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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Slynation(m): 1:23pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Timoleon:Omo...I tried as much as possible to avoid there wahala after the last encounter, I've got an issue with one about 2years back on a christmas eve when me and my sis went for Christmas shopping...!! For the barrow guy to cross the goods to the other side of the road where we parked, one agbero guy jumped from nowhere and charged us 1k5...Omo I shock, I asked him, then how much will I now pay the barrow guy?? his response was "nkaa gbasara gi" (na that one concern you) I was thinking he was even joking with the price but Baba was serious...!! Me self wey dey vex say prices of goods don skyrocket all because of Christmas, I just told him that I won't pay more than #500, he said then we won't pass, say make I carry the load for head...!! Ahhh, I just gave my sister my phone and the car key and told her to go wait for me... I quickly switched to Onitsha slangs + Hausa slangs, I notice say fear come catch the guy small, but e no wan looseguard himself because people don dey gather small small, I told him to collect the 500 if not I will pass through and he won't receive shi-shi, but he was adamant, I told the barrow guy let's go, then the idiot now removed one item from the barrow, na so I follow am, pin am with my left hand for wall, make I launch am better blows for face but I just hang my punch for air, I guess he clearly got the message, then one of their senior came and asked what happened, I explained to him and he cautioned the guy that the charge is too much, that he should collect the 500 and be going...!! When I got home,I began to reason things, shey if say this guy hold gun or knife now, naso e for shoot or stab me all because of 1k5...!! I realized I allowed my emotions to get the best of me, since then, I began to comport myself around those people...!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Elijah74(m): 1:24pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
That's life |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by 1Sharon(f): 1:24pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
It's in men's instinct to protect women... I think it's cute sha |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Hmmmm! Women n sympathy are like five and six. Sometimes you pity them, sometimes I realise that there r the worldz problem! It's not a man's fault that he covets the body of a women. Men are biologically wired that way! So sad. Adam got chased from heaven cause how eve lured him to disobey God! That's why God made it clear in both bible n Qur'an. Man covets women B4 everyother thing in life. Any man who can controls this will be able to control nearly all his problems in life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Find an Igbo man he has no problem helping his fellow man just don’t be lazy. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
BabaJoe001:Mumu You don't have capacity for logical reasoning. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by OgunkeelAllMod: 1:26pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Mostly Simpson geng..guys who simp to girls and ladies way too much and at every opportunity are usually The type who do such despicable stuff very common in naija here. if I know you are The type,walahi,if your ONLY CHILD IS DYING,and I were the only one who could help out, I'll rather let him die!!!!so you'll learn an everlasting lesson of life you would never forget ..infact may their pockets run dry!I so much hate guy who do such only to be pandering to some stupid, harebrained girls somewhere . anything for the skirt and blouse bastard lot! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by emmyw(m): 1:27pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
They Prefer Helping Ladies, I Have Many Of Them..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Nyascobar1414: 1:30pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
In banks I see more undeserving women, In schools same... All for s*xual gratifications in return... If your gf or wife is a banker pele oo 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by victooman: 1:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Iyaebe:you are a fool, in fact u dont have sense, what that guy raise is a valid point stop been a slowpoke 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by AZControversial(m): 1:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
spydera: This line no be here oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Obastick: 1:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Its because the hrt of a man is extremely wicked. No be me talk am oo |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by CSNg: 1:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Sorry poster! It is encounters like yours that made me get a taser for myself. I can't be caught in a situation where I will be molested and manhandled by anyone anyhow. The taser is disguised as a phone so when your attacker(s) are at it, you simply make the top have contact on his skin (whether clothed or unclothed) and it will send about 250volts of non lethal electricity shock waves on his body and you can free yourself from their grip which will immobilize them for like 10mins or thereabout which is enough time for you to make your escape. You should get yours. Peppers Sprays are also available. Ladies can also get theirs to ward off rapists. Check my signature.
