HYDEEE:
Stop saying things you have no knowledge about with a loud voice.

Pecoleee345:
Should A Wife Be Allowed To Take A Big Decision Without Informing Her In-law?

Good afternoon everybody.i will make this short as possible.

A friend of mine just died in luth (cause of that was anemia). He was operated upon and they told his wife to get blood (2 r.o) for transfusion after the procedure but due to being a jehova witness she decided not to get the blood (jehova witness don't take blood,is against there faith).

She had a back and forth about the blood with the doctors and was asked to sign incase anything happen which she sign without the husband family knowledge....it was only her and her fellow jehova witness that took the decision.

He passed away this midnight, she called her in-law to inform them and I also got the information from the deceased younger brother.

On getting here the family found out the surgery was successful but he died of anemia, the doctors told them it was the wife decision not to get him blood against there prescriptions and infact she signed taking responsibility if anything happens.

A serious fight is happening here, the family are claiming she killed there son which I totally agree to as well.

So this my question, should a wife be allowed to take such a big decision without informing the husband family first.

Note; it was her in-laws that were paying the hospital bills.

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

longetivity:
That is how one Jehovah witness woman died one time in my area because she didn't go to the hospital for treatment when she was seriously sick. Bunch of ignorant mfs

nkemchineke:
The stupid thing about the JW doctrine is,,: when this same pple go abroad, they cant tell the doctor not to use another person Blood. They dare not. Is only in Nigeria JW they do this nonsense.

Swissgoldtrader:
If you bear a child would have wished this for your only SON Just wondering!!!

Swissgoldtrader:
You always sound depraved!! Did your in-laws show you shege?? Haba be empathetic!!

Dshocker:
Am disappointed in you.

Am one of those people that are against in-laws fighting a wife over her husband's properties,but you see this ba!!!,i no go gree, because this is not normal,she killed him period.

Shevchenkko:
Sorry to say but ypur assertion makes no sense at all.

scobaba:
People dey ooo are u serious

nkemchineke:
The stupid thing about the JW doctrine is,,: when this same pple go abroad, they cant tell the doctor not to use another person Blood. They dare not. Is only in Nigeria JW they do this nonsense.

prophetfire:
. The witnesses believe that there should be no transfusion for the child but the law was against it. That's what I mean.

That was why the state took over the treatment of the baby and administered blood transfusion to the little girl.
If the baby had died, the state would have charged her because they said she shouldn't make such decisions for a minor as the child belongs to the state, her being the parent notwithstanding.

They also said that it's only a grown adult that can personally make such decisions for himself or herself only as the case may be and that such decisions can't be made by proxy.
It can only be recognized like in the case of that dead man if he had made a written instructions prior to his being unconscious.
Where this is not done, the state makes the decision as the decision maker in a matter that has to do with life taking.

nkemchineke:
Oga shut up. You dont have the right. Yu dont even have the right to kill yourself.
The doctors have all right to save you.

Marvellsmart:
I sincerely hope u talk this trash if that man happens to be your brother.

grandstar:
A parents holy or righteousness standing before Jehovah makes them holy before him (1 Cor 7.12-14). Even one parent, not even 2, righteous standing before is enough to make them holy.

This will be so until when they are old enough to start "carrying their own load" (Galatians 6:5)

shantti:

What about the man himself, did u ever considered that he would have consented to the blood transfusion if he had the chance to.

Stanfeelings:

THIS MIGHT HAPPEN TO YOU, I PRAY U ACCEPT IT SO. YOU ARE MEAN. SO NA ONLY THE WOMAN GO BURY AM NOW?

emmanuelbrown26:

I think she left yaba left some months ago

izibili44:
..we need send am go back

Pecoleee345:

The husband too is also a jehova witness but he didn't take the decision clearly cause he was semi conscious.

emmanuelbrown26:

U are right, let me see if I can put call across before hijacking her to d hospital.

Kobojunkiee:
If the man in fact signed a DPA like so JWs do when they join the organization, there is little to nothing the state government can do without violating his rights as a person..

Datikwerreboi:

She sin alone she didn't sin with me lol

Pecoleee345:

The doctors had no fault oooo.....it was after the surgery they found out he is a JW infact they said if they knew earlier they won't have done the surgery...The top consultant that did the surgery was really angry.

Pecoleee345:
Should A Wife Be Allowed To Take A Big Decision Without Informing Her In-law?

Good afternoon everybody.i will make this short as possible.

A friend of mine just died in luth (cause of that was anemia). He was operated upon and they told his wife to get blood (2 r.o) for transfusion after the procedure but due to being a jehova witness she decided not to get the blood (jehova witness don't take blood,is against there faith).

She had a back and forth about the blood with the doctors and was asked to sign incase anything happen which she sign without the husband family knowledge....it was only her and her fellow jehova witness that took the decision.

He passed away this midnight, she called her in-law to inform them and I also got the information from the deceased younger brother.

On getting here the family found out the surgery was successful but he died of anemia, the doctors told them it was the wife decision not to get him blood against there prescriptions and infact she signed taking responsibility if anything happens.

A serious fight is happening here, the family are claiming she killed there son which I totally agree to as well.

So this my question, should a wife be allowed to take such a big decision without informing the husband family first.

Note; it was her in-laws that were paying the hospital bills.

Kobojunkie:
So where Jesus Christ, the one who is God's own New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, said, more than twice that everyone must be born-again in order to enter into the Kingdom of God, you are instead saying that Paul, a mere man, created for you lot a way around the Word of God Himself?

I am afraid you have been deceived. There are no such thing as Holy Parents, that idea was of the Old Covenant Law of Moses, and those who were descended from the blood of Jacob as expressed in Malachi, and not of Jesus Christ who instead warned that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. And the rule according to Jesus Christ is no one can enter the Kingdom of God unless he/she believes and is born-again. That rule applies to everyone, even those born to those who are followers of Jesus Christ.

Again, Holy Parents, holy children, holy fk... these are all delusions of men and not of Jesus Christ.

grandstar:
If you say children can't be born again, that is true. What does it mean to be born again? Does the Bible say "accepting Jesus Christ as your lord and savior"?

Do you believe every righteous person is going to heaven?