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Re: So Unfair To Women by Kobojunkie: 11:02pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Stargurl20:I'd like to remain gender-fluid - have been that way since I signed up back in 2007. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BRATISLAVA: 11:15pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Mothers can only do their part. They are victims of their untrained husbands, who were equally untrained by their fathers and down till the first caveman. But why mothers some decide to propagate such patriarchal destruction remains a mystery. Too much internalization of men's failures in the home and beyond. 1 Like |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BRATISLAVA: 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Imagine that. Fathers need to play a more active role in the lives of their sons. Most abandon their families for women to do everything, not realizing they are depriving their sons of fatherhood and how to be fundamentally good men. Afterwards these same deprived sons will undergo male indoctrination in which they will begin to normalize their fathers negligence and call it "being a man", since they are now "men" and need a place in their dysfunctional world where all of them were brought up by negligent men and need to keep it going in their generation too. A cycle that will only be broken when men decide to be men and not hiding from emotions that they have, and their families. Nigerian women are not in wholesome relationships. Their men are frauds. So don't be surprised at the type of males on the forum. They are dysfunctional, broken, twisted and don't even know it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BRATISLAVA: 11:25pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You? Gender fluid? |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Kobojunkie: 11:28pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:Meaning you can think of me as either male or female ... whichever makes you feel the most comfortable to in our discussions. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BRATISLAVA: 11:40pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: But it is you who decides what gender you are, not us. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Kobojunkie: 11:43pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:Sure, and here I decide to go with whatever you decide. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Echoban: 12:51am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Stargurl20: You aren't in our shoes so u LL never understand Men's sexuality. Na we know how e dey do us, reason why we support each other as brolee in d game.. u talked abt high libido, that's different, men battle with sexual triggers having seen different women, to ladies all Brest and Toto are dsame hence why not stick to one, but In men's eyes they are different, we see it differently hence get arouse with different ladies, women sexual appeal wean off immediately d man ejaculate, he may not even feel anything for the said lady again till maybe next time, but give him another lady asap and see his body panting for more romp. Only men understands this, na why we dey defend ourselves. Folks like u LL b like is it not same thing. Na, it's not . And Love is different from sex, I've sexed plenty ladies but don't love them, only my girlfriend I love( she's not here but I'm been honest I love her,) , shey one day she LL catch me red handed and say I don't love her ni?? Nop I do but nature will always find a way in men's nature. It is what it is.. to level it up we even have the money,the charisma, the cunny wisdom to get whatever lady we want.. Just take nature like that and stop giving urself unnecessary headache. U can't understand us. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 1:13am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Are men exempt from raising kids? Let’s hold the dad’s accountable before the moms Kobojunkie: |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 1:17am On Mar 12, 2022 |
AmazonTopaz:even as you’re showing them, they are arguing with you 7 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Nobody: 2:19am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Stargurl20: A lady up there literally called the men in nairaland a "bunch of idiots who lack home training" and rather than call her out for this demeaning and generalizing remark, you're saying "she only stated the fact"?? .... And yet you'll be the one to cry foul and scream "it's unfair" when men reciprocate this insults, how hypocritic .... |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Kobojunkie: 4:27am On Mar 12, 2022 |
cococandy:Most Nigerian men have proven themselves incapable where it concerns the proper raising of their own offspring. Should women, who keep fathering children by these men, not take it on themselves to step up and cover the slack? How do you hold ego driven dads who themselves don't even understand or see the problem since they were not trained to, accountable for that which they lack understanding of? How do you go about convincing a man who has been indoctrinated, this from his childhood, to believing himself a god to women, that he is no indeed a god? Children are malleable, and the only persons with at least some understanding of the problem are women who have for many generations have to endure the bullying of the men folk. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Stargurl20(f): 6:45am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Hmm |
Re: So Unfair To Women by Stargurl20(f): 6:46am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Echoban:Smiles. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 7:09am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING:Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2 and 19 This is the same Notorious troll cloning and defaming me and others on here, this is one of his alternate accounts he has on this forum, he also has some old accounts that haven't been banned too
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Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 7:10am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING:Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2 and 19 This is the same Notorious troll cloning and defaming me and others on here, this is one of his alternate accounts he has on this forum, he also has some old accounts that haven't been banned too
