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My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Brytexbaby: 7:47am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Good morning everyone. I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years. We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts. He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice. My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this. What are the side effects of this drug? How can I help him with this addiction? Please help! Thank you 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by falcon01: 7:52am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Ahh!! Tramadol!! It has extreme side effects. I'm pretty sure it causes epilepsy. 86 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Sammy101111(m): 7:56am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Have deleted my post if you like listen and if you like dont listen . Addiction is different from prostitution People that even go to ara or yaba left are they not human being and the funniest thing is they end up being successful. One of my relatives was a addicted to smoking he went to ara for 6 month now he works on a vessel . the lowest money he sent to me any time i wine him and ask for money na 30k . he will just tell me manage it but dont use my money drink oh lol.. If people dont change they can't become a better person Addiction can be changed Prostitution is a decision from the mind and body 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by MAGG0T(m): 7:57am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Smoking for 15years? You really wanna be a widow at a young age. You're already sitting on a keg of gun powder if you still continue with such relationship and it ends into marriage. It's much like advising a yahoo boy to quit his source of livelihood 203 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Disclaimer12: 7:59am On Mar 16, 2022 |
He's on the road to destruction! Do all u can to help him quit the addiction, though your s@x life might never be the same again! Rumors has it that smoking w&&d and taking tram can make u shag like a porn Star! U might come back here and report him for being a 40secs man after he quit the addiction! The choice is yours all the same 114 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Danibonk(m): 7:59am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Aunty just say the truth you are dickmatise. I believe with my experience those guys that take tramadol Fck like a p0nr star8) 133 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Brytexbaby: 8:01am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Danibonk:I don't agree with you on this 18 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Brytexbaby: 8:03am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Sammy101111: I'm trying not to make him feel bad about it. I know he wants to stop, but he feels he can't. I'm just tired of this. If I threaten him, he might start trying to hide it more. I don't want to feel he has changed whereas he hasn't 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Danibonk(m): 8:04am On Mar 16, 2022 |
My guy is into this shit Brytexbaby: 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Rubyjade: 8:09am On Mar 16, 2022 |
You are about to marry a druggie Brytexbaby:Google it 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Fedrick100: 8:09am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Stopping the addition is not easy especially Tramadol.if he don’t take it aday he won’t have strength to do anything,to sleep sef will be difficult for him I have cousin brothers that take tramadol and I can tell you how weak they always feel if they haven’t taken the drug 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Sammy101111(m): 8:10am On Mar 16, 2022 |
I understand how you feel but you have to keep trying let him he should stop the tramadole it can lead to strock in the future . make him realise you love everything about him but not drugs . You need to find time and sit him down for an hour and telling him to change it you walk away it is a risk then take it Brytexbaby: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by NobleSeed(m): 8:12am On Mar 16, 2022 |
this one is strong!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Agricmoney(m): 8:15am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Hmmm the thing is that he can’t just stop it suddenly and you have to be by his side to help him in the withdrawal effects. Anyway, Agriculture is life. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by omotoshodontee1: 8:16am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Run for ur life, drugs addiction no be ur mate wey u fit chase easily... 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by ugosilva: 8:19am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Chaiii...Water don pass garri Check out this post => https://www.nairaland.com/7031355 that points out some of the addictions that scatters relationships and Marriages nowadays 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Tallesty1(m): 8:22am On Mar 16, 2022 |
If your man abuses tram then I think it's the tramadol that needs help. We help the abused not the abuser. Tramadol wellbeing matters 26 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Maxie110(m): 8:28am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Disclaimer12: The major reason she doesn't wana quit is S@X 14 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by shilenji(m): 8:29am On Mar 16, 2022 |
He reduced to twice a day!? Lmaoooooooo 14 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by slickycee: 8:44am On Mar 16, 2022 |
But why did you still decide to date him after everything. Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused . My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him. The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities. (Parents, church leaders, even the government ) From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict. The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol. Stop trying to control his life, Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing. Quit trying to save people, you can't. The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him . He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now. Which enables the addiction The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention, If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader. Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful. The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it. So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones. I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love. So do as you please, may God see you through 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by toujurs: 8:46am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Leave now. Don't waste your time unneccessarily, you deserve better, and you have tried your best. Your life can only get better, when you have a partner who understands and has same vision or related vision as you do. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by omotoshodontee1: 8:47am On Mar 16, 2022 |
slickycee:u better listen to this advice..like I said earlier, addiction no be ur mate 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Brytexbaby: 9:04am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Amen. Thank you [quote author=slickycee post=111080216]But why did you still decide to date him after everything. Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused . My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him. The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities. (Parents, church leaders, even the government ) From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict. The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol. Stop trying to control his life, Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing. Quit trying to save people, you can't. The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him . He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now. Which enables the addiction The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention, If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader. Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful. The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it. So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones. I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love. So do as you please, may God see you through 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by luminouz(m): 9:18am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Nawa I wonder how guys and girls use this shiit for libido enhancement. The one time I used it as a pain reliever...I slept off like a new born baby. My dick no even rise at all. Same with NESCAFÉ that makes people stay up all night reading, I almost failed PHY 101 due to this. For 9am exam, I woke up by 8:30am after taking NESCAFÉ the previous night and ran to exam without bathing or brushing my teeth. I didn't revise or read for that exam. Which Kain body I get sef. I'm sure if I ever use Viagra....na to sleep like a pregnant hippo too. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by NaughtyBrainiac: 9:19am On Mar 16, 2022 |
That daily consumption is too high my sister. He needs rehabilitation. Try and go through rehabilitation with him. 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by BarrElChapo(m): 9:19am On Mar 16, 2022 |
When he graduates to opiods, crack coke, meth & co. don't say you didn't see the signs though A rehab is where he needs to go to. You do not have the skillset required to help an addiction recovery. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by IKBARUTEN11(m): 9:19am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Find a way and discourage him from abusing drugs or quit the relationship Else, you will soon be abused by him |
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by 9jayes: 9:19am On Mar 16, 2022 |
He will never change that’s d bitter truth 5 Likes
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