GooodHardDick:
The idiot wanted you to stick around her as her second option, should in case her boyfriend dumps her, she'll then switch over to you and continue cashing out!

It is a good thing you blocked her immediately. Every guy should learn from this OP. This is 2022 and no guy is expected to simp around.

GooodHardDick:
The idiot wanted you to stick around her as her second option, should in case her boyfriend dumps her, she'll then switch over to you and continue cashing out!

It is a good thing you blocked her immediately. Every guy should learn from this OP. This is 2022 and no guy is expected to simp around.

gentleguy1975:
Afternoon nairalanders,

There is this lady I was dating few years back,it was a long distance relationship but things later went southward (she actually decided to end the relationship even when I still love her so much) However, I still call her occasionally I we usually talk at length but she made it known to me that she won't go back to the relationship I agreed let me add that all these while, she never tell me she had any man in her life, to cut the long story short

On a a particular night I called her and we spoke at length and she told me she wanted to have some naps that she would flash me later, when she finally flashed me and I called back, the voice on the other end was that of a guy introducing himself as her boyfriend, I hung up immediately and blocked her two lines,weeks later, I saw her missed call and when I called back, she sounded very bitter by my decision to block her line! What else does she want again?Was I wrong by blocking her line?

Beebah2000:
You just dey vex say she dey in a relationship and she no tell u.
You no suppose block her na.
That's so childish.

Beebah2000:
You just dey vex say she dey in a relationship and she no tell u.
You no suppose block her na.
That's so childish.

advanceDNA:



She’s stylishly stringing him along by not telling him she’s in a relationship...But to you he’s the one that’s childish...

What’s childish about blocking someone that’s not totally honest with him... if she doesn’t want nothing to do with him, Why is the blocking paining her....it’s her that’s being childish and manipulative

GooodHardDick:
The idiot wanted you to stick around her as her second option, should in case her boyfriend dumps her, she'll then switch over to you and continue cashing out!

It is a good thing you blocked her immediately. Every guy should learn from this OP. This is 2022 and no guy is expected to simp around.

gentleguy1975:
Afternoon nairalanders,

There is this lady I was dating few years back,it was a long distance relationship but things later went southward (she actually decided to end the relationship even when I still love her so much) However, I still call her occasionally I we usually talk at length but she made it known to me that she won't go back to the relationship I agreed let me add that all these while, she never tell me she had any man in her life, to cut the long story short

On a a particular night I called her and we spoke at length and she told me she wanted to have some naps that she would flash me later, when she finally flashed me and I called back, the voice on the other end was that of a guy introducing himself as her boyfriend, I hung up immediately and blocked her two lines,weeks later, I saw her missed call and when I called back, she sounded very bitter by my decision to block her line! What else does she want again?Was I wrong by blocking her line?

advanceDNA:



She’s stylishly stringing him along by not telling him she’s in a relationship...But to you he’s the one that’s childish...

What’s childish about blocking someone that’s not totally honest with him... if she doesn’t want nothing to do with him, Why is the blocking paining her....it’s her that’s being childish and manipulative

Beebah2000:

At least, he should've try to find out why she didn't tell him about her relationship na.
Maybe she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. And besides, they are only friends na.
Him no suppose block her.

Uzomacharles:



You blocked her line but she still gave you some missed calls how?

Beebah2000:

At least, he should've try to find out why she didn't tell him about her relationship na.
Maybe she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. And besides, they are only friends na.
Him no suppose block her.

gentleguy1975:
my brother I no vex say she no tell me wetin I mean be say why him go say make him boyfriend call me for what na? She had already friend zone me and I didn't allow that to affect the way I relate with her

Beebah2000:

you didn't allow that to affect the way u relate with her, then why did you block her??

what is going on here??

"when she finally flashed me and I called back, the voice on the other end was that of a guy introducing himself as her boyfriend."

Stop confusing us ooo

gentleguy1975:
I said the same thing, but she said blocking a line won't prevent flashing and that she had been flashing me for days but I only saw the missed call on my trucaller app

Edyice:
Gentleguy1975 is not Gentle at all

Bae said your turn is over

Let other menz yarsh her na , don't be greedy ..


She's not for you alone


Please let the line they move ... biko

gentleguy1975:
Afternoon nairalanders,

There is this lady I was dating few years back,it was a long distance relationship but things later went southward (she actually decided to end the relationship even when I still love her so much) However, I still call her occasionally I we usually talk at length but she made it known to me that she won't go back to the relationship I agreed let me add that all these while, she never tell me she had any man in her life, to cut the long story short

On a a particular night I called her and we spoke at length and she told me she wanted to have some naps that she would flash me later, when she finally flashed me and I called back, the voice on the other end was that of a guy introducing himself as her boyfriend, I hung up immediately and blocked her two lines,weeks later, I saw her missed call and when I called back, she sounded very bitter by my decision to block her line! What else does she want again?Was I wrong by blocking her line?

gentleguy1975:
Funny enough,she said I was not caring enough and that she had gotten a better option! And guess what, the following morning she sent her account details to me!All because I promise to send money to her before she called off the relationship

oilmane:



You blocked her but you still saw her missed call? bros how who u block fit still take call u?

oilmane:



You blocked her but you still saw her missed call? bros how who u block fit still take call u?

advanceDNA:


It’s his phone..he’s allowed to block anyone that’s annoying him... the question here should be why is blocking annoying her?? She doesn’t want to date him and still want his attention.. is that not witchcraft??

If It’s the guy that’s hiding he has a girlfriend, you will say he’s a cheat that he wants to sleep with with his ex cos she still likes him....

now it’s the girl being manipulative, but you expect the guy to find out the reason why he’s being manipulated....are u sure you are not the girl??

Beebah2000:
hehehehe
I am not the girl.

It is not witchcraft.
Oga Op agreed to stay in friend zone na.
So, she called him because she still want his attention??
And, If she no even bother to call am back, Oga Op go con think say the girl set am up.

Why you no go support your fellow gender?
Birds of the same feather

flokii:
@OP Yes, you did wrong.. you were still nursing feelings towards the girl after she made it clear that she is done with you.
Is it the thought of another man lashing her will big gb0la that made you block her or what? oya confess..

pansophist:
Women do not enter relationship for sex, that's a male thing. Women enter relationship for security, and any man can fulfil that regardless if he is a boyfriend or not. Yes she doesn't want to date you, but your presence in her life supplies her other things such as attention, being an emotional tampon, supplier of cash and as a rebound.

gentleguy1975:
no my brother you don't understand? even when the lady has decided to end the relationship,we still talked and joke but I decided to blocked because her boyfriend was with her the last time we talked! how did I know?we talked on phone till around 11pm and she said she wanted to rest that she would call back, my phone rang after 12am and when I called back it was the guy that picked the call!so I decided to block her because I put myself in the shoes of that guy, I can't tolerate my girl to be too close to any guy like that