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Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 7:16am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING:Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2 and 19 This is the same Notorious troll cloning and defaming me and others on here, this is one of his alternate accounts he has on this forum, he also has some old accounts that haven't been banned too
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Re: So Unfair To Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:52am On Mar 12, 2022 |
BeanmanX:What's this? |
Re: So Unfair To Women by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:32am On Mar 12, 2022 |
cococandy:... Good morning Coco.Are you indirectly supporting what one of the posters said when she called all men here bunch of idiots that lacks home training? You are one the few ladies I respect here but for you not cautioning her is really bad. Can't we atleast comment here without generally insulting everybody because we want to be seen as what I don't even understand? Must every discussion here start with insults and end with it? Atimes I get discouraged commenting here because of issues like this. Somebody who cannot even walk up to you in real life will hide under a faceless forum,threw caution to the wind and starts insulting everybody and some of you cheers him or her up.. We all should have a rethink about this. Stay blessed. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BRATISLAVA: 9:43am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Lol. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 9:53am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Stargurl20:That nobieking coward is a troll and I had to report him |
Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 10:09am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING:Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2 and 19 This is the same Notorious troll cloning and defaming me and others on here, this is one of his alternate accounts he has on this forum, he also has some old accounts that haven't been banned too
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Re: So Unfair To Women by BeanmanX(m): 10:10am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING:Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2 and 19 This is the same Notorious troll cloning and defaming me and others on here, this is one of his alternate accounts he has on this forum, he also has some old accounts that haven't been banned too
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Re: So Unfair To Women by Arsenate(m): 10:23am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Favfables1:Just the reason why no reasonable person should give a fuckkc about the moaning from the women on here. They enjoy bashing men, literally cheer each other on while at it, but they can't seem to take a fraction of what they dish out. Cry some more, @ op. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by apatheticme(f): 12:03pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Word!!!!!!!! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
What are you talking about? The person I responded to said no such thing. Not even close. How did you jump from what I posted into the conclusion that I’m supporting “one of the posters” whose post I may not even have seen? I’ve literally not even been on the thread to see who posted what. Also I wish you’d be this concerned and call out your brethren when they generalize. But no, you’re more concerned about telling me how to react to certain posters. You want me to “caution” someone for saying men lack home training. How many times have you cautioned anyone insulting women here? The audacity you have to have in order to think that I’m supposed to be responsible for ensuring the posters here uphold men’s respect when you don’t feel the need to do the same for women JONNYSPUTE: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Unfair To Women by GloriousGbola: 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
cococandy: Well er.. You and poco are like er. the lead amazons of the vagenda alliance/brigade of the great holy emasulation/manocide so.. We call on you to bring these disrespectful wrenches to order! |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 12:33pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Okay what I’m understanding from this is that since some men don’t show interest in raising kids, then we should just give up on them and blame the moms some more? I don’t think you’re entirely wrong for saying moms should try to raise kids differently than the generations prior. However I’m always pushed to react when I see anyone leaving it all up to the moms as if we’ve collectively agreed that dads don’t need to be bothered about raising kids rights. That’s where I’m coming from. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Interpretation: you think I owe the manosphere some duty of protecting their respect against anyone who would want to disrespect them? You couldn’t be any further from the truth if you tried. It’s never been and will never be my responsibility. I won’t even try small because y’all enjoy disrespecting us. When I see you guys put the same energy towards respecting women, maybe it will be reciprocated 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So Unfair To Women by cococandy(f): 12:38pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Beremx: Ah this is the post you wanted me to call out? Cc johnnyspute. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:48pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
cococandy:...Is ok. Thank you Ma'am. |
Re: So Unfair To Women by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:54pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
cococandy:...Yes.and to be honest with you,I wouldn't have said or complained about it if she didn't generalize .We have so many responsible men and women here and if we should allow something's like this, then we ve all lost it. But it's fine. I understand and I will do my best to respect both men and women here. Stay blessed. |
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