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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by nedekid: 1:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
nickyj19:In other words, op should have come as a woman 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Tzar(m): 1:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
This is the circle of assumptions that make men not help men. 1. If a man comes to you for help & you automatically assume that such a man will ONLY help women if he was in your shoes, then you are part of the problem. 2. Money is a store of value & you just don’t want to fritter away that store of value. Believe it or not, men who give to mostly or only women are exchanging or expect to later exchange their store of value for another thing they consider valuable. Most times this is SEX or romance. This is why you will notice that most of these men also don’t help ugly, wrinkled, OLD WOMEN too. The lesson here is, since you don’t have the potential to be such men’s sex mate, you need to make yourself valuable in other ways. This way, they will have justification to give away their store of value. lecturer50: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Burgerlomo: 1:35pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
The reason why they don't bother to help you is because you don't have anything to offer them 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by emekachief: 1:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Who else except MEN but believe me, before 2040 women will dominate men all over the world. Many women are yet to realize the power they possess over men. Men too mumu , One married man gave my young sis Benz last year and even do visa for her to Uk just because of Less than 5 minutes se.x. Thank God I have sisters helping me. CSTRR: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by kingyakos: 1:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Research the meaning of the word LAODICEA you will understand why women do get help than men. It's a Greek word though |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Ybaby: 1:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: Sorry for the beat up .... hope you are healing nicely. Why have we never had a female president? Why do men not menstruate? Why do men not breastfeed? Look at your muscle! You are stronger than most women. Women are adults but the bodies we have been given is enticing and fragile that is why apart from intelligence we are useless at war..... just like children are useless at war. So men help women because women are fragile! Are you fragile? I wish someone had helped you but understand that you can be the governor of your state here in Nigeria but I as a woman I cannot. Infact if my hubby is a foreigner he cannot be a Nigerian citizen as easily as your foreign wife. I have some things stacked in my favour just like you have some things stacked in your favour. Now man up! Chin up and be a man! Will ya ? |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by rollandben(m): 1:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50:I thought as much bro, women takes it all since the life of Adam! Respect and flee from women's trouble whebever you see it coming |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by drimzsmoke(m): 1:38pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Because a man knows how a man thinks....by trying to help a man,you might crushed his ego....trust me,I hate people helping me especially men,I have a female friend I tell all my problems too and borrow money from when broke |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by linearity: 1:38pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: Don’t you see the contraction in your first two paragraphs? I’m on hand, you stated that most men don’t help their female men, and immediately after that you stated that, but if those men need help they run to another man for it and not women. So, if women don’t help men when they are in problem as you stated, it only means that they are been help by men…ie most men! |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by McAausim: 1:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Naso one guy man carry motor the oppress us for area, anytime we dey for junctions dey wait to go work, dey guy go drive eh Toyota corolla dey pass us, but e dey carry lady for motor go town free ooo, we agbada hook for wire dey motor com enter inside gutter dey d junctions naso guy man com close to us say mak we help am pull dey front tyre from gutter ooo naso one bros tell am say make eh go call dose lady we're eh normally carry for junctions go inside town to help am pull out dey front tyre ooo... before we no guy don't dey yan akpata for us ooo... we gather beat am still put am inside dey gutter ooo no body help am ooo... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Maj196(m): 1:40pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Life's tough for men. As a man you must figure life out by yourself. Whatever happens is on you. That's just how nature works |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by EMIOMOADEOYE: 1:41pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: Let me help you out of your quandary As a man, an ordinary man, a stranger man, you have nothing to offer Nothing to give. You are of no value. Observe that the moment everybody knows you are the son of a chief or that you are a person of importance, everybody wants to help you. It doesn't matter whether you are wrong or right. Everybody wants to help you. By default, all women have something to offer. Without meaning to sound sexist, every woman has something that a man wants. So by default, a man will help a woman out because instinctively there is some kind of attraction. Its nature. Be a person of perceivable value and you wont have to worry 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Johel(m): 1:43pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: I prefer being friends with gay because they render assistance unconditionally, once they like u,they might not even bother u much,but u see these straight stone headed guys,so hypocritical and selfish,they will see their home boy going thru hard times, they will never help but they can become a fool to a 19years old small girl...reason being many men fall anyhow...They say u too go hustle as if all hands are equal, today fit be your turn, tomorrow might be anothers. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Acidbath: 1:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Ediot ... 2 Likes
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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Newboss(m): 1:45pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
It's called simping. This is why we Keep talking about simping but una no go hear. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Munzy14(m): 1:48pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
helinues:When you reconciled with the guy, what stopped you from going downstairs with the guy to go stop whatever is happening? If them get sense they should distance themselves from you.. You aren't a good human. If they acted like you, those guys would av handled you like a criminal, then you will open thread to castigate friendships. Anyway wahala for who he is keeping a Buhari supporter as friend...No conscience.
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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by skultrick(m): 1:56pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
nakotee: So because of the little change wey you get, you're now feeling like God. I pity you. Better go and modify that nonsense you spilled, it's filled with so much pride. God hates pride. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by OgunkeelAllMod: 1:57pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:same here man,thump up! avoid friendship with any known simp too! |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by ButterBurger: 1:58pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Because fellow man nor get pussy |
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