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Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by gistmega: 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Please go on your knees and thank that your brother. all those people that you envy, envy you. You do not know the protection that he gifts you. Facebook and all those shees are not healthy for you. Stay on your books and skills. No other man would care for you the way that man does. He is protecting you from wolves. They are out to eat you and use you. Mid-teens should be busy with building a career path. In my teen we had none of those. Not a Phone, not the internet and we made it. That brother of yours is God's sent. Do what is expected of you and in time, he will grant you your freedom when you are wise enough to handle the pressure. Imagine if you were one of those girls beheaded and their parts used for rituals. If they had parents like your brother, they would have been be safe. Anyone advising you to go against your brother cannot give you a pint of what you brother gives you. ey want you to be as useless as they are. I wish that I could meet our brother to thank him on your behalf. Atimjessy: |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by chibrolex(m): 11:45am On Mar 14, 2022 |
since u don't want to hear from all this people's advice and contributions,it's ok run come my place i will buy u phone,link u up to facebook and whatsapp since that is all u want at ur age..............u just dey talk because u still dey chop for ur brother house and u neva suffer,abeg who facebook and whatsapp help, abi u wan join online ashawo abi na yahoo yahoo.Abeg sent ur account no make i send u transport to my house. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Ishilove: 11:48am On Mar 14, 2022 |
NoToPile:So you're female? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by NoToPile: 11:54am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ishilove: Yes ooo do I sound like a male ni |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by peedeeasobie(m): 11:57am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Comradewhy: She is probably 13 or 14 and you are giving her this type of advice? You are either also in your teens or a very mischievous adult or you are joking! She should go where and start life, a teenager? What is a girl of 13 or 14 doing with Facebook or WhatsApp that is so important that will make her leave her leave home if she is not allowed to use them? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Olayetan(m): 12:06pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Mid teens, like you're still below 17, that your brother loves you so much, he knows whatz on the internet N that's why he's keeping you away from it. It will be best you follow his instructions and don't feel caged, you still have many years ahead to explore internet to your satisfaction. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Olayetan(m): 12:08pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Are you a teenager? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by olakan22: 12:16pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: You're in your mid-teens and you typed this somewhat flawless post? You must be very brilliant. Sorry, nothing to say about you and and your brother. All the best |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by LordReed(m): 12:21pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: What do you need Facebook and WhatsApp for? Shouldn't you be studying for your WAEC/JAMB/UTME? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
why dont u tell us ur age and class? from there we will know what to say |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by iInjureHerYansh: 12:53pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:How old are you? If you are above 18 I got a trick that might work. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by HelipsTech: 1:03pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
You brother has psychological problems, he has issues with trust, he has rendered many gals useless and given them heartbreaks,hence he doesn't want that for you. Thats not love, if he wants to protect you, is to teach you the Disadvantages of all his keeping you away from, otherwise you will learn it else where, and u may not learn the correct one |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by CashVessel(m): 1:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
He may be too strict, not allowing you have an FB account, but he's right if you don't have WhatsApp account. What should a teen be doing with a smart phone. You don't need it now and si you don't need WhatsApp if you aren't up to sixteen . Everyone is doing it doesn't make it right. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by CashVessel(m): 1:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
He may be too strict, not allowing you have an FB account, but he's right if you don't have WhatsApp account. What should a teen be doing with a smart phone. You don't need it now and si you don't need WhatsApp if you aren't up to sixteen ( 16). Everyone is doing it doesn't make it right, you need to focus on your plans for the future. He can get you a laptop which is good, but going online should be controlled and for constructive purposes. Spend time reading; read one book every month and you will thank me by the time you're 18 cos you will discover how much more you know more than your mates. He sure loves you, even if he may not express it well, his intentions are real. I am a teen teacher so I know what m talking about. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:14pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:How old are you? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by brandsoncharlie: 2:26pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:You won't think of assisting your brother with his business if he has one or going to look for a job like salesperson be there and think of social media. When you get to your early to mid twenties you will understand how this world works. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by November24(f): 2:36pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: Open your cage na Till u get Belle. Wish I had a brother who did that for me 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by GloriousGbola: 2:40pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
LordReed: We all came out on this one. Liberals and Conservatives alike |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by macrodata(m): 2:44pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:That explains a lot. It's the best thing for you. Trust me, all these things you are crying for are operated and has put too many people in trouble. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Deckracer: 2:59pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
How old are you |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by MikeBetty(m): 3:21pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Comradewhy:leave his house to where? Can you provide accomodation for her? What decission will a teenager make? Did you care to know the age of that girl? That guy didn't want devils online to influence her. That guy has constitutional right to decide for the girl till she reach age of consent (18). He is playing his role very well by keeping her away from online bad influences. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Salihusaliheen(m): 3:34pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
He didn't wanna afford to lose u,I guess u are the only sister right? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by IamGreen1(f): 3:36pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Comradewhy: What she love may not be the best for her. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by iamL(f): 4:00pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: My dad and older siblings was like your brother and I felt like you then envying my friends, but when I became of age and till now am forever grateful they raised me that way. Those friends I was envying them are the ones envying me even before we all got adulthood. Is for your own good just go along with his discipline. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by makson007: 4:03pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Comradewhy:Bad advice |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Mariangeles(f): 4:26pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Iya ebe! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nyceguy92: 4:26pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
[quote author=Atimjessy post=111000025] Social media are a distraction. What's even your purpose of joining the social media at your stage in life? It may surprise you that although I am qualified to join as many social media as I want, I do not belong to any. The only forum I belong to is Nairaland. Even then, I go to specific sections where mature people discuss problems and solutions. In this age of information explosion, you will be so overwhelmed by the amount of information overload from social media to the extent that you become addicted and lose focus. Your brother means well. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Mariangeles(f): 4:44pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: Be patient. Don’t be in a hurry to grow up. Take your time. Why the rush? And who are those sending you money, and why can’t they send it through your brother’s account? Do you have something to hide? Why the sneaking around? Your brother is doing the right thing after all. He knows you better and what you’re capable of, that’s why he’s trying to protect you. Like big brothers do. Even this nairaland you registered in is dangerous for you. It might mess you up. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Tony142: 5:02pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy: Is your parents still alive? If yes, where are they? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Odunharry(m): 5:27pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ishilove:Nice input.. I just hope she won't leave the brother like one of the posters suggested. |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Ishilove: 5:35pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Odunharry:She wants to leave him to where exactly? |
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