see the bolded lines at the end of my writeup ? That's just what I'm curious about.. well so are u saying she might have kissed him and lied ?

The point is... that shouldn't be your worries.... care less about that!

ruzell86:

The point is... that shouldn't be your worries.... care less about that!

Oyaaa nau.. thanks man

Hollandaise:
be calming down ooo Alfa male. I never asked this girl anything before telling me about the incidence o

ehn that's why she will use it against you naa.. her mind is not at rest that's why she tell you because she thinks if I tell him this story myself without him finding out he will believe me.. na strategy guy.. men are stronger and intelligent than women, but women are smarter than men.. use your head guy.. just dey careful .

anyways I modified my previous post

MadamVanessa:



You're so insecure. Even when the girl opened up and tell you even when you did not asked her, that the guy tried kissing her and she refused kissing him, you still stupidly doubt her, that she actually kissed him and lied.

Again, what is so wrong in kissing, is kissing not a form of greeting anymore?

Is either you're too broke or so ugly hence you doubt her loyalty to you. Uselesssss doubters everywhere.


You don't deserve such loyal girl in your life, because I can imagine I Vanessa being kiss by a guy then I report such to my boyfriend.

lol apart from the guy being overprotective which I call him a simp for.. did I just read what you said that kissing is a form of greeting? leemao.. for this Nigeria!? are you mistaken pecking as a greeting sign as kissing? mehn which kind olosho talk be this

lol because she opened up means she's honest abi because she lets him check her phone lemaao.. well what do I expect from a woman before? dem go always support herself for matters like this

Reminderz:

ehn that's why she will use it against you naa.. her mind is not at rest that's why she tell you because she thinks if I tell him this story myself without him finding out he will believe me.. na strategy guy.. men are stronger and intelligent than women, but women are smarter than men.. use your head guy.. just dey careful .

anyways I modified my previous post

ok so are u saying they actually kissed? Just asking because I have monitored her chat for months from another device and she barely text this guy

Hollandaise:
Honestly I never asked her self , but she was the one that brought that up .. and I don't know why she keeps saying, she thinks the guy likes her

She want you to know that the guy is crushing on her. Find time go to her place, meet the guy and let him know that you're dating the girl.

Hollandaise:
ok so are u saying they actually kissed? Just asking because I have monitored her chat for months from another device and she barely text this guy

bro women don't need all these social media appearance before they cheat guy? how many times I wan tell you? when social media never dey, shey women nor dey cheat nii? use your number 6 oo even if they kissed do you think she will tell you? she knows you will cry if she tells you if that actually happened... so she will tell you in a more soothing way so you will still believe she's faithfull.

Shalommy:
She want you to know that the guy is crushing on her. Find time go to her place, meet the guy and let him know that you're dating the girl.

leemao which kind of simpish and mumu idea is that.? that's the girl duty not the guy.. it's the girl that will tell those asking her out that she's not available, not the guy.. so if the guy dey faraway abroad, he go con travel go where his girl dey just to shout on guys disturbing the girl abi

omoo people dey ooo... well what do I expect from a girl?? leemao

Shalommy:
She want you to know that the guy is crushing on her. Find time go to her place, meet the guy and let him know that you're dating the girl.

this guy actually knows me and even she told me that day he tried kissing her that he even asked of me from her

Reminderz:

leemao which kind of simpish and mumu idea is that.? that's the girl duty not the guy.. it's the girl that will tell those asking her out that she's not available, not the guy.. so if the guy dey faraway abroad, he go con travel go where his girl dey just to shout on guys disturbing the girl abi

omoo people dey ooo... well what do I expect from a girl?? leemao

shalommy this guy actually knows me and she told me that day he tried kissing her that he even asked of me from her.. u see why I was just being too curious and why is she insisting I don't tell her friend what happened

Hollandaise:
this guy actually knows me and even she told me that day he tried kissing her that he even asked of me from her

leemao wetin that one con mean? that one nor mean anything oo.. in fact someone you call your best friend can fvck your wife and you won't know.. seems you trust easily... e go shock you..

people like you ends up being used and dumped like thrash.. I pray it's not too late for you to understand

MadamVanessa:



You're so insecure. Even when the girl opened up and tell you even when you did not asked her, that the guy tried kissing her and she refused kissing him, you still stupidly doubt her, that she actually kissed him and lied.

Again, what is so wrong in kissing, is kissing not a form of greeting anymore?

Is either you're too broke or so ugly hence you doubt her loyalty to you. Uselesssss doubters everywhere.


You don't deserve such loyal girl in your life, because I can imagine I Vanessa being kiss by a guy then I report such to my boyfriend.

my curiosity came up when she insisted I don't tell her friend what happened that the guy tried kissing her

Reminderz:

leemao which kind of simpish and mumu idea is that.? that's the girl duty not the guy.. it's the girl that will tell those asking her out that she's not available, not the guy.. so if the guy dey faraway abroad, he go con travel go where his girl dey just to shout on guys disturbing the girl abi

omoo people dey ooo... well what do I expect from a girl?? leemao

Guy, what we see is what we believe. When the guy sees the boyfriend then he'll believe.

Reminderz:

leemao wetin that one con mean? that one nor mean anything oo.. in fact someone you call your best friend can fvck your wife and you won't know.. seems you trust easily... e go shock you..

people like you ends up being used and dumped like thrash.. I pray it's not too late for you to understand

bro that's why I was being curious when she said I should not tell her friend what happened so it won't affect her stay in the house

Shalommy:
Guy, what we see is what we believe. When the guy sees the boyfriend then he'll believe.

leemao.. joke of the century...

Reminderz:
leemao.. joke of the century...

Hollandaise:
this is a girl I have monitored her WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook chats for over 6 months from my device bro, na me even tire, e reach one time, I stopped cos I have not seen anything like she going out or having affairs with any guy

my ex cheated on me with her bestie. Wasn't aware till we broke up. Love God, respect money that's the only thing I can say here.

Payperboii:
my ex cheated on me with her bestie. Wasn't aware till we broke up. Love God, respect money that's the only thing I can say here.

U re valid broda